Flaw in Anti-Bullying Law

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Therumancer

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Jarimir said:
Therumancer said:
Jarimir said:
Therumancer said:
Are you sure your definition of bullying is the same as everyone else's? I dont think a parent trying to get their kid to stop using a drug they are addicted to is bullying.

I do think that following around a skinny, effeminant kid, telling him "queers go to hell" IS BULLYING.

That is a distinction I would like to make. I could care less about what one crying woman said in response to a terribly written piece of legislature.
The thing is that the law does not make such distinctions, which is why we've had problems with laws in the past. Assuming that the law is going to be interpeted the same way, and understood to mean the same thing everywhere and forever is a huge mistake. That's why a law has to be very specific and something like "Bullying" is highly subjective as a behavior since someone who wants to run around and broadcast a neo-nazi agenda and is stopped could claim he's being bullied into submission the same way. Anytime you assert yourself with superior force on someone else to force them to stop doing something they want to, and might feel is fine, is bullying. Give it a couple decades worth of precedent and that law as written would effectively prevent anyone from infringing on anyone and stopping in their behavior.

The law cannot function if it's subjective and open to interpetation, and the very fact that we could argue about what constitutes bullying is EXACTLY the point. It's too vague, you would need to specify specifically what is being prohibited. Exceptions likewise have to be very specific. See, the whole "moral or religious" bit is paticularly broad as well, but was intended to castrate a law that was the same way, if your going to say that certain people or situations aren't covered under the law you need to specify what they are.

The problem with trying to regulate this is that it's very subjective to begin with. You might personally make a judgement about how it's wrong to pick on a gay kid, but it's okay to pick on a neo-nazi kid to shut him up, the law however can't be so subjective to begin with, and even if it was going to you'd need to use language that would specify and itemized specific behaviors, because anything broad enough to encompass a lot of differant things can, and will, be used in ways not intended by the law's designer.

Honestly this was a bad idea to begin with, and totally unnessicary, since the trick is to get schools to enforce existing policies. This law was however nightmarish in it's original form, and the changes DO render the law irrelevent, but that was doubtlessly the point.
How about a law that defines bullying along the lines of harassment laws already on the books. Or, do you not agree on the law getting involved when one person is incessantly harassing another.

You say that laws shouldnt enforce morallity. On what grounds is murder illegal other than morallity?

Well, laws exist to enforce social order and keep society functioning. Murder is illegal because you can't really keep society functioning if everyone just runs around killing each other.

To be honest though when it comes to morality the US system addesses the question by defining a few things as "mala in se" or "Evil In Of Themselves" without any further justification. It's one of the major cornerstones of our legal system. Other than that morality isn't supposed to apply, because it's a highly subjective thing. What's moral and right to one person, and what is to another doesn't nessicarly match up. To a Muslim it might be perfectly acceptable to stone a woman to death as an example if she doesn't marry the guy who raped her, to a non-Muslim that's a moral outrage. The US deals with this kind of situation by not evaluating the events morally but by having put laws into place banning rape, murder, and other things for purposes of social order, and then not granting religious or moral exception... the rule of law trumping any paticular moral code.

Every once in a while when you hear someone knocking the US system, and indeed that of most civilized nations, you gear the quote "This is a nation of laws, not of Justice" which is used out of context. The point being that Justice can mean differant things to differant people based on their point of view, which is why the law supersedes it in an absolute
sense.

I'm probably not articulating this well, and it's been a long time since I studied Criminal Justice (ironic name that, given my point), but that's the gist of it.

The problem with defining bullying along the lines of harassment, is that it's pointless, since those laws already exist (hence the referance). Of course this gets back to one of my initial points about this whole thing being stupid to begin with (having a lot to do with why it was undermined doubtlessly) because the issue isn't so much a matter of there not being appropriate laws and policies to cover these situations already, but a problem with people enforcing them. Your only supposed to be creating new laws (or creating amendments to existing ones) if the problem in question has not been addrssed already.... in this case it has. The problem is nobody enforcing those laws.

In the end this whole law was a political stunt for the people in authority to prove that they are doing something, without actually having to do anything. They can then say "well, we did all we can, we pased a law" which is easier than enforcing the laws in cases like this.

I explained earlier exactly why Bullying continues and has become part of society. Consider though that to stop this, especially with how heavily ingrained into society it is over many genrations, you'd wind up having to expel tremendous amounts of students, and fire vast numbers of educational workers and administrators. After all by policy if 20-30 kids on a sports team ar bullying one kid, you need to punish them all for some pretty harsh things. This sounds great up until you look at what the numbers will wind up being given the current social order and you wind up with all the parents freaking out because they can't be home with their kids (having to work) and of course because all their children are being deprived of their educations (even if by their doing). Nationwide if this caught on, just imagine what it would be like if like 60% of the kids in school were all expelled, and when your looking at the extent of this problem and how engrained in the school experiences it is, that's probably conservative.... and that's not even getting into the teachers and administrators who would be held responsible, we already have trouble finding enough teachers to do the job, and the people to keep the system functioning. You fire them all, and where do you get the replacements?

Think of the size of the problem, and the simple fact that it has no easy solution. That's what this law was about, it was a stunt by the law makers to try and prove they were doing something, without actually having to do anything. It's easier to pass a new law and call it progress, than to actually enforce the laws and do something when it's a problem like this.

Incidently this is a big issue in general with the USA, and other first world nations, you can't solve any problems without doing a lot of damage and hurting a lot of people especially in the short term. It thus becomes easier to let things remain broken than to fix them. When you consider people needing to be re-elected, obviously since nobody is going to vote for the politician that caused widescale social problems/violence/deaths, the politicians don't want to take major action for their own reasons. Especially seeing as elections happen every few years and when your looking at big problems that can take decades to solve, a politician can't take a long term view of "short term choas now, I stick to my guns, and people will understand when it gets better even if they won't see it for 10 years or so"... he starts something, gets voted out, the new guy slaps a band aid on it or re-asserts the previous system, and nothing changes except the guy who tried to do something is now viewed as an incompetant, a monster, or both irregardless of why he did something or whether it would have worked. It's hard to be a strong/tough leader and deal with the tough issues when you can just be shown the door. Our style of democracy has many advantages, but also many downsides, and this is one of the downsides.
 

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To vivalahelvig - don't you really mean 'pull an Ender on him'?
Do you see what I said there :D?

CAPTCHA. time-t erticon

EDIT: Giant post appeared D: above mine.
EDIT 2: I just realised - half a page appeared. Woah.
 

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However, I am against legislations and whatnot based on religion and morals. Not necessarily because I'm atheist (I believe you can believe whatever the hell you want as long as you keep it to yourself), but because it is just too vague, too subjective, and open to exploitation.
This. A thousand times this. It feels a little strange to be agreeing with a politician (regardless of nationality it doesn't happen very often these days), but she is completely right. If you are going to pass laws to protect kids from bullying then leaving in a clause saying it's acceptable for religious or moral reasons is absurd. For starters, I can't imagine any religious reason that wouldn't amount to much more than hate speech (I can see it now: "why'd you beat up that boy Timmy?" "Because he's a jew and they killed Jesus!" "Well, he's got me there, lolz."), and there can be no objectively moral reason to at the least emotionally, and at worst, physically abuse someone. To even imply that there's any justification for treating someone else like shit is rather abhorrent.
 

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Satsuki666 said:
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What do you mean besides Christians? It shouldn't matter what reasons a bully has. They should be treated the same regardless.
It was a joke about how christians have been using religion to bully people for the past couple thousand years.
Got it. Kind of clever now that I think about it.
 

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I don't think you guys realize what the purpose is of that provision.


As stated before, self-defense is a moral reason, but they cannot explicitly enforce escalating, cause they will get sued. Therefore this gives bullied students the ability to claim the affirmative defense of self-defense as opposed to being given the same punishment as the bully when they attempt to resist.


The pokes at religious reason are fair enough, but I generally applaud this bill for making it possible to not lump bullies and those they torment when the tormented kid attempts to resist in any way.
 

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The dumbest thing about bullying for me is that you can't hit back. That's the dumbest thing ever. I was told a number of times that the onus is on me not to hit back or anything, to hold my heat-of-the-moment reactions in and not hit back or do something back? If I hit back against the bully, I get into trouble as well. How on earth does that make sense? How does me bottling up my emotions make me better then the bully? If he bully's me Im supposed to turn the other cheek and tell a teacher about it? And then what? Nothing comes of it off course, as it's my word against his. I always found that the dumbest part about bullying while going through primary school/high school.
My thoughts exactly. I've never once seen the teachers do anything constructive against bullies, not even tell the parents. In the end I had to resort to beating my bully to a bloody mess, just to make sure he, and everyone else got the point. Great job school system, great job...
 

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the spud said:
Who has religious reasons to bully someone?
"Your a homosexual. The bible says thats wrong. Stand still while I beat you with a stick"
Just... wrong.

Morals... morals cover a massive scope... it legitimises pretty much everything except physical afflictions

What a shitty bill.
 

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They would only get kicked out continuously if they constantly bullied when they went to a new school in which case they deserve no education if they are unable to not abuse other people.
If they have a bad life at home which has the follow on effect of setting your abuse onto another individual then... you really shouldn't fucking just pass them along and make their life worthless because of failing parents. Thats a never ending cycle that leads to poverty breeding poverty.

That system needs to be broken and they need taking out of the current school and given specialist help by the state in order to change their ways.

I'd probably be in that situation if I wasn't autistic and was never aggressive unless defending myself (or friends).
 

Iron Mal

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How precisely can you justify bullying in any form?

Verbal, emotional or physical?

At the end of the day you're still victimising someone and I very seriousy doubt that there are many religious or moral justifications for such behaviour (as much as many of us make statements about the violence spawned from religion we need to remember that those things tend to be the result of otherwise harmless religious teachings being perverted by fundamentalists and fanatics).
 

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Kid 1: hey, do you believe in Jesus?

Kid 2: Yes/no

Kid 1: I DISAGREE *punches kid 1 in the face*

moral of the story? NO ONE WINS
 

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Agayek said:
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Good plan, we can continuously kick them out of schools until they get no education, end up on the bottom rung of society and ultimately end up a criminal because they're not qualified for anything else.

Mad.
To be fair, while I'm not fully on board with such a plan, the bullies bring it on themselves. There's nothing wrong with letting people fuck up their own lives. If a kid can't get by without bullying someone, they don't really deserve to be above the bottom rung of society.
The problem with that is that could pose more danger to other people, cause proper criminals have a tendency to rob, rape, murder and the like. If you can prevent that then that could be quite a few lives saved but you could argue they'd do the same in schools. Depends on the case really I suppose.
 

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TU4AR said:
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Oh I'm sorry, I thought that I didn't need to say that of course will the bully begin in a new school. I don't know how you do things down under, but in Sweden our municipalities handle the schools so it isn't a real problem to find a new one.

I ain't even mad.
It's at this point I'd like to point out the "s" on the end of words is a plural. So when I say "continuously kick them out of schools", it's shorthand for "expelling someone does not cause epiphanies nor drastic behavioral changes, they will continue bullying until they run out of schools to go to, or, if there is also a law that forces kids to be in school, it will nullify your idea leading to a school packed with delinquents who will probably ultimately go nowhere leading right back to my original conclusion."

"Mad" means something different down here too, it means "awesome" and is often used sarcastically. Sorry about the confusion.
Expelling is a very short term solution and it doesn't really fix the real problem yes, that is true. But sometimes we need a quick solution because the bully is ruining it for so many other kids. It has to go pretty far for someone to be expelled and it has to be followed up to make sure that they understand what he or she did wrong.

But if we come to the point were either the victim moves or the bully does, I'll stand behind the victim every time.
 

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Satsuki666 said:
the spud said:
I don't get it. Who has religious reasons to bully someone? Even if they did, it shouldn't be allowed.
You mean besides christians?
I've seen bullying on religious grounds by a heck of a lot of people, including atheists (I've seen pleanty who will constantly insult someone for having religious beleifs) . Christinas are not the holders of a monopoly on such things by a long way.
 

Therumancer

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Jarimir said:
Therumancer said:
Does this new law have "expulsion" as a punishment for bullying? There are ways to punish students other than expulsion. If laws are not being properly enforced, then can you explain to me the process by which we can vote on legislation that enforces the enforcement of laws already in existance? To my knowledge this has never been attempted/succeeded before.

Why do you always bring up groups of bullies? Most of the stories I have heard involved only one person, or one person doing the bulk of the bullying. Is this a convenient excuse for not even trying? "Well, you cant punish the WHOLE team, can you!?"

It seems to me the problem is worse now than when I went to school. I keep hearing this and that about how society has "gotten worse" in one way on another and how we need to take things back and make them like they used to be. God forbid we DO anything about this problem though; because, you know small, skinny, sissy kids need to be bullied. Why is that again? Does it magically turn them into football playing jocks, or are you just ensuring the NEXT generation of jaded, pesimistic, bitter adults?

I have read the bill and the policy that sprang from it. Expulsion and suspension are listed as the ultimate punishments, and before that a LONG list for ALTERNATE forms of "remediation" as they refer to it. I am sorry, if Timmy cant learn how not to bully, how not to be a giant prick that disrupts other student's abilty to learn, then maybe he should go to a "special" school. That's right, there are several levels one has to be expelled from before one is TOTALLY expelled from the public education system. And Timmy isnt going to be kicked out on the street the 1st time he calls someone a "doodie head".

To Quote you "laws exist to enforce social order and keep society functioning". If a student(S) is disrupting another student(s') ability to learn, ability to feel safe from physical harm from the student that is doing the bullying (not just being paranoid or a hypercondriac), and that student WILL NOT STOP. Then what other recourse do we have, but to remove the OFFENDING student? You talk about the potiential harm of this bill. What about all the students that have lost grade points, failed, have had to change schools/cities, and lastly commited suicide because of bullying. Where does that damage factor in? Why do they deserve to have that happen? Becuase you are too chickensh*t/complacent to do anything about it? Why is the "freedom" to bully more important than lost grades, failing students, and kids driven to suicide?

I dont get it, you wrote such a wall of text, I assume you thought you were making a convincing arguement.

I did too >.<
I hope I did a better job...
No, the law does not specify expulsion, but the school policies that are in force do. The ones that need to be enforced. A strong response is needed, with a slap on the wrist not cutting it. The law is ultimatly more likely to send the parents to jail if anything and create even bigger problems, really the proposed punishments were not part of either the video or the article, but the law can only do so many things.

As far as single bullies go, that is rarely, if ever the problem. A single bully is relatively easy to deal with, the problem is institutionalized bullying. Even if a single child is fingered as the culprit, for this kind of thing to go on it requires the support of the majority of the student body and the administration. A peer group strong enough where nobody was willing to step in and say "whoa, hold on here"... which DOES happen with some frequency, it's just those cases don't wind up in the media.

Even so, when it comes to a law for it to be viable the behavior must be specifically defined, beyond the use of the term "bullying" which is far too broad as just about anything someone doesn't like imposed by someone stronger than they are (physically or in terms of authority) can be considered bullying.

In the end we're going to have to agree to disagree. Apparently though it seems more people think like me, due to the law being stopped at the finish line, even if the methods used to do it were interesting to say the least.
 

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I wonder what they mean by religious and moral reasons. Either way, there shouldn't be any bullying, much less when it's being legitimized by a law.
 

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Well guys, I'm off to move to Michigan and start the Church of Punching Four-Eyed Freaks in the Face With Brass Knuckles. If anyone needs me, that's where I'll be.

But seriously, what?