seriously leave her alone and she'll leave you alone or at least grow a back bone talk to your friends about it instead of using a forum site to solve your problems.
Do you know that one Ex-girlfriend...
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Hmmm...I'm sorry to hear about that.
My advice would be to just act neutraly towards her, treat her as if she's just another person. If she starts acting like a ***** to you then just ignore her and immediately draw your own attention to someone else.
I hope that advice helps you.
My advice would be to just act neutraly towards her, treat her as if she's just another person. If she starts acting like a ***** to you then just ignore her and immediately draw your own attention to someone else.
I hope that advice helps you.
Apart from her dating your best friend, I know someone like that. Not my ex, but a friends. In our last two years of High School (up until last year), they started going out, then she split up with him and he tried to get back together with her, but she didn't want to know. So he tried to move on and just be a friend, and she kept pushing him away and bitching about him to anyone who would listen. I didn't really get involved because they were both friends, but I did find myself siding with him more so than her. My advice is to just leave those people alone and let them rant, at the end of the day mate, you're the bigger person. If you can try and move on, then well done, even if she won't let you (same applies to others in similar situations, and in gender reversal cases 
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call her a skank ***** and pull her card in a real public place just telling her everything that everyone ever said about her behind her back and all the shit that ever pissed you off about her when you where dating...she will cry and run away, her last couple of days until you graduate will suck so bad she will want to never go back to school.....it will be awesome, that is what I did to one of my ex-girlfriends. If she tries to interrupt you just tell her to STFU and that you are not done and that you don't care what she has to say anyways because she is a giant hoe and so forth. If she still tries to interrupt you head butt her right in the tits the walk away mid sentence......
this always works
this always works
Also your one to talk considering u started to date your current GF what few days after you broke up??
Ah that sucks man. Just ignore her and dont bother with her. Just let her get on wtih being a douche because soon everyone will get pissed off with it and tell her to get lost and everyone will see her for who she is.
Dont try and antagonise the situation and let people find out for themselves, the more you keep your hands clean the less youl have done for her being a retard. Real friends will see her for who she is and stand by ya and help you out when times are down. If you dont do anything and she creates a situation over nothing everyone will see how petie she is.
My ex tried making up rumours about me, taking my friends away, she tried everything in the book to make me look bad and for people to hate me and make my life bad but i just got on with my life and just didnt bother or reacted to it no matter how bad it got (trust me it got nasty). But soon everyone saw what she was doing and as i hadnt reacted and hadnt tried to make the situation worse people just told her to get a life and now shes pretty much lost all her friends and shes off worse than she was.
Just keep your chin up and just live your life who cares what she does or anything. Just cut her out completly you ahve better things to worry about.
Dont try and antagonise the situation and let people find out for themselves, the more you keep your hands clean the less youl have done for her being a retard. Real friends will see her for who she is and stand by ya and help you out when times are down. If you dont do anything and she creates a situation over nothing everyone will see how petie she is.
My ex tried making up rumours about me, taking my friends away, she tried everything in the book to make me look bad and for people to hate me and make my life bad but i just got on with my life and just didnt bother or reacted to it no matter how bad it got (trust me it got nasty). But soon everyone saw what she was doing and as i hadnt reacted and hadnt tried to make the situation worse people just told her to get a life and now shes pretty much lost all her friends and shes off worse than she was.
Just keep your chin up and just live your life who cares what she does or anything. Just cut her out completly you ahve better things to worry about.
Having tried this method, I can tell you from experience that it's not likely to work. If your friends are friends with both of you, they're likely to say something like "I don't want to get in the middle", and desire to remain friends with both of you. If you try to convince them that they should hate her, you'll look like the jerk. I've been there, and whether you're right or wrong isn't what matters. If you tell people to hate her, they're not going to.bluerahjah said:
Ah... to be in high school again.Grimm91 said:
Dude, just tell her to piss off, they're your friends first/also and you're not going anywhere. You tried to be civil, but she won't have it, fine, get ugly, tell her how you feel about everything, drive her to tears if you have to, to get your point across...just fight fire with fire I guess...
The easiest solution to any problem is not to cause the problem in the first place. Don't date friends or anyone in your class/school/etc. If you can't control when and where you see her without-raising-a-finger (as in if you only see her when you WANT to) you're doing it wrong. This sounds sort of evil but look at what the alternative is. Relationships typically dont last forever so it's best not to screw up your exit plan at the get-go.
Since that's damage prevention and not damage control, its not exactly helpful I know, but the best you can do now is get up that bitches grill and smack her with the blackjack of truth. She's riding your chain, not the other way around and you gotta let her have it (verbally of course).
Fight fire with NAPALM.
Since that's damage prevention and not damage control, its not exactly helpful I know, but the best you can do now is get up that bitches grill and smack her with the blackjack of truth. She's riding your chain, not the other way around and you gotta let her have it (verbally of course).
Fight fire with NAPALM.
Ok, for a start, please don't say the majority, considering that "code" is by-and-large an American habit and even then it probably does not extend beyond much beyond Western culture.Helmet said:
Second, if the relationship is over then there is no logical reason for why you would not go out with someone who is suited to you, and whom you like as more than a friend.
Thirdly, no relationship is worth missing out on because your friend is too stubborn to accept that you might have a more fulfilling relationship with their ex than they did.
Granted that going out with your friends ex a week after they split up is harsh and not particularly friendly, but given time (when they are over the ex) then it is not fair to yourself to hold back feelings for someone. Also if the ex was particularly nasty or unfaithful then you can add "foolish" to the list of things that it is.
Kind of the point I was getting at, although I hate with a passion the term "bro's before hoes".avykins said:
Just put up with it if you have 3 months left. Really. If she doesn't want to talk to you then don't talk to her, accept you share some friends and leave it at that.
I can't help but get the feeling you actually still like her, which is why you want to make a big deal out of this...
I can't help but get the feeling you actually still like her, which is why you want to make a big deal out of this...
