Do you have a fetish? Why do you think you have it?

[zombiejoe]

I like biting.
I don't know why, I just do.

You like it because it's god damn hot that's why.

OT:

1. Yes. Light domination, upskirts, and... well, loli, but I don't like to indulge that one....

2. A lot of it probably comes from my social awkwardness throughout school. Without any outlet for my romantic and sexual desires, I wound up obsessing over certain things. The upskirt thing is probably just a left over from elementary school, and maybe my first goal for exploring my desires while in secret (no I never went around looking up skirts -- but I thought about it). Now that all I have to do is ask, it feels sort of like a personal victory.

The light dom thing is also related to my unsociability in school. Even now I sometimes feel like my efforts at interaction and friendship are presumptuous. It was crippling in high school. I held on to a crush for the same girl for 7 years because I just knew that if I asked her out I'd mess up and ruin it. Or because I wasn't good enough and she'd laugh in my face. So when someone else is in control, I can't possibly mess up. I'm not even doing anything, just taking it. And I know she wants everything that's happening because she's the one forcing it on me.

I've always felt more comfortable around people younger than me; I feel like I have the upper hand, you see, where I usually feel inferior around my peers. This was true when I was about 10 too, and through various channels I'd rather not talk about I was given a crash course in sex and sexuality, mixing probably inappropriately mature desires with a crushing need for a attention. I may have misplaced my newfound desires on chicks that I wasn't so threatened by... but of course those feelings remained unrequited, so, in a manner similar to the upskirt thing, I now see the idea of getting a young girl... as sort of a long awaited victory... but my girlfriend shows me that I don't need that kind of childish fantasy anymore. She satisfies me. And I don't think about that stuff so much anymore.

Well that was story time with Summer. Hope you enjoyed it. Because that's all you're gonna get.

Your tale gives us inspiration and understanding.
Thank you Summer, see you in the Nitosphere.

 

[zombiejoe]

well
1)does being furry count as fetish xD?(but i dont have strange fetishes in bed xD, expect if gay is onelol)
2)I always loved how animals looked, and i loved characters from cartoons that were anthro, i still love crash bandicoot xD

Furry is a fetish

 

[murderxthexcase]

Sigh, okay here goes.

1. Latex, stockings, BDSM, costumes.

2. I lived a very sheltered upbringing and my parents didn't really talk much about sex. But as far as I can remember most of them came out of pretty much nowhere. Although my desire to be dominant probably comes from being bullied at school between the ages of 5 and 16.

1: Yeah, and it kinda bugs me. I understand (after years of attempting to be rid of it) that it's part of me that I can never really get rid of, but still, its existence just disturbs me a bit.

2: .....I wish I knew. Probably gonna look up a good shrink someday and have them help me figure it out.

I actually know how you feel here dude. I used to be scared of mine but then eventually I just got like, "meh, wtf, i don't care". It's a better approach in the long run. Once you realise that you're not the only person like that, it makes things easier.

 

[OctoH]

1. Yes
2. My ex got me into it.

 

[LaMer]

HEAVY BASS. Seriously, I cant get enough. The musical component, not the fish.

 

[crimson5pheonix]

HEAVY BASS. Seriously, I cant get enough. The musical component, not the fish.

I love that topics like this force people to clarify statements.

 

[Caligulove]

1) I don't know really how to describe it other than I'm attracted to 'foreign' women. Not really race, but more like anything besides Scandinavian. Diversity fetish? I've dated other women from scandinavian backgrounds, but I'm more interested in women that are different than me- different accents, skin color or even small cultural differences. That and asses

2) I don't really know. Maybe because I grew up in predominately white, scandinavian or germanic areas whether its family from Uppsala or in Minnesota- so now I'm excited to the point of sexual interest to someone that's just different
Might also be some kind of biological urge to spread diversity? No idea, but I'm quite happy with the fine Indian ass I'm getting right now

 

[InnerRebellion]

Snow White. Not the character, but the thought of the girl dressing up as a rather slutty Snow White really gets me.
Why? No clue.

 

[torzath]

Yes, multiple.
An experience at summer camp caused one of them.

 

[aegix drakan_v1legacy]

I actually know how you feel here dude. I used to be scared of mine but then eventually I just got like, "meh, wtf, i don't care". It's a better approach in the long run. Once you realise that you're not the only person like that, it makes things easier.

Yeah, really. That's what helped me. Finding out I was not the only one, and the others I'd met were well balanced and smart people. That helped me stop thinking I was nuts.

 

[MagicMouse]

I have 3.

I don't feel comfortable stating them however, just awkward. (They are all illegal in practice also)

I have a very specific reason for each that relate back to childhood.

And yes, I know I am being no fun at all.

 

[zombiejoe]

HEAVY BASS. Seriously, I cant get enough. The musical component, not the fish.

I love that topics like this force people to clarify statements.

I just have to say how awesome your avatar is. Why? It danced for me to this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DauoiJ7rSI

 

[crimson5pheonix]

HEAVY BASS. Seriously, I cant get enough. The musical component, not the fish.

I love that topics like this force people to clarify statements.

I just have to say how awesome your avatar is. Why? It danced for me to this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DauoiJ7rSI

Be careful what you say in a thread like this...

 

[zombiejoe]

1) I don't know really how to describe it other than I'm attracted to 'foreign' women. Not really race, but more like anything besides Scandinavian. Diversity fetish? I've dated other women from scandinavian backgrounds, but I'm more interested in women that are different than me- different accents, skin color or even small cultural differences. That and asses

2) I don't really know. Maybe because I grew up in predominately white, scandinavian or germanic areas whether its family from Uppsala or in Minnesota- so now I'm excited to the point of sexual interest to someone that's just different
Might also be some kind of biological urge to spread diversity? No idea, but I'm quite happy with the fine Indian ass I'm getting right now

I believe the term is "Xenophila"

 

[Lord Beautiful]

1. Unless being attracted to fit and firm girls is a fetish, no.

2. Considering my lifetime status as a socially crippled nerdy recluse who has seen tons of wierd shit since childhood, I'm thoroughly confused as to why I don't have at least one fetish. I'd think people like myself would be prime candidates for some strange fetishes.

 

[zombiejoe]

HEAVY BASS. Seriously, I cant get enough. The musical component, not the fish.

I love that topics like this force people to clarify statements.

I just have to say how awesome your avatar is. Why? It danced for me to this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DauoiJ7rSI

Be careful what you say in a thread like this...

It synced up perfectly!

 

[zombiejoe]

Yes, multiple.
An experience at summer camp caused one of them.

Oh yeah...Summer Camp...

*flashback*



OK OK NO MORE FLASHBACK!

lol jk

 

[murderxthexcase]

Yeah, really. That's what helped me. Finding out I was not the only one, and the others I'd met were well balanced and smart people. That helped me stop thinking I was nuts.

As a heterosexual guy, it's satisfying when you realise it's not just guys who have fetishes either. I was always worried about what girls would think of me if I told them the kinds of things I was into. But as it turns out, some girls are just as 'bad' if not 'worse'.

 

[Caligulove]

1) I don't know really how to describe it other than I'm attracted to 'foreign' women. Not really race, but more like anything besides Scandinavian. Diversity fetish? I've dated other women from scandinavian backgrounds, but I'm more interested in women that are different than me- different accents, skin color or even small cultural differences. That and asses

2) I don't really know. Maybe because I grew up in predominately white, scandinavian or germanic areas whether its family from Uppsala or in Minnesota- so now I'm excited to the point of sexual interest to someone that's just different
Might also be some kind of biological urge to spread diversity? No idea, but I'm quite happy with the fine Indian ass I'm getting right now

I believe the term is "Xenophila"

Wow I'm kind of ashamed I didn't put that together myself, seems obvious now. Thanks!