Having spent a LOT of time lurking in the GG-related threads (what other type is there now?) trying to pick a side, I am also of the opinion that there is no right side. Figureheads on both sides are using it as a vehicle for some weird right vs. left culture war, when the most serious corruption (e.g. Shadow of Morrrrrdooorrrrr) is apolitical and profit focused, and the most serious harassment is very clearly trolls using the conflict as an opportunity to entertain themselves.
Both sides are equally guilty of using crappy arguments while calling out the exact same arguments being used by the other side. Too many times, I have seen people without any sense of irony claim simultaneously that the doxxing/threats aimed at their side are both genuine and indicative of the attitude of the entirety of the "other side", but also that there is not enough evidence that the attacks aimed AT the "other side" were 100% legit, and they should be assumed to be fake or "false flags". That is some high-quality cognitive dissonance right there.
In terms of specific flaws that crop up frequently (oh yes, now for the juicy stuff):
*Disclaimer: I do not believe that the below applies to all, or even most of the membership of the groups. Just some of things that have encouraged me to keep clear of the whole mess*
Pro-GG: Claiming that GG "is/isn't" something. Over the past few weeks, I have seen people make all sorts of "authoritative" claims about GG. The fact is, it is just a hashtag. It is open to everyone who identifies with it. You can say (or rather, "one can say") that to
you it is about ethics, but there are quite clearly a lot of people who see it as a war against any and all "feminists", and actively want them removed from society. And because of the free nature of the hashtag, they are just as correct as you in their interpretation. Sure, in your experience
most people might see it as purely about ethics, but unless you have a way to distinguish your subgroup, you can't claim that GG "is" anything in particular.
Anti-GG: As a left-leaning person myself, this is arguably the camp I am most disappointed in. For a group allegedly keen on ensuring good treatment for the downtrodden in society, nothing is more disgusting to see than members physically and sexually shaming people that they disagree with (what else is "fat, virgin neckbeards"?)This group claims to be better educated and more "aware", but many individuals are incredibly prone to dehumanising any and everyone "not on side", blind and deaf to any degree of nuance. Oh, and often a refusal to consider hate of a whole gender a bad thing unless it is aimed at women: thus giving some pretty awful people a platform and pouring fuel onto the fire of "far-right" GGers' feminism paranoia.
Twitter: In my eyes, the prime culprit. 140 characters are not enough to convey nuance, and hashtags are open to use by anyone and everyone. Add anonymity to that mix, and you have a pretty toxic mixture.
While acknowledging that neither of these are representative of the whole, it is enough for me to decide not to pick either side. Earlier, someone on this thread said that staying out of this is "sitting on the fence". This is wrong, because it implies that we might at this point come down on one side of the other. We are actually "sitting on the bench". On the sidelines. Shaking our heads.
However, I want to end this by acknowledging that there are some really good hearts and clear heads on both sides of the debate: people who really want to sort this out. GamerGaters who want to end backroom deals and conflicts of interest, and anti-GamerGaters who just want harassment to end. Maybe there is some way these people can come together, if only they stop demonising one another. For my money, it ain't gonna happen on twitter though. Wise words from a GamerGater on this very thread:
Akjosch said:
Seriously: The "no middle ground!" rhetoric has to go. It's not helping. Most people want to just live their lives in peace and maybe play some video games. Let's just leave them.