I usually sleep in my best friend who happens to be male bed when I stay over there with him because his brothers take up the couch space.
This...Russian_Assassin said:Yes and I prefer the person I share it with to be female XD
I like it, but not all the time. It's good occasionally. The benefit of having someone to cuddle is outweighed by the fact that another human in the bed can sometimes be a distraction depending on their sleeping habits. But then if you've had sex first you should be tired enough to fall asleep fairly fast anyway.Danglybits said:When I was younger, in my preteens and early teens I thought that sharing my bed with a romantic/sexual partner would be wonderful. Almost like having a living stuffed animal that loves you.
And then I started doing it and I realized just how much I can't stand sharing my bed. I hate not being able to turn over when I want to and to have to do it very carefully so as not to disturb whoever is in the bed. Then there is snoring, cover stealing, people taking the spread eagle position and forcing you to sleep in a chair or jab them in the chest. Speaking of which, ever smack your bedmate and pretend to be a sleep to stop them snoring? So does anyone actually like sharing their bed or is it just me and my selfish ways?
Yeah, the sex definitely helps. The trick can be to fall asleep faster than your bed mate so that you're not trying to fall asleep while dodging limbs and heavy flopping. I've spent years trying to turn over carefully so I didn't disturb my boyfriend; just a few months ago he told me that I've never woken him up. Ever. I sleep much better now.BonsaiK said:I like it, but not all the time. It's good occasionally. The benefit of having someone to cuddle is outweighed by the fact that another human in the bed can sometimes be a distraction depending on their sleeping habits. But then if you've had sex first you should be tired enough to fall asleep fairly fast anyway.Danglybits said:When I was younger, in my preteens and early teens I thought that sharing my bed with a romantic/sexual partner would be wonderful. Almost like having a living stuffed animal that loves you.
And then I started doing it and I realized just how much I can't stand sharing my bed. I hate not being able to turn over when I want to and to have to do it very carefully so as not to disturb whoever is in the bed. Then there is snoring, cover stealing, people taking the spread eagle position and forcing you to sleep in a chair or jab them in the chest. Speaking of which, ever smack your bedmate and pretend to be a sleep to stop them snoring? So does anyone actually like sharing their bed or is it just me and my selfish ways?