heyheysg said:
Since it's been widely accepted that men are generally shallow, superficial beings. Let's do an unofficial survey.
When you see a hot girl on the street, in the lift, in school or at your office.
a) Your first thoughts are?
b) Your subsequent thoughts and actions
I think "oh, she's hot."
What exactly do you want from me? I occasionally continue to have sexual day dreams about them if they're that kinda hot. I sure as hell don't think that makes me shallow though.
On the other hand there is a standard of looks that has to be met when considering girls as sexual partners, after that a girls personality takes her uphill or downhill, hell, a girls personality can make a girl you wouldn't even consider sexually appealing normally to be so. I guess that can be considered shallow, but its faced by both sides, not just guys, and here's a newsflash people seem to dislike nowadays with PC culture (not computers), being attractive is better than being unattractive. (I'm certainly not saying its everything, or even that important, but some people condemn you for thinking about looks at all which in my opinion is retarded)
(Sorry if my post is badly written, I'm somewhat exhausted but still felt I could contribute a half thought up view. Feel free to quote me if you disagree)