you know what i hate?? this just happened this morning, i was taking my girl to work, and we spotted a very very obviously gay guy walking down the street, now, he was wearing what where girl shorts (those that are extremely thigh and end right below the knees) a really really thigh shirt which was making it obvious he had a very un-kept belly (he looked quite fat, and was wearing a tight shirt, not a pretty sight), sandals and was walking moving his hips very exaggeratedly whilst sucking on a lollipop, i looked at him and said "yuk, that looks disgusting", it was in confidence of my girl, and she started freaking out "what is it to you?? are you that homophobic??, who cares how he dresses??, why are you attacking him?? he is just a gay guy that is minding his oun business!!" etc etc etc...
now i am certain I am straight, I have several gay friends, and even have gone so far as to call some of my trans gender friends sexy, i have never acted in a homophobic way in the past and i know part of why she is so over protective of gay rights is because of her brother is bisexual... now when i said "that looks disgusting" i wasnt refering to the fact that he was dressing like a girl, or that he was walking shaking his hips, or that he was sucking on a lolly pop on a suggestive manner, i was refering to the fact that he doesnt have a well kept body and was wearing clothes as to appeal to other men, but looked dreadful, you ever seen fat girls wearing thigh tank tops?? the kind that you can see every curve and the abyss where her bellybutton should be?? well, thats the thing i found repulsive, not the sexuality, but come on, i wouldnt dress like that if i was fat, anyway, everyone haves the right to do whatever they want, but if i find that certain thing "disgusting" i can say so in the privacy of my car no?
what i hate is how she jumped at my throat for one single comment, i mean, we were in the car, windows up and i made one single comment, and she freaks out?? hey! i am supposedly in a secure private place with someone i thought i could be confident enough to tell her how i felt about certain things!!!, i didn´t lowered the window and screamed "HEY FAT GUY YOU LOOK FAT!", it was a private comment, between me and my girl, i mean it was just my opinion, and i had said similar things in the past, whether for man, woman, gay guys, gay girls, etc etc, its something i do in confidence! i would never yell at someone about how fat or disgusting they look to me, i would certainly make a passing comment to someone i have confidence on telling her about those things, and it isnt even the FACT that he was fat what bothered me, it was the fact that he was acting like he was gods gift to men when he obviously looked damn unappealing, take care of yourselves, or at least put some clothes that go with your figure, if i am not a 15 yo athletic girl, and i am a 25 yo fat guy, WHY IN GODS NAME WOULD I TRY TO DRESS LIKE A 15 YO ATHLETIC GIRL!?!?!?
anyway thats what i really really HATE... my girl slashing my throat as if i acted like a JERK just because i didn´t liked how someone looked and told her about it :S