Doesn't seem like a good thing (Christmas Edit)

[artanis_neravar]

So I logged on to Facebook this morning to find that my ex has proclaimed her undying love (In a platonic sort of way that only girls can manage) for my crush. Now my ex hates me completely so there is no way I can see this as being a good thing. Granted the topic of me coming up is not super likely but if it does there will be nothing good said about me by my ex at all. Either way just felt like venting so leave what ever comments, questions or criticisms you may have.


EDIT The Intro: While I'm sure no one is actually going to read this edit I figured this was easier than creating a new topic.

Edit: The Body: Say me and my friends (my crush included) decided to get Christmas presents for each other, and said girl enjoys batman...a lot, as well as jewelry. would any of these seem like appropriate gifts?

Spoiler: Idea 1

[link]http://www.amazon.com/Stainless-Steel-Batman-Chain-Bracelet/dp/B004RHRFZA/ref=sr_1_12?s=jewelry&ie=UTF8&qid=1322362792&sr=1-12[/link]

Spoiler: Idea 2

[link]http://www.etsy.com/listing/63295657/cupcake-eatin-batman-bottle-cap-necklace?ref=pr_shop
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Spoiler: Idea 3

[link]http://www.amazon.com/Batman-Necklace-Stainless-Satisfaction-Guaranteed/dp/B00689UBT2/ref=sr_1_18?s=jewelry&ie=UTF8&qid=1322363481&sr=1-18[/link]

 

[Lilani]

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

 

[artanis_neravar]

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

Oh I know she knows my ex, they go to the same school and I know she saw me and my ex together, it's just that while I've refrained from any form of trash talking my ex hasn't been so kind

 

[Lilani]

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

Oh I know she knows my ex, they go to the same school and I know she saw me and my ex together, it's just that while I've refrained from any form of trash talking my ex hasn't been so kind

I see. Well, again, just keep being nice and let the girl see for herself how much of a ***** your ex is being. If you keep your hands clean, your ex will have a hard time getting the dirt she's flinging at you to stick.

 

[artanis_neravar]

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

Oh I know she knows my ex, they go to the same school and I know she saw me and my ex together, it's just that while I've refrained from any form of trash talking my ex hasn't been so kind

I see. Well, again, just keep being nice and let the girl see for herself how much of a ***** your ex is being. If you keep your hands clean, your ex will have a hard time getting the dirt she's flinging at you to stick.

I plan too, thank you

 

[azraelthor]

So I logged on to Facebook this morning to find that my ex has proclaimed her undying love (In a platonic sort of way that only girls can manage) for my crush. Now my ex hates me completely so there is no way I can see this as being a good thing. Granted the topic of me coming up is not super likely but if it does there will be nothing good said about me by my ex at all. Either way just felt like venting so leave what ever comments, questions or criticisms you may have.

That sucks dude, maybe you should just tell her whats bothering you?

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

What if he doesn't care if his ex finds out?

 

[Lilani]

What if he doesn't care if his ex finds out?

The user has already addressed this, about three posts up from yours.

 

[artanis_neravar]

What if he doesn't care if his ex finds out?

The user has already addressed this, about three posts up from yours.

Indeed I did

So I logged on to Facebook this morning to find that my ex has proclaimed her undying love (In a platonic sort of way that only girls can manage) for my crush. Now my ex hates me completely so there is no way I can see this as being a good thing. Granted the topic of me coming up is not super likely but if it does there will be nothing good said about me by my ex at all. Either way just felt like venting so leave what ever comments, questions or criticisms you may have.

That sucks dude, maybe you should just tell her whats bothering you?

I'd go ahead and ask her out. Let your crush decide for herself if you're actually as bad as your ex says or if she's just a *****. As for your ex finding out, though, she probably will learn of you two pretty quick. Girls are just like that--whenever they get a new boyfriend, they want to tell every girl they know about it. You might want to head that off in advance, like just before you part ways after your first date, ask her if she knows your ex, and clear that up. She's going to find out one way or another, so she may as well learn it from you.

What if he doesn't care if his ex finds out?

Tell who? My ex? Hell no I have no intention of talking to her again, don't get me wrong I don't dislike, I just don't care one way or the other.Tell my crush? I'm still waiting on a few other things to sort them selves out.

For the second part, no I don't care but that doesn't mean she can't do damage

 

[Galletea]

I like all of those, as a girl, who likes Batman and jewellery. I can't speak for anyone else though. Depends how much she likes cute things for the second one I'd say.
As for the girl, ask her out. If she refuses you then it isn't the end of the world, you'll get over it.

 

[artanis_neravar]

I like all of those, as a girl, who likes Batman and jewellery. I can't speak for anyone else though. Depends how much she likes cute things for the second one I'd say.
As for the girl, ask her out. If she refuses you then it isn't the end of the world, you'll get over it.

Ah good, I'm usually pretty good at picking out gifts but I doubt myself sometimes. As for asking her out I'm trying to wait until I find a job