Facebook Angst

[Tdc2182]

I don't even know what to say. That was just extremely uncalled for, unless you did something to her?

If you have humongous balls, talk about the time the Football team performed a bukake on her face.

Or maybe a little less harsh, like the fact she is insecure. Did she friend you on Facebook?

In all reality, It's probably best not to say anything.

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This is literally why I don't have facebook. It's just arguments arguments arguments. But anyway, 'everyone in the year' not liking you, probably consists of two of her friends, who judging by your description, isn't very nice either. Being in Year 10 Secondary School, I know people like this, and they won't be laughing when you succeed in life and they don't.
I know you probably wasn't looking for anything like this but I know how you feel and I'm here if you wanna talk or anything

TLDR: Ignore her, you're right, she's wrong.

I honestly have never had an argument on my facebook (Despite a post with my girlfriend who wouldn't tell me if she was breaking up with me), and I have owned mine for over 3 years. The thing is, it is extremely easy to avoid all the drama on facebook, Just don't friend the people you don't like.

Oh and also, I like the "probably consists of two of her friends" part. Girls are a hivemind when they are with their friends. What Ambrosian said is pretty much true.

 

[Rouse]

I have to say, I'd answer with the smartest thing I've got, just for the fun and to see her reaction.

That IS, however, childish and pointless, depends on how bored you are. Yet I still think that if you don't put some sense into people like this they'll only get it the hard way. You're doing it for a good cause.

 

[The Ambrosian]

I don't even know what to say. That was just extremely uncalled for, unless you did something to her?

If you have humongous balls, talk about the time the Football team performed a bukake on her face.

Or maybe a little less harsh, like the fact she is insecure. Did she friend you on Facebook?

In all reality, It's probably best not to say anything.

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This is literally why I don't have facebook. It's just arguments arguments arguments. But anyway, 'everyone in the year' not liking you, probably consists of two of her friends, who judging by your description, isn't very nice either. Being in Year 10 Secondary School, I know people like this, and they won't be laughing when you succeed in life and they don't.
I know you probably wasn't looking for anything like this but I know how you feel and I'm here if you wanna talk or anything

TLDR: Ignore her, you're right, she's wrong.

I honestly have never had an argument on my facebook (Despite a post with my girlfriend who wouldn't tell me if she was breaking up with me), and I have owned mine for over 3 years. The thing is, it is extremely easy to avoid all the drama on facebook, Just don't friend the people you don't like.

Oh and also, I like the "probably consists of two of her friends" part. Girls are a hivemind when they are with their friends. What Ambrosian said is pretty much true.

Thank you ;D
On the "No argument" point, are you in Secondary School, where everyone's favourite hobby is arguing

 

[dmase]

So first i thought well the slutty bitchy girls always think they speak for everybody and hate people when they just see their pictures, much less talk to someone. Except you said this "Also, I've been very nice (at least, by my standards)", so yeah. Advice, if you live in a glass house don't ask people to throw stones at your house.

Anyways your response will amount to something like your slut except with some imagination and creativity i hope and then it stops being over fbook. I've seen the same type of girl cuss out half a class, throw something at the teacher, and then drive home. They also travel in herds, so how do you like your enemies? distant with a silent disdain unless you ask or in your face?

 

[Quantum Star]

She's probably just hunting for attention, and people have posted much worse on that site. Simply by ignoring her, you have proven yourself to be better than her.

Don't feed the trolls.

 

[Ziadaine_v1legacy]

Ignore her, block her and move on. She's just trying to get you flared up.

Or as we say on the internet:

 

[Robert632]

Ignore it. no clever comebacks or sarcasm or anything, just flat out ignore her.

 

[DuctTapeJedi]

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Chances are, she got really drunk or high and confused you with a cast member from "Jersey Shore," or some equally terrible reality show before she posted this.

 

[feycreature]

Er...you kinda walked into it "I'll tell you what I dislike about you" may generally be more lighthearted, but if you ask an asshole what they dislike about you, they'll probably tell you in no uncertain terms. It's like saying "slap me in the face" and then complaining they slapped you too hard. Or asking Yahtzee to proofread your writing. It's almost certain the result is going to be harsh, you know they have no reason to spare your feelings, and trying to argue is just going to sound petty. So be the mature one, ignore it, and maybe don't ask for the opinions of people you don't respect and/or who obviously don't respect you.

 

[superbatranger]

You shouldn't let what she said bother you. Just ignore her.

 

[Twad]

How about ignoring her entirely? THat kind of answer is so vague it doesnt have any value. She is just saying that because she try to get a rise out of you. A gratuitious attack. (of course i dont know her but i already got stuff like this in high school, same pattern)

Ignore her reply or just remove her from the list of PPL that can contact you. Problem solved.

 

[blankedboy]

Don't feed the trolls.

Do I win the thread?

 

[RatRace123]

I'd say don't respond, and that the girl might have a crush on you... or she may just really be a jerkhole (um, what do you call a female jerkhole, still a jerkhole? Jerkholette?)
Just leave well enough alone
(*****! That's it!)

 

[Ninonybox_v1legacy]

The girl in question is like the classic high school slut; always wears tonnes of make-up, never works for anything, is dropping out of school this year (we're in year 10) and is generally a fucking asshole.

well just tell her that....it is the best retort i can think of.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

Who the fuck cares? Ignore it. So what if she and the rest of your grade hate you for being arrogant?

 

[Makon]

I wouldn't dude, you should never argue with an idiot; they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Honestly? This.

By engaging her any further, all you're doing is setting yourself up for some long-running rant, by her, that paints you as the bad guy in this. The best thing you could really do is ignore her. If she asks if you got her message at any point, acknowledge it, and do your best to play the 'neutral' card. 'Neutral' card being that you acknowledge her opinion, but don't really try to counter or force it. Basically, consider it 'noted'. Any intellectual individual can look at her message and figure out that it isn't something from a truly intellectually gifted or grounded person. Just let it roll off, but overall: do not counter it. Like I said above, and others have said, countering her and her opinion will only give her the ammunition to paint you as the bad guy in it.

 

[Deleted]

Recently, a girl who was in my year level posted this on my facebook page:

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i dislike that you need to do something with your hair, get it styled or something. Also the fact that throughout school you always thought you were more intelligent than or above others. Also i dislike that you're oblivious to the fact that almost every single person in our grade dislikes you or maybe you're not and you're smarter than us all.. Sorry it's brutal but you asked.

The problem I face is that I find myself more amused by this than hurt (although I am hurt as well). The girl in question is like the classic high school slut; always wears tonnes of make-up, never works for anything, is dropping out of school this year (we're in year 10) and is generally a fucking asshole. I've never hated her, and I've always felt a sort of empathy towards her.

Now, should I reply to this post, or should I leave well enough alone?

EDIT: In regards to if I asked her opinion or not, yes, I did. She posted one of those, "like this and I'll tell you what I dislike about you," things, but to my knowledge, they're generally done more light-heartedly than this.

Also, I've been very nice (at least, by my standards) to her all year, complimenting her and the like.

She probably feels threatened or annoyed by you and though she's try to save face by being aggressive towards you. As shown by how she said you thought that you were smarter than other people (ergo she feels inferior to you). Trumping her in an argument won't do anything though, she won't change or apologize, just delete your comments. Such is the beauty of the internet.

If you go through with telling it like it is, prepare for the army of white knights.

Spoiler: you will need this

 

[Zaik]

She's running dry on attention and wanted to spark up some drama, totally ignoring anything she says will net you a win. Don't say anything in response at all, that is exactly what she wants. Also, from now on totally ignore her altogether, don't look at her, talk to her, or participate in any conversation that involves her.

Also, slightly off topic, you need to thicken your skin up a bit, if high school sluts are able to come up with a relevant insult that hurts your feelings you are in for a world of hurt once you are in a setting that actually matters.

 

[neoontime]

Don't bother, any response would just feed her, making you look more like a bad guy.