Silvanus said:
GundamSentinel said:
Just a question, how was medieval society demeaning to women? Men did the hard, difficult, dangerous work, because women simply weren't physically able to. Meanwhile, women often had their hands full with the household and raised the children with exactly the same ideas on how society should work. Were those women unhappy with their lot? Were the men? Compared to modern society, they all had a shitty life, but you can hardly say one group was demeaning to the other. Men and women had different and equally important things to do and did what they were good at, because that was the only way a family could function. It's only now, in the last century, with a social system and jobs being less physically demanding, that people can have a choice of what to do with their lives.
Wives were the property of their husbands.
Define 'property', because, in most historical societies, men had major legal obligations to their wives. Men who treated their wives badly or just plain failed to provide were usually ostracized by the family and society as a whole. I don't know about other parts of the world, but in most of medieval Europe (up to the early 19th century), men had to take almost all the legal liability for their wives' actions (usually excluding murdering their husbands).
this does not include accusations of witchcraft and adultry which a woman could not defend herself against simply because nobody would ever believe a womans testimony over a mans
They had little-to-no choice over whom their husband would be; that decision would rest with the man and their parents.
Neither had men, in most cases. Arranged marriages were usually a family matter, nothing to do with the people actually involved.
They had no ability to leave their relationships, while the men did. If the men did make that choice, the women would be socially ostracised, or even legally penalised, solely for having been left by a man.
Not really. Marriage in most societies was a big deal, often even sacred. Nobody trying to get out of it is going to get points for that. The reason 'staying faithful' was more important for women, is purely because of the biological reasons for marriage: men provide food/protection, women provide children. Unfaithful women don't uphold their part of the bargain, while layabout men don't hold up theirs and were usually punished severely for it.
While men had some degree of choice over profession (though much more restricted than we do today),
Not really.
the women had absolutely none at all. They were barred from almost all forms of work.
Women, especially those in more well-to-do families, didn't need to have a job at all. Managing a household and looking after the children was more than enough work. Plus, most work was physically demanding. Why would someone pay a woman for what a man would be better at?
They were denied almost all forms of education.
As were virtually all men.
In 1900 a woman with money to pay for it and prior education prior to qualify for it would could barely find a single university in her entire country that would accept her.
They were also legally required to have a signature from their father or husband to take out a loan even if they were the registered CEO of their own company. a woman could also be the first child, the most qualified and she would still come last in line in the matter of inheritance of power
They were denied all forms of political representation (even the meagre ones afforded to men in those times).
A women's life was in and around the house. The number of political decisions that even remotely touched upon female life was very small indeed. Same for most men, really. Money ruled politics, not gender. Poor people had no representation, be they man or woman.
In most modern european republics and democracies all poor men were given a vote 50 to 70 years prior to even partial sufferage being instituted
In many cases, they were denied even the ability to leave the home.
Individual cases maybe, but not as a societal system. Even if it were the case, there are plenty of cases where women themselves supported living rules that us modern Western people would find ridiculous.
When there was talk about allowing women to drive in Saudi Arabia, according to many polls a majority of women were against it. Same with abolishing male guardianship. Why? Because they liked to be driven everywhere. They liked to be taken care of. They liked not having responsibility. It's the very same as when in many western countries women's right to vote was instituted. Some of the most vocal opposition was women, because they didn't see any need for responsibility, nor did they have any benefits from it, as politics seldom concerned the household, so did not concern the female life. Only in recent times has that changed.
the prohibition act was passed largely due to a large ammount of female voters
It's not even disputable that medieval society was sexist in the extreme.
Yes, it is. It's very narrow-minded to assume that just because our modern liberated rules don't apply to another society, that people will automatically be unhappy with it. That it is a form of oppression by one group against another. Or do you really think it's just a case of 'they don't know what they're missing'?
A woman charged with adultry was stoned, a man charged with adultry got various comparatively mild punishments. in fact a european woman could not request divorce in the year 1900 unless she had proof that the man had seriouly beaten her and i doubt the court believed the ones who were very often. meanwhile a man needed only the flimsiest evidence of adultry to get a divorce and could have multiple well known extramartial affairs at once without giving the woman grounds for divorce. when charles the fifth heard of martin luther being charged with heresy he chose to give him a fair trial in wurms as a german citizen despite the insistance of the inquisition to put him on trial in rome where he would probably have been sentenced to death without the chance to speak for himself. if it had been a nun preaching the same things she would have been burnt almost immidiately for witchcraft
Where were the mass female protests throughout the ages? If it was all so bad, surely some would have risen up against the establishment? Why is it that this only started happening now in this modern age of easier jobs and social security? Because women had no need for it then. They do now. And even now you'll not find many women complaining that there are not enough female garbagemen, female mine workers, female builders (female convicts?). No, it's only about the safe, well-paying jobs, like managers or doctors.
that is like saying "where were all the revolutions in the medival ages?". many philosophers in the, classical, medival and renessance eras supported the statement that the king ruled by grace of god and as such revolts were sacrelige. one in particular named augustine was essential in the formation of the church after the fall of rome. augustine was a highly sexually frustrated man with a seriously warped idea of both women and female sexuality and as such he was obsessed with the passage that said eve convinced adam to eat the apple. many objected when he proposed all kinds of ridiculously sexist things for church doctrine but were overruled. as for female protests many women fought for better woring conditions during the 1800s and several male and female writers after the age of enlightenment wrote works that promoted womens rights like "A doll house" or "Amtmandens d?tre" (english title not available). the fact is that the common imaginatin is shaped by ideas that develop over centuries and decades. to say the medival ages did not discriminate against women is like saying the age of european imperialism did not discriminate people who were not white. being conditioned into accepting aa culture that views a large portion of the population as lesser can take a lot of time to overcome. bartolome de las casas, one of the first opponents of european imperialism and slavery in the 1500s was just as racist as everyone else when he first came ot america but by watching the atrocities of the conquistadors he slowly began to change his mind. even after this it took many years for him to finally oppose slavery. he wasn't born with the understanding that slavery is inhumane
In hindsight we can claim that it was all so unfair for women, not being the same as men back then, but I is there any proof that women disliked their place in society back then? Sure, there would have been some, but the same can be said for men.