It's amazing nobody is called out on the fact that they're being jackasses towards the kid who saved their asses, what, seven times? And that if he hadn't done what he did, ALL of humankind would've been fucked because of Zeruel? Most of humankind being fucked is better than ALL of it. It doesn't help that we, the audience, know he wasn't even in control of his Eva once it started busting open the S2 Engine and that up until it did Misato was CHEERING HIM ON.
The problem here is that literally the whole movie hinges on Shinji being told jack shit by anyone of importance, barring Kaworu. Seriously, everyone except those two were one dimensional passive aggressive assholes towards Shinji. Misato treats him like dogshit and has a BOMB COLLAR put on the kid. With no explanation. It's as if she's some weird parallel universe Misato who never met Shinji and doesn't know that the kid would've gone along with everything if she'd simply explained the situation.
Hell, even the reviewers on Kotaku pointed this out:
"Characters lose all common sense so the plot/drama can be railroaded in. If the logical conversation had happened in this film, the movie would be 15 minutes long:
Misato: Shinji, you've been trapped in the Eva for 14 years. Your dad is insane and trying to end the world. We're trying to stop him.
Shinji: What about Rei? Where is she?
Misato: She's dead, Shinji. You were there.
Shinji: No, I saved her. She was in the plug with me!
Misato: You were the only one in there when we got you out. But if she's in there, Shinji, we'll do everything we can to get her out, too. ...But there's one thing you should know. Your father cloned Rei and is using her against us.
Shinji: That bastard! What can I do to help?
Misato: The problem is, Shinji, that the last time you were in the Eva, you started the Third Impact. We don't know what will happen if you get in it again. So we need you to sit this one out for a while until we know more."
So yeah, I love the movie's premise and all, but the characters have become so pants on head retarded it's hard to not roll my eyes. Also, who the hell in Misato's group thought it was a good use of resources to build a giant Eva battleship that requires an Eva to power it? Because their ass needs to be fired.