Do you have a fetish? Why do you think you have it?

[RA92]

1. Women who look good in everyday clothes.
2. Watching too much porn? Too many ridiculously made-up and airbrushed women in magazines? Being patronized by advertisers thinking all they have to do is show me a picture of a hot chick in lingerie to make me want to buy their product? An overabundance of stupid fetish outfits (nurse, librarian, dominatrix, etc.)?

Whatever the reason, I just get more excited by women in normal clothes than anything else.

I'm actually much the same way. Can't stand the standard "over-sexified" look of most media women. Especially that blank look they're always giving the camera. Have they ever ONCE tried giving a photo-girl a kind, inviting smile rather than looking like she wants to tear off your lips?

Some magazines do. Like O Magazine and Good Housekeeping, maybe. Unfortunately, said magazines rarely feature the kinds of women I find attractive, so I've got to look for my fetish fuel elsewhere.

So you fuel your fetish by... going out in the real world and meeting and admiring real people?

You're weird.

 

[Kinguendo]

I find your response to his comments is far beyond what could be deemed polite. At least in his post he kept to discussing the points you had made rather than stooping to asking you to call yourself "a gigantic asshole" for his pleasure.

You also failed to note that he referred to some fetishes as "dangerous" and recommended that people who found their fetish dangerous seek treatment, which shows he was not claiming that all fetishes were equal.

As for your other questions I believe the original poster referred to "loli" which I will assume to be a reference to hentai of that nature for the purposes of a response. It can be considered healthy when most of such materials are in fact catering to ephebophilia which is the attraction to adolescents. Adolescents are biologically ready for procreation and as such feeling sexual attraction to them is normal, in fact it could be considered odd or even unhealthy to not experience sexual attraction to specimens who are physically ready for mating. As for how it is on the same level as a nurse fetish, they are comparable in that they are both physical urges that you do not have a choice in. Acting on these impulses is where you have choice, but feeling attraction is beyond a persons control. Yes, I realize you intended for these questions to be rhetorical, but I found myself unwilling to "do the planet a favor."

To wrap things up and address your edit I found your post to be unnecessary and lacking any content worth reading. I also find it annoying that you felt the need to address something that was already stated by the poster as being unwanted. Finally, your original post lacked any contribution to the topic and the person who quoted you was right to call you out on your statements.

And I quote the person you are defending: "If we're going to judge one fetish for being "too extreme," then all fetishes are too extreme." <- There, thats your argument dealt with. NEXT!

Oh wait, I need to deal with this last paragraph. Probably a good job that you did read it then, huh? And clearly my original comment DID contribute or I would have been put on Probation for that and not the second comment, which I admit, might have cut a tad too deep. Oh and no they werent right in calling me out, thats why I handled them with such unfiltered honesty. They said I had no place saying someones fetish was bad... which obviously was not right as I was agreeing with the person I replied to and not straight out condemning their feelings.

 

[MasterWhatever]

1) Biting, both sides

2) No idea

Great topic by the way.

 

[dslatch]

Answer to question one im a furry with a sprinkle of infantilism

question 2 for the furry thing i grew up around plenty of animals loved movies like the fox and the hound and if it had anything to do with animals with a voice or walking on two legs i couldn't take my eyes of it, it's not a big sexual thing with me. then the infantilism (age play) is a bit more sexual, though a good downstairs works just as well (More V's then P's)

 

[Kroden]

1) Yes.
2) Mine is because my internet was slow so i had to load up whatever was faster. fastest to load hentai. my fetish, hentai.

 

[Sharalon]

1. yes
2. It was an encounter with the cosmic monkey. He ate the owl.

I highly doubt that...

The owl could beat that monkey DOWN

lol jk

Bullshit!

Look at him! He could destroy the owl just by frowning at him

There'll be owls in your dressing room! There'll be owls in your gravy! And even if you hide at sea... there are owls in the navy!

 

[Mnemophage]

1. Not to any extent that sex is impossible without it. Preferences, I should say.

2. I'm bisexual because I simply do not care enough to meticulously categorize my sexuality. The rest, simply because it feels good. Biting is nice. Water over naked bodies is also nice. Pleasant, harmless, animal emotions - it doesn't get deeper than this.

 

[DefunctTheory]

Spoiler

1. yes
2. It was an encounter with the cosmic monkey. He ate the owl.

I highly doubt that...

The owl could beat that monkey DOWN

lol jk

Bullshit!

Look at him! He could destroy the owl just by frowning at him

There'll be owls in your dressing room! There'll be owls in your gravy! And even if you hide at sea... there are owls in the navy!

Come on, no video? YOu have to share the awesome.

Spoiler: Owls!

 

[ChippedShoulder]

Eh kinda, I find pale skin to be pretty attractive (damn fake tan, sunbeds and the media ruining things).

Also even hooter if they have the "emo" look, I mean people who like nuruses and that other stuff counts as a fetish right ? So yeah pale skin and emo chicks. Epic combination is epic, and sometimes hand in hand.
Now if only I lived in an area with more pale emo women. Becaue in y life I know 1... And she hated me so yeah.

Cause, no idea, it just looks really nice.

This. A thousand times this. Fucking media. Still, few and far between though they may be, they do exist

 

[Dags90]

1.) I guess, if it's considered a fetish.
2.) Probably all those live bees my mom made me eat as a kid. Not the bees mommy *long no*.

 

[BeanDelphiki]

1) I love seeing girls sneeze
2) This is actually not a very uncommon fetish, and it seems that everyone who has it has had it since they were young. I have always found something strange about seeing girls sneeze before I was attracted to them but it's only when I started getting attracted to girls that this became a fetish. When I say I found it strange I mean that in a curious way.

Huh! When I was a little kid...you know that song, "On Top Of Spaghetti"? Where someone sneezes and blows the meatballs off the table? Yeah, when I was 5 or so, I really, really liked the sneezing part. Thought that was just a totally bizarre quirk of my own...

I don't have that now, and couldn't say why I had that then. I have this vague theory about instinctively connecting sneezing to orgasm, but that's my own theory and could be bullshit.

 

[Ohhi]

OH YEAH I have quite a lot of fetishes but just to name a few there are
1. Biting
2. hair pulling
3. Bondage

to explain those well I don't know how to those things just turn me on in the sack.

 

[TheRundownRabbit]

Everyone has at least one certain fetish.

Screw it
EDIT
Im not telling yet
I just always had a thing for it, dont know y

You have a fetish for gothic lolita girls

Thats agiven, but I also have another, I'll tell ya later.

 

[Chogg Van Helsing]

I like eyes for some reason, they are normally the first thing i look at in people. If a girl doesn't have nice eyes, I doubt us being together lol

Might be because I had eye cancer (YES IT EXISTS(i've been asked too many times if it really does)) and so eyes were a large part of my childhood, but IDK...


P.S. I like blue eyes best xD

 

[Ironic Pirate]

1: Several. Voraphilia and a pregnancy fetish (no fucking way am I spelling that right). Vore is a fetish based on people being eaten alive, mind you. Most voraphiles identify as prey, but I roll pred. You can ask if you want more details.

2: (Guessing here) My parents never really talked about sex, and I grew up in the middle of nowhere. I watched a lot of cartoons were people were eaten, I guess I just identified with that, or something?

Interesting, didn't know about that one.

For some reason your avatar has started creeping me out all of a sudden...

On topic,
1. Yes...a fair few surprisingly... (roundabout answer like everybody else ). Not many tooo obscure things, just small things that i find inexplicably haawt.
2. Erm...dunno? I watch a lot of anime etc...so a few obscure Japanese interests stemmed from that I spose...

Oh, don't worry, it's for humorous purposes.

It did give me a special kind of laugh when I first saw it. Makes me wonder about the creator...

 

[Ironic Pirate]

1: Several. Voraphilia and a pregnancy fetish (no fucking way am I spelling that right). Vore is a fetish based on people being eaten alive, mind you. Most voraphiles identify as prey, but I roll pred. You can ask if you want more details.

2: (Guessing here) My parents never really talked about sex, and I grew up in the middle of nowhere. I watched a lot of cartoons were people were eaten, I guess I just identified with that, or something?

Never really understood Vore, though it is an interesting topic to explore.

Along with...other fetishes I won't mention.

Yeah. I mean, symbolically, it's one thing taking another inside it, and pleasure is derived from that, which is sort of how a robot would describe sex.

And then vore itself is just huge. People could be preds, preys, observers... And then there's willing versus unwilling, the size relationship, along with dozens of other little particulars.

 

[YouBecame]

I like being bitten and scratched. And I *love* being tied up. Like proper drives me crazy. I don't know why or how it makes me feel like that, but seriously. Ropes, cuffs, bites and nails makes me a happy lad!

 

[JemothSkarii]

1. Okay, mine are pretty weird: I like furries (mainly dragons, canines (extended to Foxes, Wolves, folfs etc.) and felines) school uniforms, asians, hentai, girl on top, doggystyle, slowly, tender, loving sex (Sex is sacred to me in that I think it's the ultimate act of love...although all these fetishes kinda disapprove that thinking) anal, catgirls, and voyeurism.

Oh, and between us *blushes softly* I want my girlfriend to peg me when we get the chance.

2. Alright, I plan on getting through all of these:
Furries: Well, I'M a furry, it's attractive to me.
School Uniforms: I guess it's the cute look they give off, and skirts...I like skirts.
Asians: My girlfriend is half asian, and she's the sweetest most loving person I know, so that would be part of it.
Hentai: Love of anime.
Girl on Top/Doggystyle: Doggystyle I think just looks attractive, and t's one of the very few dominant positions I like. As for the girl riding, I've always just imagined her bouncing on top of me, leaning n and kissing me, moaning that she loves me...I'm still a virgin, shut up!
Soft, Romantic Sex: Like I said; ultimate act of love.
Anal: Probably partially because I'm bisexual, but also because it's always intrigued me, I don't know, I just find it appealing.
CatgirlsPhew, almost done) My ex-girlfriend's and my online roleplays...she played a catgirl and I a half dragon...we did it so many times over MSN a day it wasn't funny and I regret it -_-, yet if I hear my girl go 'Nya~' or see her wear Cat ears...gah....
Voyeurism: I find watching girls masturbate hot, probably because I'm in a long distance relationship and long to see my girl do such a thing...as that is the most we can do for a while.
Pegging: Started when I visited a friend's place. They're both gay and we were talking about stuff, and the sbject of sex and my girlfriend came up. One of my friends mentioned if she were here she'd 'probably wear a strapon and fuck the crap out of you (me)' (because she loves yaoi). It just advanced from there...she does like the idea too, after I had to explain to her...kind of awkward...

EDIT: Oh, and small boobs, not non-existant, small. Big ones really turn me off.

 

[Slenn]

1. The ones that I will admit are maids, lolita fashion, school uniforms, and breasts. There are others, but they're all too deep for me to explain.
2. Maids, because combined with lolita fashion they look extremely cute to me. Lolita fashion, because I'm a huge sucker for things that are super girly. Uniforms, because, again, super cute. And breasts because, I do not know one straight guy that doesn't like breasts.

 

[Smagmuck_]

Cat girls... Why? Because my girl friend Kristi wears cat ears... And she pulls them off well.

Hey one of my best friends does that to, and so does another girl i know.
Btw, just curious and you don't have to answer this but are you into that kind of 'furry' stuff?

No, I'm not a fur, it's more or less just the cat girl thing.