Failure "All the cool kids are doing it."

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S-Unleashed

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I try what I can. Sometimes I'm sick of working and feeling like I'm not getting anything. I really just want to stick to the social life due I have don't have much of one.
 

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geldonyetich said:
I'm trying not to vent copious amounts of hatred in your general direction because you're only stating facts, but all that just killed me inside, what kind of world do we live in where hard, honest work doesn't pay off and earn us what we should be entitled to, whereas smooth-talking fuckskulls who've done shit all with their life snap up all the best jobs, even when they're utterly undeserving...

I hate the job market, I vote we build a Rapture-esq city underwater, a utopia where hard work pays off and we get what we rightfully earn. You know, just without the mind altering drug treatments.
 

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Booze Zombie said:
I dropped out of school at 12 because I couldn't handle the social side of things and then floundered as social workers scrambled to figure out how to "deal with me".

I wish I could've put up with school, I wish I had stayed to be properly educated, but I didn't.
I just wanted to learn whilst ignoring people, but I had to put up with them, it crushed my soul, I couldn't handle it.

I hope that doesn't make me "a cool kid".

Regardless, I can't understand "normal people" wanting to dick around and not be educated.
I wanted to be educated, I just couldn't handle being social.

It really baffles me.
I'm homeschooled for the same reason but I'm doing my classes and going to graduate. I didn't really 'drop out'.

You should try online courses, they're worth it.
 

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Yeah, Fully half my graduating class had grades that were technical failures, but the curve boosted them up. Of the whole class of 120, 12 went on to university, every last one of them in my circle of friends. What pisses me off the most is that most of those idiots come from fairly wealthy parents and so won't be totally shafted without education.
 

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Poomanchu745 said:
Shit, im working my ass off in my last semester of college to keep my GPA up over 3.5 and not let it drop even though it probably really wont matter. But in this shitty job market I need every advantage I can get an if it means a 3.55 instead of 3.49 then well, I gotta do what i gotta do.

People shitting their life away is a funny way to end up flipping burgers and wondering why you don't date the hot girl any more.
3.5 GPA?

I may have the numbers wrong, but I though my class's average was about 20...

(Grade 9 accelerate, by the way)
 
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Although this sounds like an utterly pointless new phenomenon; (I never experienced it, everyone in my school was an overachiever, driven to near insanity by an overbearing school system that either made you a genius or a psycho) I'm more interested in this idea that the cool kids in school will go on to become the burger flippers in Wendy's etc.

That's an image from television, put together by high school nerds who like to think their enemies never amounted to anything. Confidence, which the jocks you despise so much exhibit by the bucketload, is a key factor in getting any job which requires an interview, and any good job requires an interview. Intelligent kids bullied every day of their life have lower self-esteem, even if they don't realise, and so come across as self-deprecating, which employers shy away from.

They might not have the uber grades you do, but the jocks are not going to fail at life, and you won't suddenly hit a point where you accelerate past everyone you knew in school.

Thankfully though, by the time you hit the point where any of this means anything, if you're still in that close contact with people from high school, you're probably living in the past anyway.
 

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PoisonUnagi said:
Poomanchu745 said:
Shit, im working my ass off in my last semester of college to keep my GPA up over 3.5 and not let it drop even though it probably really wont matter. But in this shitty job market I need every advantage I can get an if it means a 3.55 instead of 3.49 then well, I gotta do what i gotta do.

People shitting their life away is a funny way to end up flipping burgers and wondering why you don't date the hot girl any more.
3.5 GPA?

I may have the numbers wrong, but I though my class's average was about 20...

(Grade 9 accelerate, by the way)
Um im not sure where you go to school but its out of a 4. So if you got straight As you would have a 4.
 

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Angelo Credo said:
geldonyetich said:
I'm trying not to vent copious amounts of hatred in your general direction because you're only stating facts, but all that just killed me inside, what kind of world do we live in where hard, honest work doesn't pay off and earn us what we should be entitled to, whereas smooth-talking fuckskulls who've done shit all with their life snap up all the best jobs, even when they're utterly undeserving...

I hate the job market, I vote we build a Rapture-esq city underwater, a utopia where hard work pays off and we get what we rightfully earn. You know, just without the mind altering drug treatments.
Or you could do as I do - look into the possibility of self-employment. Unjobbing, as we're referring to it these days.

[Really, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense that those of us with skills are beating down a path to the door of those who seek only to exploit us. It used to be that there were a lot more people who were self-employed than working for big companies. When the transition happened, this is when the schmoozers were empowered.]
 

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geldonyetich said:
Or you could do as I do - look into the possibility of self-employment. Unjobbing, as we're referring to it these days.
That works too, less of a hassle to pull off for starters, however, I fear I may experience some difficulty in self-employing myself as a criminal profiler.
 

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Angelo Credo said:
geldonyetich said:
Or you could do as I do - look into the possibility of self-employment. Unjobbing, as we're referring to it these days.
That works too, less of a hassle to pull off for starters, however, I fear I may experience some difficulty in self-employing myself as a criminal profiler.
Hard to say. I wonder how often they call in consultants.
 

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Well...being in asia, most of us are not THAT extreme, but there will always be asshole though.
Me personally am sickened, mainly due to the fact i am studying 'till midnight or something while these ASSHOLES spend their time jacking of or something.
God i hate those people....
 

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Angelo Credo said:
I vote we build a Rapture-esq city underwater, a utopia where hard work pays off and we get what we rightfully earn. You know, just without the mind altering drug treatments.
sign me up!

OT: yeah, this shit happens at my school, too. Hopefully they'll get shot in a gun-fight or something ('cause we all know that's how sh!t gets done IN THA STREETZ!) or OD on some sort of drug... I forsee several outcomes for them that end in death or homelessness.

I guess what I'm trying to say is not to let those tards bother you too much.
 

Master Kuja

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geldonyetich said:
Hard to say. I wonder how often they call in consultants.
Hmm, well I do foresee some difficulty in the matter, but I suppose it's worth looking in to if I want any real chance of a fairly secure job, looks like I need to do a bit of brushing up on my research, thanks, I feel there may be hope for my future yet.
 

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Kuchinawa212 said:
I have no patients for them, I do my work so I can get a good job and live a happy life. I have .a self declared no social life. I don't go to party or dances, or very rarely hang out with my friend on weekends. Why? Because I want to get through highschool, then collage, and if I'm lucky, medschool. And I'm not going to be able to do that if I goof off and fail all my classes.
You are also robbing yourself of the only time in your life when you can have fun and just enjoy life without worries. But different strokes for different folks.
 

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It was always like this - today it's "cool kids", in 19th century it was children of aristocrats. Only difference now is that you see more of 'em, because there's less division between social classes.

And honestly, i don't know what to do with it. Maybe you should just ignore them, get all the education you can, and then become a freelancer or open your own company rather than seek employment in big ones? That's what i'm planning to do, anyways.
 

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Angelo Credo said:
geldonyetich said:
Hard to say. I wonder how often they call in consultants.
Hmm, well I do foresee some difficulty in the matter, but I suppose it's worth looking in to if I want any real chance of a fairly secure job, looks like I need to do a bit of brushing up on my research, thanks, I feel there may be hope for my future yet.
Of course, another thing you could do is just get good at schmoozing. It's somewhat dishonest to manipulate others, but if it's that or the underside of a bridge, perhaps it's for the best. Besides, beating the schmoozers at their own game may well be poetic justice. You become a mighty antibody for stupidity by masterminding it.
 

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Angelo Credo said:
...I can never truly grasp why someone would possibly think it's cool to systematically fuck up your education and all chances of having at least a half decent life and career.
Because there are no guarantees in this world and because you're only young once. I'm 27 and I'm just now finishing up my associates. I left high school at 17 and finished in night school. From 17 to 23 I did nothing but have lots of interesting and stimulating experiences, i.e. fun. Good times. Bad times. While they were not what you might think as "educational," they were things that put me far ahead of most other students in terms of practical, real world experience.

I value the experiences more than any amount of money I would have made being a mindless zombie, perpetually propelled from institutional experience to the next, for the sake of money and the notion of happiness that comes in a total package.

Read Player Piano.
 

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Well, school is part of the system. But it's necessary to put up with, until of course you can make enough money to remove yourself from the system entirely, and live in a world filled with unicorns and rainbows, every moment overflowing with ecstasy.
 

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geldonyetich said:
Of course, another thing you could do is just get good at schmoozing. It's somewhat dishonest to manipulate others, but if it's that or the underside of a bridge, perhaps it's for the best. Besides, beating the schmoozers at their own game may well be poetic justice.
In terms of my principles, I don't think I could happily manipulate people, I'm aware of the fact that life ain't all sunshine and rainbows, painfully aware of that, I know that sometimes you've got to manipulate others to get ahead, but I'd rather not do it unless absolutely necessary or there are no other alternatives. I figure if I can get through my education, get my degree and get a job off of the way I present myself in an interview, my education and my CV, then brilliant, but if all that fails, then I've not got much choice, manipulation ahoy.

Though the idea of poetic justice is one that appeals to me...Hmmm...