My husband and I are both gamers, and know that alone time is great; but we have our mini-vacations, day-trips, and lazy days together on the couch as well. We aren't really neglectful of each other. We are just comfortable not sitting side by side all day everyday, writing sonnets and being sappy.
I suppose you could say, we aren't very clingy, needy people.
If a game is released that we really want to play, we both buy our own copies and play. Or if one wants to play a new release that the other doesn't care for, that person plays their own game.
When we come out of our game comas, we usually meet up in the kitchen for food and to make sure the other is still alive. XD lol