Fetish, Kindred Spirits.

[Bouncing Ferret FIlm]

So we all have fetishes that spice up our life, sex or otherwise. Well i have discovered that looking for people who enjoy these same fetishes is one thing. Finding someone who enjoys them and also have other things in common with them is another thing entirely. I've talked to people with my fetish and they aren't geeky like i am, no real interests in movies, video games, toys etc.

So I figured I'd post my fetish here. Maybe a fellow geek here has the same interests, or if they don't they can tell me i'm a freak (I'm use to it). Or you can post yours and see who else shares or like mind.

My fetish is wetting. I find it a turn on and fun to pee my own pants, or have someone, namely a girl, pee hers. Sometimes diapers come into play, sometimes not... and sometimes some scenario based Roll Playing. Keep in mind that it just stays "in the pants" so to speak. No drinking or showers or anything like that.

So the dice have been cast...

"And here... we... go" JOker, The Dark Knight. (Am I the only one that's going to miss Heath?

 

[Bludge]

You dont necessarily have to find someone who shares the same fetish as you. If you find the right person, they will be willing to experiment and try things with you that they might not have thought about before.

My advice is find someone who has the normal stuff in common with you, and then when the time is right talk to them about the fetish stuff you want to do.

 

[Eclectic Dreck]

I don't really have a fetish that I'm aware of. I do have an odd reaction to injury that isn't sexual but is seemingly related if that counts.

 

[Bouncing Ferret FIlm]

You dont necessarily have to find someone who shares the same fetish as you. If you find the right person, they will be willing to experiment and try things with you that they might not have thought about before.

My advice is find someone who has the normal stuff in common with you, and then when the time is right talk to them about the fetish stuff you want to do.

tried that, been called a freak and a retard, and at best, "its not my stuff".

 

[New Vegas Samurai]

legs LEGS my good sir, long smooth ones that reach up to high heaven, ending in an ever so cleverly cut dress, just above the knee!

and chicks wearing nice heels

 

[Bouncing Ferret FIlm]

You're not a freak; I know quite a number of people who are into that.

As for myself...blood, BDSM, master/slave and feet. *shrug* If I'm a freak for liking then, fair enough; its near impossible to understand a fetish you yourself do not have. Otherwise everyone would be into it.

You don't NEED to have someone with the same kinks as you; its far better to start out normal, and then advance to the more obscure/kinky stuff when you are more comfortable with one another.

Actually, i have a friend who is into those exact things. :-D

 

[Bouncing Ferret FIlm]

legs LEGS my good sir, long smooth ones that reach up to high heaven, ending in an ever so cleverly cut dress, just above the knee!

and chicks wearing nice heels

Thanks for contributing

 

[Macetruwindo]

Well First I think I should say Good Luck, I hope you find someone.

But to be real about it you might just have to resign to the fact you just might have to find 2 partners one to satisfies your kink and one for the relationship. Which throws up the problem of finding a relationship partner that is cool with sharing.

I don't think you are going to find someone nerdy and vanilla, then lead them down the path to your kink. Your best bet I think, would be finding someone with your kink, who you can get along with and lead them down the path of geek.

You don't NEED to have someone with the same kinks as you; its far better to start out normal, and then advance to the more obscure/kinky stuff when you are more comfortable with one another.

I might not have read this correctly, but if I had. Then that and try someone in the kink community fits you geeky/nerdy side and see if they would open up to your kink. Someone with a kink mindset can be more open in try a new one out, not always but the chances who be more higher

Well I hope some of this helps(If Any )

 

[TheLiham]

I like blood and BDSM.

Also, what's the deal with feet?

 

[OutcastBOS]

Voreaphile and Furrie here.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

FREAKS
THE LOT OF YOU
YOU ALL MAKE ME SO SICK I COULD SHIT MILES OF LIQUID HATE

I am kidding. Though that I even have to clarify that makes me a very unhappy chappy.
Fetishes that are not violent or harmful are fine. It's fucking ridiculous that a rape fetish is more acceptable than, say, coprophilia.

It should really stay between you and your porn, though. And perhaps your bedroom partner(s). Really, you have no excuse for complaining about being treated like a sick fuck if you go bandying about the kinky shit you are into like it's something anyone would want to hear.

I, personally, do not have any fetishes. Not even "normal" ones like breasts or ass or whatever.
Being asexual does that to you.

 

[BlindTom]

FREAKS
THE LOT OF YOU
YOU ALL MAKE ME SO SICK I COULD SHIT MILES OF LIQUID HATE

I am kidding. Though that I even have to clarify that makes me a very unhappy chappy.
Fetishes that are not violent or harmful are fine. It's fucking ridiculous that a rape fetish is more acceptable than, say, coprophilia.

It should really stay between you and your porn, though. And perhaps your bedroom partner(s). Really, you have no excuse for complaining about being treated like a sick fuck if you go bandying about the kinky shit you are into like it's something anyone would want to hear.

I, personally, do not have any fetishes. Not even "normal" ones like breasts or ass or whatever.
Being asexual does that to you.

What do you pee out of?

 

[twistedmic]

I've got similar fetishes to the OP, with bondage and spanking thrown in. Though I'm single, I suggest that you look for someone that you share general interests with (i.e. non-sexual) and after a while try to gently introduce your fetishes. Maybe you can start with seeing what her fetishes are (if she has them)and agree to at least try them out (even if they are not your 'thing') then tell her yours.
I think that if she really likes you, you'll have a least a shot at getting her to try a few things out.
Or you can try finding a few of the sites and message boards out there that cater to your tastes (they do exist) and maybe you can get in touch with someone close to you that you click with and see where it goes from there, I've heard that quite a few relationships this day and age start on-line.

 

[black_omega2]

hmm... Well I really have so many that the list would be much shorter if I just listed the stuff I'm not into...
Lets see...

Guro
Scat
Real life vore
Yea I'm pretty sleep deprived and can't think of anymore, but there's a few more.

The rest I either like, am indifferent to, or never tried.

 

[TheSuperiorXemnas]

Furry's, oddly I really don't know why though.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

What do you pee out of?

I have never in my life up until this point ever heard that one before.
You should do stand up. With originality like that you would be perfect.

Not googleing the coprophilia so what is it ? But rape fetish what the fuck ?!

Scatological fixation. Or, in even simpler terms, a poo fetish.
You could have googled that with safe search on at least. First thing to come up is Wikipedia, pretty sure.

 

[IndianaJonny]

Androgyny - think Annie Lennox or early David Bowie.