Boy am i glad the "emo" cliche at this moment. I do agree with you on some parts like those preps being dumb asses.
Yes, I have to agree completely. I think a large part of the curse of intelligence is that you are intelligent enough to be painfully aware of what's the right thing to do. Indeed, I think intelligence and true morality are closely related.Angelo Credo said:In terms of my principles, I don't think I could happily manipulate people, I'm aware of the fact that life ain't all sunshine and rainbows, painfully aware of that, I know that sometimes you've got to manipulate others to get ahead, but I'd rather not do it unless absolutely necessary or there are no other alternatives. I figure if I can get through my education, get my degree and get a job off of the way I present myself in an interview, my education and my CV, then brilliant, but if all that fails, then I've not got much choice, manipulation ahoy.
Though the idea of poetic justice is one that appeals to me...Hmmm...
Couldn't have said it better myself if I tried, I've never been keen on manipulating people for my own personal gain, it never seemed like the right thing to do under any circumstance, I'd be inclined to agree with you.geldonyetich said:Yes, I have to agree completely. I think a large part of the curse of intelligence is that you are intelligent enough to be painfully aware of what's the right thing to do. Indeed, I think intelligence and true morality are closely related.
However, it's a very small pitch of perspective indeed to consider that often someone who is unqualified has socially engineered their way into a position, and this as much a problem to be solved as any criminal activity...
I think it's just human nature to seek the path of least resistance. It's a function of intelligence to adapt. Many people will have enough intelligence to see that if you're good enough of a social engineer you can work less while being rewarded the same. Few are intelligent enough to resist the temptation or have the vision to understand why it is a problem. To take the high road is to avoid the path of least resistance, and this puts us at a competitive disadvantage.Angelo Credo said:It's a shame really, that such an irritating and infuriating injustice seems fairly impossible to solve, I just feel like I've missed something, when did real, hard work stop being a rewarding and worthwhile endeavour?
The main problem is comparing your lives to other people, my favorite quote is that,geldonyetich said:I think it's just human nature to seek the path of least resistance. It's a function of intelligence to adapt. Many people will have enough intelligence to see that if you're good enough of a social engineer you can work less while being rewarded the same. Few are intelligent enough to resist the temptation or have the vision to understand why it is a problem. To take the high road is to avoid the path of least resistance, and this puts us at a competitive disadvantage.Angelo Credo said:It's a shame really, that such an irritating and infuriating injustice seems fairly impossible to solve, I just feel like I've missed something, when did real, hard work stop being a rewarding and worthwhile endeavour?
This man speaks truth.xDarc said:Because there are no guarantees in this world and because you're only young once. I'm 27 and I'm just now finishing up my associates. I left high school at 17 and finished in night school. From 17 to 23 I did nothing but have lots of interesting and stimulating experiences, i.e. fun. Good times. Bad times. While they were not what you might think as "educational," they were things that put me far ahead of most other students in terms of practical, real world experience.Angelo Credo said:...I can never truly grasp why someone would possibly think it's cool to systematically fuck up your education and all chances of having at least a half decent life and career.
I value the experiences more than any amount of money I would have made being a mindless zombie, perpetually propelled from institutional experience to the next, for the sake of money and the notion of happiness that comes in a total package.
Read Player Piano.
What if we reinstate natural selection with a sort of euthanasia to people who just don't contribute? Or if that is too harsh, howabout a re-socialization via brainwashing?Jakesnake said:Like you said, this ailment has been with society since, well, its beginning.
What you're seeing is the slow destruction of natural selection by modern medicine beginning to take effect.
Indeed so. As the 4 noble truths of Buddhism put it, the essence of life is suffering, but it's ultimately our craving for something else which causes us to suffer.Darchrow said:The main problem is comparing your lives to other people, my favorite quote is that,
"Do not seek to have events happen as you want them to, but instead want them to happen as they do happen, and your life will go well."
Basically I can be as manipulative as I want but I'd never be happy with what I get.
MONEYAngelo Credo said:This is a trend that I've honestly tried to get my head round before, but try as I might, I can never truly grasp why someone would possibly think it's cool to systematically fuck up your education and all chances of having at least a half decent life and career.
There's one incident of this that I discovered recently that frustrated me so much.
One kid from my old school, he was one of those "sit at the back of class and text all lesson" sorts, he was the kid that backchatted the teacher, swore at them, never did work in class and never did any of the homework either. On top of that, he bullied people, regularly started fights, frequently came in either drunk or stoned and yet last week, I discovered that he somehow managed to get accepted to mother fucking Oxford University.
Explain that one to me would you? How is it that someone who did sweet fuck all in the course of their education, failing most of their exams, manages to get into somewhere as prestigious and demanding as Oxford? It's beyond me...