Ryu890 said:
*deep breath*
I in no way consider myself the go-to authority on reviewer styles, and I am certainly not her 'boss' who can tell her exactly how to do her reviews.
That said, you clearly have very little respect for Susan if you believe that she can't handle a little critique, and the only people she needs to talk to are those that comepleatly agree with everything she does.
Here's the simple fact: Ryu890 watched the review, and felt a certain way. That is that it was informative, yet had a repeated lame joke.
This means that her review had a specific effect on one person. This one person may be inconsequential, but there's always that chance that the lurkers feel the same.
I am not commanding her to change her style like some 8 year old troll. I am offering my critique as a viewer. She can ignore it if she wants, or she can take it into consideration. But I believe she's old enough to make that decision on her own, not to have someone leaping to the rescue and saying 'ignore him. You're perfect the way you are.'
*deep breath*
Ni...there I go again. I sound offensive, don't I? Quite frankly, I feel offended. If I didn't like her style, period, I wouldn't be watching. I wouldn't be commenting. Quite frankly, I have better things to do with my time if I thought she was THAT noobish. But I don't.
Heck the fact that she brought out an otherwise quality review is commendable. But its still a review with a rather large blemish, in one person's eye.
But why is it that when someone offers a differing opinion, he's immediately shot down and treated like the bad guy?
I apologize if I sound rude. But I'm pissed now. She's not perfect. No one is. And critiquing can ONLY hurt if someone is incredibly lacking in self-confidence. She can ignore what I've said. And there'd be no issue. But you sell her short when you tell me that suggesting she alters her style is somehow an act of evil.
First things first: I apologize if it seemed like I was attacking you or painting you as the 'bad guy'. That was not my intent. In fact, I took great pains to avoid anything which would be a direct indictment of your opinion. Yes, you are most certainly entitled to your opinion... but so am I.
Let me address the bit about not having respect for Susan: nothing could be further from the truth, and to imply so is a cheap shot, frankly: you're making an assumption which paints me in a bad light. Also, I'm not 'white-knighting' for Susan. She doesn't need my help. I was speaking about critiquing style, and Susan's article just happened to be the one where the subject came up.
To cut to the chase, I'm sorry you're pissed, but I still feel that you are in the wrong. Style is not objective, it's
subjective. It is the way that an author distinguishes his or her writing from others that are covering the same subject. Without individual style, we would basically be reading the same articles and stories over and over with little or no variation to offer a different experience.
I had no problem with you saying that you didn't care for the joke-- you are entitled to your opinion. It's when you trotted out the 'In short, there are two basic 'styles' of reviewing I've seen...' that my hackles rose. I can tell you from experience that authors spend a lot of time trying to find their 'voice' (which can be a synonym for style), so it can be a touchy subject. Like I said, if you don't care for an author's style, you wouldn't read his books, right? Why should a review be any different? Yes, you're correct: if you're confident in your style, it shouldn't be that big of a deal... but it still doesn't feel good to hear/read someone saying "Oh, you're doing it wrong. Do this or this."
And finally, I have to ask, how do you reconcile:
Ryu890 said:
So eiather get some better jokes, or cut them alltogether. ITs just...lame if you half-heartedly do one or the other.
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I say this purely for your benefit.
(emphasis added)
with:
Ryu890 said:
I in no way consider myself the go-to authority on reviewer styles, and I am certainly not her 'boss' who can tell her exactly how to do her reviews.
I am not commanding her to change her style like some 8 year old troll.
That is
exactly what you did. And before you claim that was not your intent, I don't see much wiggle room. Perhaps you could argue that it should've come off as a 'suggestion', but the way it was stated caused at least one person (me) to take it differently.
I was fine with everything else you said, really.
And like I said, as an apiring author, it sort of hit home for me. Sorry about that.