My very first experience with playing as a female occured when I was about nine. I'd just gotten my very first edition of Ultima Online, due mostly thanks to constant nagging on my parents, and I figured that, hey, it WOULD be fun to play as a girl for once.
After a bit of brainstorming, My first toon had a name and a proffesion, and I happily entered the game.
Not having played anything from the ultima series earlier, and having only fleetingly read about the game in an edition of pcgamer sweden, I didn't really know what to expec. All I knew was that it sounded FUN.
I had already played Fallout, and a bunch of (swedish) text based rpg's, but that was it. I'd never played an online game before, let alone an online rpg.
Anyways. Happily ignoring the tooltips and the tutorial, I swung into minoc, and headed out into the general direction of the mines. It didn't take too longt of figure out how to swing the pick, and pretty soon I had a stash of ores. I went back to the town, and on my way to the bank (in lack of a better idea of what to actually DO with the ore) I encountered a player standing in the middle of a circle of candles, mumbling something about keeping the dark away.
What followed was my first semi-romantic experience. It was no deep stuff. He apparently needed a 'wife' for some event, and I playing as a female. Having neither revealed my true gender or age, I accepted, and he ported me to a tower of his. He made my toon a dress, and just when things started to get interessting, my parents decided that it was time for a trip to the countryhouse. I excused myself and logged out.
As I went through my first session in my head, I realised that yes, playing as a female WAS fun. It was all so very very new. Maybe it was the fact that it was my first time doing so, or that it was my first actual online experience.
For some time afterwards, I couldn't make myself log back onto that toon. I don't know why. I guess that I felt guilty for ditching the player in question. I created a fisherman and that's what I kept playing for until my parents stopped paying for the game.
A few years ago I reopened my account again, having recived a 14 days free "come back" thingie on the mail. I figured it was time to see what was going on with my first toon, and logged in. I'm hazy on the details, but I think that houses dissapear if you don't pay upkeep or somesush, so it was obvious that the player was still playing, since my toon logged in at the same place it had logged out.
I moved about a bit, got a feel for the game, and then logged out again, buried my nose in the manual, logged back in and made a watch. I got bored and rerolled as a female wizard, and there was much rejoycing.
I don't really know where I was going with this. xD