Gamers! Why is this so hard?

[NinjaDeathSlap]

Complaining about the complaints?

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COMPLAINCEPTION

we need to go deeper

Well, if we want to get into fine details here I'm not just 'complaining about the complaints'. More specifically it's the way people are going about it that bothers me. I have no problem with people not liking something and I have no problem with them saying so. However, when they feel the need to say the same thing 1000 times just in case I didn't get it, and then proceed to marvel at their superior intelligence, the first time; or when people substitute valid points in order to just be a twat to someone because it makes them feel important, that when I get pissed off.

 

[Joccaren]

Honestly, I try to only bring up my dislikes of games as examples of things that were done badly, or as a response to the 'Why all the hate for X' threads. In all honesty, I do expect better from gamers - We are GAMERS for gods sake, in my experience we have that much more than your average person or pretty much any other group in terms of English (Or ones own language) skills, problem solving, creative writing, often mathematics, hell, most things I can think of the gamers I know are the best at, so why can we not be the most mature as well? (Says I making a somewhat Immature rant here...)

But hey, the Internet is the Internet, and I doubt that these amazing specimens I know in my life display the attributes of all gamers. When in a landscape of people as varied as this great Internet of ours, there will inevitably be those who find hating on other things fun. At least not ALL of them use the 'Am I the only one' phrase...

 

[skywolfblue]

Is it? I mean, sure. Everyone likes a good argument, and I would be lying if I said I had never once been obnoxious about any of my opinions. But in gaming fandom, it seems that we take this facet of humanity, and turn it up to 11. You don't see this level of immature bitching and counter bitching over movies do you (with the possible exception of Twilight), or with TV? That;s not even going outside media culture and already the gamers are looking like brats compared to everyone else.

For example:

Music. I've seen people bashed, derided, scorned, shunned and hated simply because they listened to something person B thought was "uncool". (Granted primarily a teenage thing, but also in a few adults as well) "You listen to (Linken Park/Britney Spears/Coldplay/Random Band)? You're such a looser!"

Yes movies. "OMG you watch (Twilight/My Little Pony/Underdog/Superman/Random Movie)? You're so dumb!"

And like others have mentioned, even the gaming community pales in comparison to the amount of turd-flinging that occurs in POLITICS.

 

[Irridium]

Complaining on the internet about things you can't change is fun for some people I suppose. Internets gonna internet I guess.

That pretty much sums up how I feel about the OP.

To the OP, why do you care if people have a problem with a game and love to talk shit about it.


For that matter, why do I care that you care...

short answer for EVERYONE.

[HEADING=1]BECAUSE WE DON'T HAVE OTHER SHIT TO DO!!!![/HEADING]

Yeah, pretty much this. I sure as hell wouldn't be here at 10PM if I had anything better to do.

 

[Extra-Ordinary]

My problem with stuff like that is not so much that my games are being outsold by games I don't play, but that I have nobody to talk to about the ones I do. Yeah, I'm sure I can easily find someone on the internet that likes my game as much as I do, but I prefer a face to face conversation rather than waiting for a reply from "nameless faceless man or woman who also likes *video game title*."

 

[Kinguendo]

Do you mean like how you are telling us how you dont like that people cant just ignore things they dont like?

 

[blizzaradragon]

The big reason is because person+anonymity=asshole. Most people have asshole tendencies, but don't act upon them in public because they don't want to be considered an asshole. So when they get on the internet and people don't know who they are, they can let this out.

As far as comments about haters and fanboys, this rule holds true: the smallest and most annoying group also tends to be the most vocal. This can be applied to anything, from Call of Duty and Skyrim to My Little Pony and Naruto.

For me, I get vocal because most of the CoD players I run into happen to be complete jackasses(not saying any of you are, since I've more than likely never run into any of you in real life lol). Hell, I had someone try to take my 3DS from me because they were "liberating me from bad games like that crap Zelda so I can play a manly game with guns and blood." Guess what his favorite game was. If this were an isolated incident I'd pay it no mind, but when most people you run into who like a series either insult you for liking a different series or make fun of you for not liking the series they like your perceptions of that group tend to get colored...

 

[shrekfan246]

It's not just gaming. It's humanity in general.

People find it easier to be vitriolic then to find a way to respectfully disagree.

This. I've just spent the last twenty minutes or so reading the comments on an MSNBC.com story about how New England is supposed to be getting smacked by a massive snowstorm this weekend, and more than half of the comments are "righties" bashing "lefties" for absolutely no reason, or people otherwise arguing vehemently about global warming and insulting Al Gore.

Yes. A weather report turned into a political war.

 

[Andy Szidon]

People who are superior when idiots try to undermine their authority. That's because they worked hard for it.

 

[Ando85]

I agree. I think a lot of people put way too much emphasis on things they don't like, when they would be much better off just focusing on things they do like. I knew a guy who hated MMOs so he would write up huge rants about his hatred of them and people whom play them. He would bash them as "not real gamers" etc. I think that negative energy could be focused on something he does like.

People often bash me for liking JRPGs. I just shrug it off as everyone is entitled to their opinion. Most however I felt didn't know enough about the games I play to actually construct a good argument against them.

Live and let live.

 

[Squilookle]

I'm not just ranting for the sake of it or deliberately trying to provoke anyone. I actually want to achieve something. It probably won't make any difference in the broader scheme of things, but if just 1 or 2 people who come to this thread think "Yeah, I really could be doing much better for myself than I am right now", it would make me a lot happier about all this.

I think you'll find that this, word for word, is the exact same reason why people make the comments you seem to hate. 'Voice of reason in the herd of sheep', and all that.

 

[Hyper-space]

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Because it provides a release for all of our daily angst that builds up over the course of the day. Pretty simple.

Its like a placebo, you know it won't do you any good, but you feel much better after the fact. Just like you decide to express your frustration in a semi-productive way (semi due to the fact that while your post is reasonable and well thought-out, it is unlikely to produce any results that were not already deduced or change the way people behave), other people express and release their frustration in the easiest way possible: one-sided anger, bereft of any reflection or meaningful insight.

I choose to release my angst and frustration through sports or video-games, as do a lot of people.

 

[The_root_of_all_evil]

If you only talk about things you like, the internet will be even more elitist. By complaining about things you don't, you're opening up new avenues of discussion.

Providing you listen to the other PoV, of course.

 

[Aeonknight]

I'll just leave this here... taken from the "Free your hate!" thread

Hmm... I hate all the oppressive, stereotyping, biased opinions gamers have towards each other.

"You like CoD? You must be a 12 yr old prick screaming racial slurs on Xbox Live!"
"You like JRPG's? You must be a weaboo!"

... Seriously. With how long Gamers were considered outcasts or abnormal by "normal society", it has finally becomes somewhat mainstream and acceptable. It finally becomes a hobby that is somewhat respectable rather than overlooked (even an artform in the eyes of some.) And what's the first thing we do with this new found social acceptance?

Do the same damn thing to each other.


I know the internet is the absolute LAST ideal medium for preaching a "can't we all just get along?" opinion. But hey, can't say no one said anything now.

But to be fair, forums are where the vocal minority go. Mainstream people that aren't complete tools are the ones that sit silently in the background and just enjoy the game, without worrying what others think about their taste in games. In other words, people on the internet take each other too seriously (including ourselves.)

So yea.... agree with OP.

 

[Enamour]

I shouldn't even be posting this but... I've a few statements.

Most people are extremely stupid. Gamers are just slightly less stupid than the rest of the internet. Forget about IQ, think in terms of good sense. You're more likely to be stupid than not stupid. To figure out which one you are, ask yourself "Why do I care about this shit?" Here's hoping you don't answer yourself with some self-centred contrivance.

Shenryu Suzuki says you control a cow by letting it go free and observing it.

Everyone's entitled to their opinion but don't be fooled there are stupid opinions, stupid questions and stupid people. For some reason people seem to have forgotten this.

Play the games you like and for fuck sakes, can we get over the CoD and BF debate? Can we get over the "Can we get over the CoD and BF debate?" bitching? Are our penises really so small that we can't help but attempt to convince other people of our stupidity? Go join a cult.

Cheers guys

 

[Guffe]

This is also outside the gaming community. Many many people actually start yelling and bashing you if you try to bring up something they dislike, even if you have valid points they still won't listen. People are people, nothing we can do about it.

 

[VoidWanderer]

This has been going on since before gaming. This is not new. It will never go away as much as we'd like to think so.

It's the whole opinions/babies thing I brought up in another post.

'My baby is special and if you don't agree you are wrong.'