We ARE game academia (Or at least I like to think we are so I feel better about myself). Are we bitchy and overly keen to discuss the shit out of any major new thing? Sure. But it's also the way that we keep the games industry in check. If not for our bitching and moaning, we'd be living in a world where all games have always online DRM, with the Xbone still having its horrible features, where Steam is still as broken as it was in its genesis. It would be unpleasant for all gamers, not just those of us who frequent these types of forums.
Also, half the time when "entitled gamers" is thrown around, we ARE entitled. We were called entitled when we complained about Diablo 3, but we were entitled to a working game when we payed 60 bucks for it. We were called entitled when we complained about Sim City, but we were, once again, entitled to a working game.
Does the industry want to paint us as evil, complaining assholes? I guess. Would be in its favour? No. As much as we complain, and *****, and moan, and be generally negative, it DOES have an effect. You can't not see a shitstorm of the size of the Xbone debacle, even if you're Microsoft. The Xbone wouldn't have done well, no matter if we didn't know until a week before launch. We actively saved Microsoft a bunch of money.
Now I'm just writing in circles, but I think my point is made: Our constant bitching is a good thing for the industry. Whilst every other artistic medium has a circle of academics to keep it in check, the games medium is too young for one, so it has to do with us, the uncivilized hordes of the internet for now.