Doing things her way...

[SadakoMoose]

What kind of girls or guys are you attracted to?
I know who I'm attracted too...
I like aggressively sexual women, you know?
On top, in charge, and very into it.
Not necessarily "whips and chains" or "make me a sandwich, puppyboy"...(not always)
But I'm definitely drawn to the "Bayonetta" type (Hi Yahtzee)...
What about you, escapists?
Guys, are you like me or does it work the other way around?
Girls, same question. Do you like BEING in charge or have you always wanted a crazy unstoppable wild man?
There are no wrong answers!

Also:
Name some of your fictional faves as far as fantasy partners are concerned...
I'll start!

Washu: Cause Science!

Ada Wong: Love the voice, really.
Integra: Look at my sig...She may not act like it, but she'd be a GREAT top...Have you ever seen her "Search and Destroy" look?

 

[Wadders]

What kind of girls are you attracted to?

Yer mum.

But yeah, are you asking me if I like it rough...?

:-/

Yeah I guess so, but not too rough.

 

[theComposer]

I like assertively sexual women. The kind who aren't afraid to take the lead or be on top, but are not overly aggressive about it. Nothing unusual or excessive, just a woman being in control in the same way guys stereotypically are or are excepted to be.

 

[FlyAwayAutumn]

I just want a girl that pays attention to you.

My last girlfriend for example was perfect for me in practically everyway but she had the attention span of a three year old. In fact while I was trying to ask her out she interrupted me... twice

"Hey so I was wondering-"

"Hold that thought"

1 min later

"Hey"

"Yeah?"

"I wanted to ask-"

"Hold on"

FUCKING PAY ATTENTION! Jesus christ it was annoying, made me feel like she didn't care.

 

[SadakoMoose]

I know it's cliche, but I think I should mention Ivy...
To be fair, though, she'd be a LOT more attractive if she dressed a little less obviously, you know?
I like her because of her voice, because of her background (powerful alchemist/occultist), and because of her competence as a fighter.
Overtly sexual, well endowed, character designs are a dime a dozen.
But Ivy had the potential to be unique or at least sexually challenging.
Had she been given a realistic or normal body...

 

[Stalk3rchief]

Idfk how to answer this...
All of my girlfriends had really nothing in common, except that we were in bed most of the time, and all of my relationships have lasted well over a year. I guess I'm N/A for this post.

 

[Phlakes]

Intelligent ones who are reliable and know me well enough. Basically, the opposite of my first girlfriend. *shudder*

 

[Estocavio]

Lets put it this was, i distrust females to the point id be better off with a model made of ballistic gel.

 

[Julianking93]

Sweet people. Being sweet and cute goes a long way for me.


I'm not looking for a dominant or a submissive partner.

I like equality in the relationship, personally.



Plus intelligence and common interests, of course but that's kind of a given.

 

[SadakoMoose]

Here's an anecdote relating to why I like women the way I do...
When I was 8, one of my friends was having a birthday party and decided that we would have a boys vs girls water balloon battle.
I got captured by the girl team.
So, while the boys promptly FORGOT that there was a water war going on and went to eat cake, the girls tied me up to the 4 foot tall, plastic, basketball hoop in the backyard.
They then brandished realistic toy guns (the kind you could get away with selling to kids back then) at me.
What was worse is the girls that had taken me hostage were also the girls I had crushes on back then...
Oh my...
Eventually they abandoned me too, but it was all o.k. in the end.
Similar experiences, guys?

 

[bak00777]

I want a girl who i can be myself around, i want her to be ok with the fact im a nerd. If she wants to join in on the nerdiness, terrific, but as long as she is ok with mine im good.

 

[Yureina]

Honesty, Compassion, Intelligence, and Common Interests. One those match up... everything else ought to fall into place. I know that's a really simplistic list, but my definitions in these areas help balance it all out. I just don't feel like digging into the details here.

In theory. In practice everyone in my book who has is either taken, I'm not interested in in that way, or just not interested in me. Of course... that's probably because I always take way too long to bring stuff up, so by the time I actually let someone know that I am interested, they probably have decided that for themselves a long time ago.

 

[Trivun]

For a fictional example, just look at April Ryan. If you've played the games she's in and thus know her personality, then you should see why I find her so attractive, aside from the obvious physical attractiveness she has. Otheriwse, for many of the reasons below, Luna Lovegood. It's no coincidence I have a slight crush on Evanna Lynch, the girl who plays her in the Harry Potter films... ;P

For a real-world description, my ideal girl would basically be a female version of me, attractive, with dark hair, and Irish. Otherwise, I'm really attracted to quirky girls with a weird sense of humour, who share my interests and are more happy to sit curled up on a beanbag chair listening to the rain (maybe with either a film or indie rock soundtrack on the CD player in the background), rather than go out clubbing. Someone who's got a good personality and is friendly to all, slightly eccentric, and will love me for myself rather than trying to change me. Ideally an indie girl, but not the elitist hipster kind. Again, Irish would be perfect. The Irish accent is just so incredibly sexy... Hair colour either very pale blonde, or platinum white, dark red, or black. Preferably wavy and long, or cut short but cute (think Keira Knightley's hairstyle in half the films she's been in).

That's the sort of girl I would find perfect, who I'm attracted to the most. Sadly, I fear no such girl seems to exist, or at least, not here in Leeds...

 

[Krantos]

Funny, I was just thinking about this the other day.

You know the girls that liked to pretend they were pretty princesses growing up? Yeah, they're not my type. Give me the ones that dressed up as TMNT, or a pirate for Halloween. The girls that wanted to be Knights and ninja's instead of pricesses.

Fictional Character that fits the bill? Disney's Mulan.

 

[PrototypeC]

I know it's cliche, but I think I should mention Ivy... To be fair, though, she'd be a LOT more attractive if she dressed a little less obviously, you know? I like her because of her voice, because of her background (powerful alchemist/occultist), and because of her competence as a fighter. Overtly sexual, well endowed, character designs are a dime a dozen. But Ivy had the potential to be unique or at least sexually challenging. Had she been given a realistic or normal body...

I like that she's smart (she's an alchemist!), cruel and a little selfish but not evil, and aware of her strengths and weaknesses. I always choose her second costume for those reasons... but I'm not attracted to her at all, even as a fictional character.

In relation to the original post, it would depend on the girl but overall I'm not interested in being her "pet" or boy toy, even just in the bedroom. I would be more interested if she put up a tough front to the world, but relaxed around me... you know? She'd have to have a secret libido at least approaching mine though for us to stay together.

Oh my, getting a little personal here.

 

[SadakoMoose]

That's the sort of girl I would find perfect, who I'm attracted to the most. Sadly, I fear no such girl seems to exist, or at least, not here in Leeds...

Try Codsall Staffordshire...
Don't ask me why, I just wanted to say Codsall Staffordshire
You'll find her one day!

 

[Ham_authority95]

I'm a horny teenager, so of course I want a sexually assertive partner! XD

Besides that, I want:

-Someone who doesn't make me her *****, but also doesn't let me make a ***** of her.

-Someone who isn't afraid to be whimsical and weird.

-A musical background so I can assault her with my music lingo without putting her off.

-Able to have an articulate conversation about anything.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I know it's cliche, but I think I should mention Ivy...
To be fair, though, she'd be a LOT more attractive if she dressed a little less obviously, you know?
I like her because of her voice, because of her background (powerful alchemist/occultist), and because of her competence as a fighter.
Overtly sexual, well endowed, character designs are a dime a dozen.
But Ivy had the potential to be unique or at least sexually challenging.
Had she been given a realistic or normal body...

A guy I knew in highschool, his mom looked like the real life version of Ivy. I once saw her in nothing but a long t-shirt, and my middle school mind went crazy.
*cough* Moving on. XD

OT: I like women who know what they want and aren't afraid to show it. I like a woman who can stand up to me. I don't want someone who'll just let me walk all over them. I don't mind getting a little rough every now and again, as long as I'm not tied up, blindfolded, or cut. For some reason, my survival instincts kick in when that happens and someone normally ends up getting hurt.

I'm not saying that I really like to be dominated or anything, but sometimes you feel the need to spice things up. Having a partner who embraces that is a good thing.