Number 5 on this list:WeepingAngels said:Are tipping threads bad or something?
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And the fact that this thread is at 4 pages, proves that cracked article right.
Number 5 on this list:WeepingAngels said:Are tipping threads bad or something?
You talk about delivery drivers as if they are a charity. "Why not just give $2?" I'll tell you why, because the delivery fee was already included in the bill.michael87cn said:I don't know why, but this thread makes me really dislike some of the people posting here, that I previously had -good- opinions about!
It just sounds so snobby to be all like "I paid the company, the delivery boy can suck it". I mean, I know people are saying "not all jobs get tips, why should this particular job?" Well, perhaps because not all jobs are equal? And the food industry is one of the worst places a human being can be stuck working in? Especially if they have to drive all over to places they don't know, and knock on weird peoples doors who are so cheap they can't spare $3? I mean, its practically an insult to hand someone coins as part of the tip. You think they really want that .25? Why not just give $2?! You really need that .75 that badly...?
Ugh, pisses me off! It's just so rude and cheap to be like that, but whatever, be however you want...
Agreed. I remember working retail and how awful that was, so ten years on I still remember those times and keep in mind what others who are still in retail are dealing with. Of course, working standard shop retail meant I would not get a tip (not here in the UK and more than likely a person at Wal-Mart or other such US store would ever be tipped) but those who work in bars, restaurants, coffee shops and such that are on shift work in horrible conditions with awful customers that expect the best attitude from the staff regardless? Yes, those shift workers get tipped to no less than 50p (I see no reason to tip more than that for a £2 drink and it's rare I'd go beyond that).michael87cn said:I don't know why, but this thread makes me really dislike some of the people posting here, that I previously had -good- opinions about!
It just sounds so snobby to be all like "I paid the company, the delivery boy can suck it". I mean, I know people are saying "not all jobs get tips, why should this particular job?" Well, perhaps because not all jobs are equal? And the food industry is one of the worst places a human being can be stuck working in?
I understand your approach here, it is very considerate but it's also where we would have to part ways. I wouldn't tip those delivering parcels or post (and nor would they expect such), so why would I tip takeaway delivery people? The insulting thing here, as others have pointed out, is the presumption that the worker in question is entitled to a tip (regardless of the quality of their service). Unless the weather was awful (think heavy rain, ice or snow) and the pizza delivery person still managed to get to my home 15 minutes either way of the delivery time I was given? If there was change or it was something daft like £10.50, I'd give £11 (£10 plus two 50p coins) and tell them to keep the extra for themselves *or* if I gave £15 and gotten change, give 50p back out of appreciation for the dire circumstances.Especially if they have to drive all over to places they don't know, and knock on weird peoples doors who are so cheap they can't spare $3? I mean, its practically an insult to hand someone coins as part of the tip. You think they really want that .25? Why not just give $2?! You really need that .75 that badly...?
Ugh, pisses me off! It's just so rude and cheap to be like that, but whatever, be however you want...
...and you are charged a fee that is named "Delivery fee" that is included on the bill. Why should we pay the delivery fee twice?RedDeadFred said:No I do not. The delivery is an extra service. You pay extra because they are bringing it to your house and you don't have to go out. Not much else to say really, it seems kind of obvious to me.
Right, but having to pay part of that "free" chunk wouldn't make a company change its policies to paying the full chunk (with fair minimum wage).Houseman said:How about their customers (the card holders) affecting their bottom line by not tipping? Will that give them a reason to change their policy?dyre said:That's at least less risky to actual employees, but that still gives zero reason for mom and pop shops to actually change their policy.[...]The thing is, tips don't affect a company's bottom line.
In certain (most? all?) states, the company has to make up the difference so that the employee gets minimum wage. This is a chunk of money that employers are spending that they wouldn't have to if everyone tipped enough to make up for it.
It's an impossible and absurd goal. Why should be there a stigma against what is essentially giving charity? And I don't see how this helps the actual victims of tipped minimum wage policies (the waiters and drivers).Removing the stigma against not tipping and turning the stigma back onto tipping (which was what #3 is about) is a pretty good goal in my opinion.Even if a million people stop tipping, the companies are still much better off with the current system than with actual fair minimum wage laws. The only people affected are the drivers.
What, that's it? You'd go through this whole ordeal just so the people who enjoy the luxury of delivery don't have to pay a few extra dollars? I thought your movement was somehow supposed to help protect the actual victims (the workers) from abuse.And not getting your food tangibly spat in if you don't tip would change things for the better in my book.The purpose of activism is to tangibly change things for the better, not simply to do feel-good nonsense.
Step 1 is to educate people about tipping and why it is bad. The more people know this, the more people are poised to do real battle against it.
Of course I do. I just find the analogy to be stupid, as to make an effective analogy, the two different situations ought to at least be of comparable severity. Comparing pizza delivery to slavery is so disproportionate that it's ludicrous. I mean, holy crap dude. Why not go for Godwin and through Nazism in there while you're-Houseman said:Yes, because I understand how analogies work. Do you? Do you know that you can compare ASPECTS of two DIFFERENT things, without comparing the thing as a whole?
...People lost their jobs as slaves too. People lost their jobs as nazis.
Accepted.Well, I'm sorry.
...or not. I mentioned before that I still make minimum wage. Didn't I say that I make minimum wage?I find the system that makes you live off of what amounts to monetary table scraps insulting.
Ah, finally some honesty!We do.
So, if you'd like, think about this war as a selfish one instead. Think of it as we're not fighting for you and your dignity, but ourselves and our dignities. If you want to live off of monetary table scraps like a beggar in the street, that's your lifestyle, and more power to you. We're not fighting you, we're fighting your employer.
We're oppressed and fearful. There is a huge social stigma applied to us if we don't tip. We're afraid of getting our food spat in, so much so that we automatically tip 15% on the web form before we even experience the service ourselves.
Hopefully that makes you feel better.
So...your plan is to first stiff the driver on the tip, then hand them a card for their boss complaining about tip culture, and expect them to deliver it for you?But my first thought would be cast a line out on here and other online forums about this idea, gather feedback and criticism, as well as interested people, and then draw up a better version of that card.
Then I'd make the card accessible for anyone to download and print out. Maybe start a sub-reddit so people could have a hub to gather.
That's it. People print out cards, cut them out, and give them to people who live off of tips. That's my plan so far.
You're too kind.Well then I take it back.
Guilty as charged. We all are, on one wheel or another. But this cog likes his wheels and doesn't feel like delivering your mail for you.He's not a helpless cog. Just a cog.
Yeah, I'm gonna let Dean Ambrose answer this for me.Then he can write a letter to the CEO or something. I'll put that on the card.
The place I work for is actually pretty expensive, so I can definitely understand people's hesitation when they're told the cost...which sucks. Personally, I wouldn't pay more than ten bucks for a pizza, but it's upwards of 18-25 (including fee) for a single large here. Granted, it's all hand made, quality stuff, that genuinely tastes pretty damned good...but still. I'm a 5-10 dollar pizza guy myself.michael87cn said:I don't know why, but this thread makes me really dislike some of the people posting here, that I previously had -good- opinions about!
It just sounds so snobby to be all like "I paid the company, the delivery boy can suck it". I mean, I know people are saying "not all jobs get tips, why should this particular job?" Well, perhaps because not all jobs are equal? And the food industry is one of the worst places a human being can be stuck working in? Especially if they have to drive all over to places they don't know, and knock on weird peoples doors who are so cheap they can't spare $3? I mean, its practically an insult to hand someone coins as part of the tip. You think they really want that .25? Why not just give $2?! You really need that .75 that badly...?
Ugh, pisses me off! It's just so rude and cheap to be like that, but whatever, be however you want...
You're not, you're paying the delivery fee and the tip. The delivery fee isn't for the employees in most cases. It's just the restaurant covering the gas and vehicle expenses while making some extra money for themselves. I don't usually tip the delivery people all that much though since it's not like they're checking on me throughout my meal and seeing if I need anything else.WeepingAngels said:...and you are charged a fee that is named "Delivery fee" that is included on the bill. Why should we pay the delivery fee twice?RedDeadFred said:No I do not. The delivery is an extra service. You pay extra because they are bringing it to your house and you don't have to go out. Not much else to say really, it seems kind of obvious to me.
Before they added on a delivery fee, I considered the tip to be the service fee for delivering. Friendly service is the job of anyone working with the public and I don't consider that to be an "extra" else I would be tipping the Wal Mart clerk too.RedDeadFred said:You're not, you're paying the delivery fee and the tip. The delivery fee isn't for the employees in most cases. It's just the restaurant covering the gas and vehicle expenses while making some extra money for themselves. I don't usually tip the delivery people all that much though since it's not like they're checking on me throughout my meal and seeing if I need anything else.WeepingAngels said:...and you are charged a fee that is named "Delivery fee" that is included on the bill. Why should we pay the delivery fee twice?RedDeadFred said:No I do not. The delivery is an extra service. You pay extra because they are bringing it to your house and you don't have to go out. Not much else to say really, it seems kind of obvious to me.