Fetishes and why you think you have them.

[emeraldrafael]

I've always been attracted more towards the butt then any other part of the body.

originally it was the ability to go at it and not get the girl pregnant, then it just got more about the fact that it can be an enjoy experience.

I am an ass man myself. I also like women with smaller breasts for some reason. I like small women in general though. Although one time, I saw the perfect ass. I'm serious, it was like a perfect orb of booty. I pointed it out to my friend and we both stared until she was out of eyesight. It was God's gift to man, I swear it was.

Breast size was never a large deal to me. I mean, I like them to be a mid B cup, but I like something that fills my hand. Not saying you're ugly if you have A cups (I dated a girl that was flat for a few months before we realized we it just wasnt working out and we both had feelings for other people) just not my preference.

ANd cool, you should have got a pic to share. I like... um... wait, shouldnt talk about my current gf like that, she'd be pissed.

Oka, my last gf (EDIT: just feel weird having all that I did), she had possible the perfect rear.

She was into natural enema play though, which was kinda weird (though I have to admit, its kinda nice once in a while).


.... I think that was too much information. XD

 

[chach_face]

Hmm... alright alright, I don't dig on the... more hardcore aspects a foot fetish can entail, nor would I exactly call it a fetish, but I do appreciate a pretty pair of feet. Cankles are a no go.
I'm not sure why this is so. Maybe because they're connected to legs, which will often lead to the behind/kill zone. Anyone feel me on this one?

 

[Programmed_For_Damage]

I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.

So, how would one explain a lolicon fetish or a incestuous sisters fetish?

What am I, your therapist?

 

[icame]

I've always been attracted more towards the butt then any other part of the body.

originally it was the ability to go at it and not get the girl pregnant, then it just got more about the fact that it can be an enjoy experience.

I am an ass man myself. I also like women with smaller breasts for some reason. I like small women in general though. Although one time, I saw the perfect ass. I'm serious, it was like a perfect orb of booty. I pointed it out to my friend and we both stared until she was out of eyesight. It was God's gift to man, I swear it was.

I can't thank stop laughing at that. Thank you good sir!

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Hmm... alright alright, I don't dig on the... more hardcore aspects a foot fetish can entail, nor would I exactly call it a fetish, but I do appreciate a pretty pair of feet. Cankles are a no go.
I'm not sure why this is so. Maybe because they're connected to legs, which will often lead to the behind/kill zone. Anyone feel me on this one?

There's a theory that some people have foot fetishes because on the map of the brain, the feet are located next to the genitals. I don't know if it the theory actually holds water, but on the surface it looks like it might make sense.

 

[icame]

I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.

So, how would one explain a lolicon fetish or a incestuous sisters fetish?

You want to share 'cake' with you sisters and or mother, and your a pedophile.


Joking...sort of.

 

[aegix drakan_v1legacy]

Yeah, I got one. A weird one. ...No, I'm not gonna tell you. Personally, I could do without it. I just don't like it very much at all.

As to why I have it, no idea. Someday I'll look up a good shrink and find out where it came from and why I have it.

I like a certain alien race. I can't give any reason other than "they are incredibly sexy".

Lemme guess.....QUARIANS, right?

...XD I kid, I kid.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.

Yeah, that has something to do with vague associations, which are more or less the same things that happen with phobias and other, similar things. It makes a lot of sense actually, but I'm not sure that the numbers of people that actually have fetishes would be consistent with stuff like that. I'm not sure though, hence my interest in sexual behavior. XD

 

[Programmed_For_Damage]

I read a book called 'The Brain that Changes Itself' that deals with neuro-plasticity and
it says about sexual fetishes that they stem in some way back to your childhood.
Take for example my latex, pvc, leather fetish. To be brutally honest this most likely stems from my mother's knee length leather boots which used to sit in my closet when I was a very young kid. My mum wore them because they were the style in the 70's (not cos she was a hooker) and as a child I used to like them cos they felt nice to touch, looked interesting and were associated with my mother (which when you're child she is the mortal embodyment of God).
Now I'd need to re-read the chapter to get this right but somehow your adolescent brain wires in some of your sexual preferences with the first experiences (non-sexual mind you) you had with the opposite sex because they are identified as safe, nurturing, live givers. If you didn't have such a parent then you can see how your sexuality can get distorted and poisoned. It's all very Freudean. Anyway my affinity for my mum's leather boots as a three or four year old have "evolved" to my affinity for women in skin tight latex bodysuits. That and the neighbourhood girl used to play games where I'd be tied up as a child and it was somewhat frightening and a touch exhilarating. So I think that somewhat explains my predeliction for bondage.

So, how would one explain a lolicon fetish or a incestuous sisters fetish?

What am I, your therapist?

Nope, just asking how that works for some of those. After all, you brought it up. Oedipus. JK.

Now, now I didn't murder my father after... ahem

Anyhow, I'm just saying what I read in the book and how I believe it pertains to my sexuality. I can't speak for anyone else as it all hinges on self-examination.

 

[FlashHero]

So, how would one explain a lolicon fetish or a incestuous sisters fetish?

Quite easily...

Lolicon is awesome....yet is heavily taboo...to the point of being banned in some countries...this state of almost illegalness gives a rush of adrenaline. Just like committing a crime would. Sister fetishes are good to. How to explain them idk but there just good

I could go alot more in detail but im lazy and probably unbanned in the game i was playing so chau .

 

[Greenhand]

Glasses. It's not a sexual thing, but I find that putting a lady in glasses automatically makes her at least 50% more attractive. Why? Because glasses are sexy dammit!
*adjusts glasses*

 

[Marik2]

Girls in cosplay

nuff said.

Spoiler

 

[rockingnic]

I have a fetish for red heads all of a sudden I think because my only love I ever had was with a red head... But honestly, I'm pretty normal for a guy as far as fetishes go (ass, legs, boobs... etc). But I do have a thing for women to talk sexual dirty with a hint of trying to be dominant (I'm not into extreme domination with a ball gag and hand cuffs though). I don't know why I have this fetish though. I just know I have it because of the way I flirt and interact with girls I hang out with.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

Catgirls.

Spoiler

Cats = cute
Girls = cute

Cat + girl = CUTESPLOSION

 

[OptimisticPessimist]

I won't go into my more odd...interests, but I have always kind of wanted to bang a giantess. Like, a normally (if a bit curvy) proportioned woman, just like 12 feet tall. No clue why. Any amateur psychologists wanna take a crack at that one?