First-cousin Marriage?

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The Gnome King

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Loop Stricken said:
The Gnome King said:
You... assess risk vs. reward differently than I do. For me, the reward of "breeding" with my cousin is far, far lower than any "reward" I would get from doing it.

Maybe your mileage varies.
Well if you're in love, I'd say ones mileage WOULD vary.
You might believe we have no choice over who we fall in love with; I believe we DO have a choice. I wouldn't choose to fall in love with my first cousin - how about that?

Again, YMMV.

I don't even know why I'm still talking about this... :) All you cousin lovers - go for it; if the articles by genetics experts and the statistics don't bother ya, great. If the risk doesn't scare ya, great.

If you can provide your offspring healthcare without involving the government; even better.

This topic isn't really... that interesting. I don't know anyone who wants to breed with their cousin, personally.

I'm out. ;D
 

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The thing that all the crazy people think about the behavior children raised by two gay parents would actually be valid in the case of children born and/or raised by incestuous cousins. I think that people forget that the whole not inbreeding thing was progressive.

If you couldn't show restraint with your family, how can you expect your children to act any different?
 

DarkRyter

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Consensual Adults doing as they will.

As I've heard it, fugly mutant babies take a few generations.
 

Silvianoshei

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The Gnome King said:
1) The damage can be reduced to 0 in a stable, monogamous homosexual couple who have no STIs.
2) The damage can be greatly reduced by condom usage.
3) We're talking about damage between consenting adults vs. damage you are going to potentially do to a new human life; very large difference. You're bringing a 3rd party into the equation.
You're correct. However, most MSM have had multiple partners, and even if they are in a single monogamous relationship, there is still a risk that one of the partners acquired it earlier. I'm not saying anything against homosexuals by the way, there was a big movement in the 80s for awareness that's being replicated now (thank god), but for a decade MSM were the only group in the country that were driving the incidence of STI's. HAART and disinhibition, etc. I was at the USAIDS conference in Chicago and there we're plenty of monogamous homosexual people who were living with HIV/AIDS.

OT: There is a difference, sure, but I would argue that the chances-to-incedcent-consequence ratio of damage of a person getting an STI or colorectal cancer from trauma is far greater.

As for the whole third party idea, you can't argue that. The kid would never have been born in the first place if the parents had never gotten together.

As an aside; I actually support genetic testing for anyone who plans on having a child.

Also, in my eight(+) years of college I've taken a couple genetics courses. ;) You might be interested in these links:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=6509683

and

http://www.biolreprod.org/content/early/2010/05/24/biolreprod.110.084798.full.pdf

The first relates to humans, the second to possible damage done to sperm DNA done in other species... and yes you can't use animals in human studies, but if YOU have taken genetics courses you know much crossover is done this way because all living beings, well, have DNA. We can make certain guesses based on this.
The NPR interview just argues my point for me. It's a village. Most of the population is inbred. It took generations. Not equivalent to one cousin marrying another. It has to happen for generations to take effect.

The second is a biological paper, NOT an epidemiological one. You cannot, and the authors do not, attempt to draw any conclusion on Humans at all. They mention human beings once as an aside, and quickly state that there was sampling bias in that study. I would also question their use of Generalized Linear Models. I can see them wanting the ability to do an F-test on the increment of R-squared for modeling purposes (god knows I've been waiting for the stats boys to come up with an logistic equivalent for years), but I still think that the probabilities you get out of a Generalized Logit model may have been more appropriate considering they want to study potential genetic defect using cross-sectional data. They probably did it both ways, so I dunno what about their data made them do it this way, especially when you consider that the different species were essentially proxies for different exposure groups. It would have made it a lot easier to read I didn't have keep flipping to the tables...

As an aside, I advocate genetic testing too...for those who can afford it :(

Correct; and you also know that animals are seen as a rapid way to get results with genetic testing BECAUSE you can breed so many generations so quickly.
Yeah. You can't do that with Humans though. Kinda my point.

So as long as it takes a while, the damage is acceptable? Personally, when I sought out genetic children I looked for breeding partners as far away from me genetically as possible; and I am happy I did. I know these discussions make people uncomfortable but really, remove all the "ew eugenics" feelings from it and just look at current medical technology and the wisdom of having a child without at least considering his or her genetic future.
It's not just that it takes a while, its just that it has to be done for generations, a concerted family effort. If a few people break the chain, which is likely outside of insular communities, then the damage is averted, genetic diversity is restored.

Peace, brother or sister. We can disagree without questioning each other's comprehension abilities. Yes, I do understand what you are saying I simply think we disagree.
Peace, indeed.

My bottom line is that we aren't in a place to question other people's choices on who they want to marry. Sure it's sub-optimal, but children are born with birth defects everywhere, regardless of who their parents are. Are we going to deny two people who want to get married that? Just because there's a chance that if they do, their kids might end up doing it for generations and somewhere down the line a child will be born with a birth defect? I don't think there is any point to discussing this in a biological context. In the modern societies we live in, there is little chance that your children would marry their cousins, let alone your children's children marrying their cousins (all of whose parents also married your children). Hell, the chance that they will even be married is slimming.

I don't disagree with you that it's not a smart idea. I just don't think we're in any position to question two people's choices.

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The Gnome King

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Silvianoshei said:
I don't disagree with you that it's not a smart idea. I just don't think we're in any position to question two people's choices.
I can see the line of thinking there; I have a feeling we probably agree more than disagree on many things; I just take a cautious take on genetic diversity here. In my opinion, it's like smoking while pregnant - sure, you might have a healthy kid but... why do it at all? Why drink alcohol while pregnant? Why not get genetic testing if you can afford it?

These all sound like reasonable things to do in light of creating a new life that will potentially inhabit the world for 80+ years, yes?

In terms of questioning people's choices, I think we all do it. Would you have a problem with, say, a brother marrying a sister and having children? Where do you draw the line of "OK, THIS much risk is TOO much, but X amount of risk is acceptable...?"

As I said, I'm not terribly interested in the first cousin argument anymore; I wouldn't do it and I personally find it distasteful. I'd probably stop short of wanting it outlawed. *shrug* - having said that, we probably have to look at practical reasons now why all kinds of incest aren't allowed. Why not uncles and nieces, if they're both adults? What about fathers and their daughter, if they're both over 18? Brothers and sisters? Genetic twins?

Where do you draw that line of how much risk is acceptable to a life?

(If you want to take this to PM, feel free, since we're getting way off topic on first cousins now. I'll let the OP make the call ;) )
 

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Silvianoshei said:
And left I forget, this was actually brought up as a moral question once in an ethics class, long ago. The professor posited this to us:

A brother and a sister, both adults, want to have a consensual sexual relationship and they agree to use reliable contraception at all times; with abortion resulting if they did conceive a child. Should society question this relationship at all? Is it moral?

Again I need to stop this is going way off topic... :D
 

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I don't like it.
I think it is really wrong and i don't think people should do such a thing.
I wouldn't forbid people from doing it, it's their choice, but i don't have to like it.
And if you think about it:
Hasn't humanity fucked up it's genetic pool good enough?
Then again, i am not forbiding anybody from anything.