Dumped.

[nofear220]

I broke up with my girlfriend of two years because I could tell she had feelings for her friend, and I didn't want anyone to end up getting more hurt than necessary. She assured me for about a month beforehand that she didn't have any feelings for him in the slightest, but two weeks after we broke up they were together and having sex.

Needless to say, I haven't talked to her since.

Ive been in a similar situation, but there was cheating involved. The only thing that makes me angry is that those types of people are too full of themselves to look back at how badly they fucked up and think that they should apologize, hell I bet Ill never cross her mind again which bothers me a bit, but at the same time I couldn't care less.

 

[IsraelRocks]

Best thing to do when dumped is wait a while, make her want you again and then dump her fat ass.

 

[Bobsonnn]

Generally when the girls ended it they've at least done it in person and we remain on decent terms.

Although one did end during a texting argument, that one was just fairly amusing.

 

[7moreDead_v1legacy]

My wife ran off with a the main tank...Do I win the internet for that one? (100% Truth)

 

[CarpathianMuffin]

My ex just broke up with me one day to get back with her ex boyfriend. Made it somewhat satisfying when he cheated on her.

 

[Bobsonnn]

Untrue, between the end of the renaissance to the start of the 1960's chastity was the norm. Now I'm not arguing that this situation is good either because it was largely due to religious and social oppression, but neither situation is great.

Actually, that's untrue. At least since Victorian times, sex was incredibly common, hence the fact that there was approximately one prostitute on the streets of Britain for every 12 men. That doesn't really imply that there wasn't a whole lot of demand. It was pretty much the same in youth culture at the time.

 

[Pandalisk]

I was dumped in a graveyard....a suitable location no?

"Here lie my hopes and dreams" *Sniff*

 

[triggrhappy94]

i've only been dumped once, and it was online, which was kinda symettrical because it started online too. I say it coming, and was i probably would have ended it if it got any worse then what it was on the last couple days

 

[Underground Man]

I'm in my 20s and I've never dated. People have asked but I've never accepted. As an asexual, I know it wouldn't work out. How to tell someone you like that the thought of them touching you makes you feel like throwing up a little? They get all offended and stuff for some reason.

I'll just chill here in the corner alone.

 

[Asturiel]

I broke up with my girlfriend of two years because I could tell she had feelings for her friend, and I didn't want anyone to end up getting more hurt than necessary. She assured me for about a month beforehand that she didn't have any feelings for him in the slightest, but two weeks after we broke up they were together and having sex.

Needless to say, I haven't talked to her since.

I believe it was Ramona Flowers who said "Everybody in this town is bitches". Sorry to hear about that mate, but it's for the best.

*Hugs*

OT: I have been exclusively the dumpee and while it does hurt each time, I do find myself refusing to show any emotion when it happens. Instead just leaving there with the straight face, and often enough it stays there throughout human contact time, only coming out when I'm alone at home, and even then it's in small spurts of sheer loneliness.

However there was this one time with a girl where I was going to break up with her because I wasn't emotionally invested in it and I didn't want to hurt her anymore than I had to. Low and behold she had the same idea and dumped me, seemed very hard for her and I sympathized and got the fuck away from her and kept my distance. So when on an alternate route out of class and home I run into her doing the same thing and feeling like a total ass. That one was unpleasant, more so than the others because of what I had done, not what happened to me.

Anyway, online breakups are pathetic and nobody with any dignity should do it.

 

[Aureli]

I got dumped by a guy over the phone, through a friend. (He told our friend to call me and let me know it was over. Our friend has no spine, and did as he was told) And he was cheating on me with a girl two years younger through our entire short-lived relationship(3 months).

 

[The Man With the Soap]

I'm in my 20s and I've never dated. People have asked but I've never accepted. As an asexual, I know it wouldn't work out. How to tell someone you like that the thought of them touching you makes you feel like throwing up a little? They get all offended and stuff for some reason.

I'll just chill here in the corner alone.

You have truly risen above. People are over-rated. We all cling to our pitiful lives, prisoners of our material possessions. Nothing is static. Everything is falling apart.

 

[thom_cat_]

My last GF figured out she didn't really want a boyfreind, and now, many months later, she still doesn't have one. So I'm moderately happy that she didn't lie, but I'm still feeling like shit because I still like her.

So yeah, she kept shrugging me off at the end of the relationship and I had to confront her to find out what she wanted, so yeah. I made the move, but she broke it off. Complicated, yes?

 

[TheSteeleStrap]

No, it's just something people do when they don't have the stones to do it in person.

 

[Peteron]

Never been in a relationship unfortunately. I was going to, but things just didn't work out between us. Now we don't talk to each other.

 

[Underground Man]

I'm in my 20s and I've never dated. People have asked but I've never accepted. As an asexual, I know it wouldn't work out. How to tell someone you like that the thought of them touching you makes you feel like throwing up a little? They get all offended and stuff for some reason.

I'll just chill here in the corner alone.

You have truly risen above. People are over-rated. We all cling to our pitiful lives, prisoners of our material possessions. Nothing is static. Everything is falling apart.

I don't know if I'd call it rising above. It's more just embracing apathy. Every problem in life can be solved if you just say, "You know what? I don't care."

Of course, everyone else thinks I'm a loser but, well, I don't care.

 

[MelziGurl]

After a friends wedding back on the 21st Aug. We came home, got ready for bed then the dreading words 'we need to talk'. Apparently he had been having doubts for a few months, never told me anything but thought it a good idea to tell his friend...who told his wife (who was my best friend)...and all the while neither of them thought it a good idea to let me know anything. The first week of the break up he spent almost all of his spare time over their place, while I was trying to deal with things without involving my friends too much. In the end, both of my best friends decided I was making them uncomfortable with the way I was (emotionally driven and generally not myself) to the point where one of them actually told me she felt like she was gonna have to choose sides...guess who's?

Now, I do not talk to one of these friends while I'm on speaking terms with the other. But I never at any point during our break up tried to involve them to the point that my ex did, nor did I expect anyone to choose sides. But these girls were my friends since high school and he had only known them roughly 2 years. He has come up with every excuse under the sun to justify his behaviour which pisses me off. Even telling me that during our entire relationship that he never felt he could be truly open with me...there's goes my trust completely.

So yeah, there is a lot more to that. But it would take me far too long to go through it all.

Everything you love will either reject you or die.

I have had a few relationships, but they were all meaningless. There was no passion in any of them, and two ended with her cheating on me. I haven't considered a relationship since freshman year because all of the girls at my school are hypocritic, stuck-up bitches. I have given up on the whole idea of love. Every couple either ends up resenting each other and divorcing, or one of the partners will never be home. I'm just going to focus on my plans for the future.

I forgot to mention that this was a 4.5 yr relationship...10 months of which we were engaged, the wedding was next October.

 

[FamoFunk]

I've only been the one to dump people, always done to their face, I could never do it over the internet or text/phone... gutless.

I'm now in a happy relationship of 3years so far.

 

[DC_Josh]

Teens in London don't date, they copulate. It repulses me.

This is true in Scotland as well; we have more teen mums than adult ones.

Scotland is such a brilliant country. Our scumbags reproduce at a terrifying rate.


on topic:
I was at his house on the saturday, saw my favourite band on the sunday. I was beyond happy. Then on the Monday night I got dumped for no apparent reason, blocked on msn/facebook/xbox live and that was that. fun times, mate! :')

This recently happened to a girl-mate of mine. Only advice I can give you is try not to sweat it, tends to just he the fool of a lad pushing his massive insecurities on you. Did he give a reason?

That or he wants be a a dick and have you chase him.

 

[Gurk]

Ahh well my ex boyfriend cheated on me, then proceeded me to tell me that I'm a horrible person. I discovered that he cheated on me because the twat decided to do it at the party we attended together! He was far too generic for me, though.