Ex bf/gf...How annoying are they?!
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You sure you can't just get along with him and be friends? Are you absolutely sure he's trying to rekindle an old flame?Aviator Ombre said:
I dunno, but my interpretation of the information that you've given me just seems like you want to get rid of him for no apparent reason (apart from the word 'ex').
Alternatively, you could just say that you want nothing to do with him, no worries.
Here is a story:
I was good friends with my Exgf b4 we went out. We went through a fase of going out and breaking up (total of 3 times) over the course of two years, untill the final one. When we broke up the final time she went and began spreading malishious rumors about me, oh and she burst into tears when i broke up with her. OH HANG ON SHE BROKE UP WITH ME. So yer, she then went out with my best friend (who remains so 2day) and they broke up. This caused our hole friend group to spilt in half into the 'Boys' and 'girls+one gay' situation just like primary skl (minus the gay).
After a few months things seemed to quiten down, but we have never become the friends we used to be before we went out.
And every now and then she seems to throw rabbit shite at the fan and brings it all back up again, this doesn't last very long and is normal just the small things. I'm gonna say she was a gold digger, digger for gold that wasn't there
The problem we had when we did go out was that she was o so timid, o so very timid. ALways made up exuses so she didn't have to go out. and she spoke to me more often on MsN and txts and Email then she did in person.
I was good friends with my Exgf b4 we went out. We went through a fase of going out and breaking up (total of 3 times) over the course of two years, untill the final one. When we broke up the final time she went and began spreading malishious rumors about me, oh and she burst into tears when i broke up with her. OH HANG ON SHE BROKE UP WITH ME. So yer, she then went out with my best friend (who remains so 2day) and they broke up. This caused our hole friend group to spilt in half into the 'Boys' and 'girls+one gay' situation just like primary skl (minus the gay).
After a few months things seemed to quiten down, but we have never become the friends we used to be before we went out.
And every now and then she seems to throw rabbit shite at the fan and brings it all back up again, this doesn't last very long and is normal just the small things. I'm gonna say she was a gold digger, digger for gold that wasn't there
The problem we had when we did go out was that she was o so timid, o so very timid. ALways made up exuses so she didn't have to go out. and she spoke to me more often on MsN and txts and Email then she did in person.
I must ask, how did you accomplish this?Mr LS said:
My story is this...
Basically good friends with her and we liked each other, trouble was she had a boyfriend. Over the course of about 3 months she ended up breaking up with him and on the day that she broke up with him I started going out with her (stupid move I know). We didn't even last 3 weeks, although not for want of trying. My problem was that I thought that she still liked him and kept nagging her about it.
Anyway we broke up and then less then a week later she is back with the same guy she broke up with for me, and try as I might I just can't seem to become friends with her again.
so to answer the OP's question: very
Pretty much the same for me, but with one girl I had an explosive breakup. She tried to get all her friends to hate me, but instead, they all sided with me and she got somewhat 'exiled' while I gained a load of new friends. She was annoying, but hardly a bad experiencefenrizz said:
Also, a friend of mine who fancied me didn't want to go out with me because she was scared that the inevitable breakup would ruin our friendship
Edit:
If this counts, my friend once went our with a girl he hardly knew, and I advised him against it. He had a massive rant at me and called me really unsupportive but the next day, she broke up with him, and now everyone takes the piss cos his relationship only lasted 12 waking hours
My last serious gf went a little crazy trying to get me back after we broke up, she would like text me everyday and phone me constantly and when I stopped answering she would use other phones so I didn't recognise the number fortunately the fact I had finished uni and travelled the 200 odd miles back home and she had not made it very tough for her to physically intrude in my life.
I suppose I should be flattered.
I suppose I should be flattered.
Until you've been chased down a hall by an angry ex girlfriend firing a staple gun at you for breaking up with her, you do not know the meaning of the words "bunny boiler" or "psycho".
Mind you, this is the same girl who tried to commit suicide with safety scissors about 3 months later xD
Mind you, this is the same girl who tried to commit suicide with safety scissors about 3 months later xD
My ex and I are fine because we've known each other since we were kids.
I think there's still a little tension there though. I mean, just last night I was on a date with my current girlfriend and my ex walked up to us with this Russian bodybuilder around her arms. It was obvious to me that she was trying to get me jealous and that she was just looking for attention. It's a good thing my current girlfriend didn't notice the awkwardness of the situation and we had a fairly normal conversation afterwards.
Anyway, the reason I broke up with her in the first place is because she dresses up in a donkey suit every night to beat up mobsters as some sort of vigilante outlaw. I heard she's getting mixed up with a psychotic mime or whatever nowadays and I don't want to have anything to do with that.
I think there's still a little tension there though. I mean, just last night I was on a date with my current girlfriend and my ex walked up to us with this Russian bodybuilder around her arms. It was obvious to me that she was trying to get me jealous and that she was just looking for attention. It's a good thing my current girlfriend didn't notice the awkwardness of the situation and we had a fairly normal conversation afterwards.
Anyway, the reason I broke up with her in the first place is because she dresses up in a donkey suit every night to beat up mobsters as some sort of vigilante outlaw. I heard she's getting mixed up with a psychotic mime or whatever nowadays and I don't want to have anything to do with that.
I've only had one ex and unfortunitly I was the annoying ex. Took great leghths to compleatly ignore her sent her random text messages with random words and and generally acted like a depressed jerk. Oddly enough she forgave me a little while after we broke up.I got over her but I tend to aviod her as its better for my sanity.
Well, I used to love her, but I had to kill her, she bitched so much, she drove me nuts and now we're happier this way.
One girl I dated sends me messages every once in a blue moon about how depressed she is and life sucks etc.
Another insane Korean girl I dated (South, mind you) creeps around my high school (she graduated two years ago) every once in a while, and tells another ex of hers that she dyes her hair with her blood. Needless to day, my ex's don't do anything mean, just creepily annoying.
Another insane Korean girl I dated (South, mind you) creeps around my high school (she graduated two years ago) every once in a while, and tells another ex of hers that she dyes her hair with her blood. Needless to day, my ex's don't do anything mean, just creepily annoying.
Strange turn of events, I ended up having to share a house with a particularly crazy ex for a whole year. She was... proficient... at making life hell.
Fun times!
Fun times!
