HSIAMetalKing said:
Kikosemmek said:
If my ten year-old wants to play an M-rated game, I'll buy him a copy and play it with him.
That's grade-A parenting right there.
Whether or not that was sarcastic, I cannot take offense. Children are not the brainless tools the ESRB deems them to be. It's far more important to show compassion, attention, and love to a child than to prohibit him/her from having fun via videogame restriction. It's much better, in my opinion, to be present when your children are being exposed to life's many colorful faces, especially corrupt, dirty ones, in order to provide guidance, advice, information and confidence. Last I checked, that _is_ grade-A parenting.
I had a great pair of parents who were always there when I needed them, unconditionally. They gave me love and nurturing and I grew up to be an honest, responsible, successful and well-mannered man. Do you think that my playing Doom or Mortal Kombat could have corrupted their influence? Gaming served as a great way to have fun, and became a huge hobby of mine, but parent-child relationship is what ultimately made me what I am, not any message, image or sound from a game or movie.
Look at it this way: it is only a matter of time before someone learns how to curse, and what killing, rape, disease and war really are. Ignorance does not make that person a better or stronger one. The paradigm in which this information is received, however, does. To a child, there is no greater influence on paradigm and identity than family, and most importantly the parents.
Raising my children is my own business. Advice is welcome, but orders are not, so I can't take the ESRB or any censorship agency seriously. Such judgment should be reserved for the indivudial.