girl i like

[Antidamacus]

i would imagagine thats a lot more stalkerish then mesteraly ringing... although ive never done ether so i wouldent know

If she said she misses you, that's not really stalkerish.

 

[slyywiskers]

Man you suck. I'd find her in one day. Go to your old school, find her main teacher (I don't how you call that) ask if he knows what school is she in, then check out the list of students in that school and her class' schedule. Or find someone who knows someone from her old class, who knows one of her friends, who has her number on facebook myspace or whatever.
You went to the same school FFS, how hard can that be?
I think you don't really want to find her, because you're afraid of failure and rejection.
She probably has a new boyfriend by now, anyway.

well the school system in my towns a bit weird...the colleges are single sex things something about makeing sure we arernt distracted.... anyways they are both really big schools and i know for a fact witch one shes in cos there is only one she could be in and how could i find her from class list? we have 5 diffrent classes a day(not sure about girls collage probly the same)

 

[smallharmlesskitten]

Wait.... you're asking about advice about girls on a forum for gamers?

Seriously...

How about asking some people you know that know HER... you'll probably find it quicker than stalking her on the internet. Seriously, she'll probably be flattered you were asking her friends about her.

My thoughts exactly

 

[slyywiskers]

i would imagagine thats a lot more stalkerish then mesteraly ringing... although ive never done ether so i wouldent know

If she said she misses you, that's not really stalkerish.

well meby my freind over exagerated it or meby she ment i miss him and not I MISS HIM! as in i miss his personallity and not i miss his incredible good looks

 

[slyywiskers]

Wait.... you're asking about advice about girls on a forum for gamers?

Seriously...

How about asking some people you know that know HER... you'll probably find it quicker than stalking her on the internet. Seriously, she'll probably be flattered you were asking her friends about her.

My thoughts exactly

i have asked nerly every one i know and it seem to be leading in ever grow and more depressing circles.....

 

[Antidamacus]

i would imagagine thats a lot more stalkerish then mesteraly ringing... although ive never done ether so i wouldent know

If she said she misses you, that's not really stalkerish.

well meby my freind over exagerated it or meby she ment i miss him and not I MISS HIM! as in i miss his personallity and not i miss his incredible good looks

Then you guys reunite as friends or she tells you to bugger off. At least you found her.

 

[Reaperman Wompa]

i would imagagine thats a lot more stalkerish then mesteraly ringing... although ive never done ether so i wouldent know

If she said she misses you, that's not really stalkerish.

well meby my freind over exagerated it or meby she ment i miss him and not I MISS HIM! as in i miss his personallity and not i miss his incredible good looks

Then you guys reunite as friends or she tells you to bugger off. At least you found her.

Exactly. If you listen to Antidamacus you either get a girlfriend you like or just a friend. Either way it's a win win situation.

 

[slyywiskers]

i would imagagine thats a lot more stalkerish then mesteraly ringing... although ive never done ether so i wouldent know

If she said she misses you, that's not really stalkerish.

well meby my freind over exagerated it or meby she ment i miss him and not I MISS HIM! as in i miss his personallity and not i miss his incredible good looks

Then you guys reunite as friends or she tells you to bugger off. At least you found her.

Exactly. If you listen to Antidamacus you either get a girlfriend you like or just a friend. Either way it's a win win situation.

not really i might get maced...

 

[slyywiskers]

Man you suck. I'd find her in one day. Go to your old school, find her main teacher (I don't how you call that) ask if he knows what school is she in, then check out the list of students in that school and her class' schedule. Or find someone who knows someone from her old class, who knows one of her friends, who has her number on facebook myspace or whatever.
You went to the same school FFS, how hard can that be?
I think you don't really want to find her, because you're afraid of failure and rejection.
She probably has a new boyfriend by now, anyway.

well the school system in my towns a bit weird...the colleges are single sex things something about makeing sure we arernt distracted.... anyways they are both really big schools and i know for a fact witch one shes in cos there is only one she could be in and how could i find her from class list? we have 5 diffrent classes a day(not sure about girls collage probly the same)

I mean check out what group she's in. You can go to the college administration office or however you call that and ask for the old list of admitted people or the current list of students (it's not secret, but if denied, beg a little and say that you're in love). If she has at least one fixed course (a one that she doesn't choose) she is in a group of some sort since she was admitted. There should be a schedule for that group somewhere on the internet (probably on the collage's website)
Then you will know her location at a given time, so you can "run into her".

Or just get your ass to that school and ask around.

If you care.

i do care *puppy eyes*

and it would be a bit awkard wondering about a girls college and quiet oblistly not belonging there

 

[Reaperman Wompa]

not really i might get maced...

Depends how you play it. Best bet is to just call, if you show up a macing is possible but as long as you down-play the creepy "I missed you *heavy breathing*" you should be hanging out with her by the next day. Maybe dating, depending on how she feels about you.

Edit:
Because I'm such a nice person:

Conversation: (Do they have caller id? If not you're going to have to give them your number)
You "Hey this is slyywiskers, could i speak to insert-name"
Her parents "oh hello, she's not in"
You "Oh that's alright, just tell her I called/'Oh here's my number, can you ask her to call me"

This is most likely what will happen, or she might be in and you get to talk to her directly, either way the parents aren't going to be like 'stay away creep' or whatever. Might be a bit awkward at first but you did say you really liked her.

 

[imperialwar]

First topic of conversation:

I have been thinking about you alot lately.

Which is true as you have A nice conversation starter.
Guess you gotta find her first.
Still, punch your friend in the kidneys for not giving her your number when she mentioned she missed you. Would have saved you a lot of grief.

 

[slyywiskers]

First topic of conversation:

I have been thinking about you alot lately.

Which is true as you have A nice conversation starter.
Guess you gotta find her first.
Still, punch your friend in the kidneys for not giving her your number when she mentioned she missed you. Would have saved you a lot of grief.

i did think about doing they hitting my freind thing but he said he dident think about it at the time

 

[slyywiskers]

not really i might get maced...

Depends how you play it. Best bet is to just call, if you show up a macing is possible but as long as you down-play the creepy "I missed you *heavy breathing*" you should be hanging out with her by the next day. Maybe dating, depending on how she feels about you.

ill try to minamalise the creepy heavy breathing

 

[Antidamacus]

You'll get maced if you stand outside her house for hours and hours and follow her to school or work and such.

But if you stop by and knock on the door and ask for her or wait for her to come back from school and say

"Hi, it's me. My friend talked to you remember and you mentioned me so I thought I would drop by and say hello. I found you in the phone book."

She either says "oh hey, I missed you" and you become friends again or "Ah stalker, go away!"
and you leave her alone.

Tada.

 

[Simriel]

well this my second forum and ive actullay managed to put it in right place...


anyways to the point, there is this girl i like and we went to the same school
and she likes me im sure, anyways a wile like a couple of weeks ago my freind saw her in town then my freind tells me and says that she says she misses me so i trie finding her before i collase into the spirralling depression of being alone and never seeing her again... ive so far looked on bebo, myspace, facebook, hi5(not the kids show btw) and wandered aimlessly about town for several hours and am no closer than before..... anyone know how i can find her????

EDIT: or got adice....

A poll of the escapist gave about 80% of the guys here as never having kissed a girl, this is NOT the place to be asking for advice.

 

[slyywiskers]

You'll get maced if you stand outside her house for hours and hours and follow her to school or work and such.

But if you stop by and knock on the door and ask for her or wait for her to come back from school and say

"Hi, it's me. My friend talked to you remember and you mentioned me so I thought I would drop by and say hello. I found you in the phone book."

She either says "oh hey, I missed you" and you become friends again or "Ah stalker, go away!"
and you leave her alone.

Tada.

you missed out me continually showing up, getting maced, tasered, haveing muiltiple restaining orders put on me, breatheing heavelie at her window, following her lots, ringing on the phone and doing heavy breathing, ect. as options also

 

[slyywiskers]

not really i might get maced...

Depends how you play it. Best bet is to just call, if you show up a macing is possible but as long as you down-play the creepy "I missed you *heavy breathing*" you should be hanging out with her by the next day. Maybe dating, depending on how she feels about you.

Edit:
Because I'm such a nice person:

Conversation: (Do they have caller id? If not you're going to have to give them your number)
You "Hey this is slyywiskers, could i speak to insert-name"
Her parents "oh hello, she's not in"
You "Oh that's alright, just tell her I called/'Oh here's my number, can you ask her to call me"

This is most likely what will happen, or she might be in and you get to talk to her directly, either way the parents aren't going to be like 'stay away creep' or whatever. Might be a bit awkward at first but you did say you really liked her.

hmm ill try tomorro its like 8:30 night here they might not apreciate it.... some people are weird like that.

 

[Reaperman Wompa]

not really i might get maced...

Depends how you play it. Best bet is to just call, if you show up a macing is possible but as long as you down-play the creepy "I missed you *heavy breathing*" you should be hanging out with her by the next day. Maybe dating, depending on how she feels about you.

Edit:
Because I'm such a nice person:

Conversation: (Do they have caller id? If not you're going to have to give them your number)
You "Hey this is slyywiskers, could i speak to insert-name"
Her parents "oh hello, she's not in"
You "Oh that's alright, just tell her I called/'Oh here's my number, can you ask her to call me"

This is most likely what will happen, or she might be in and you get to talk to her directly, either way the parents aren't going to be like 'stay away creep' or whatever. Might be a bit awkward at first but you did say you really liked her.

hmm ill try tomorro its like 8:30 night here they might not apreciate it.... some people are weird like that.

Best time is mid afternoon, if you call in the morning you seem too eager, too late and you might disturb them which will piss them right off, best bet is around the end of a school day, even better if you can get an answering machine as you can just leave your number and she can call you.

 

[slyywiskers]

not really i might get maced...

Depends how you play it. Best bet is to just call, if you show up a macing is possible but as long as you down-play the creepy "I missed you *heavy breathing*" you should be hanging out with her by the next day. Maybe dating, depending on how she feels about you.

Edit:
Because I'm such a nice person:

Conversation: (Do they have caller id? If not you're going to have to give them your number)
You "Hey this is slyywiskers, could i speak to insert-name"
Her parents "oh hello, she's not in"
You "Oh that's alright, just tell her I called/'Oh here's my number, can you ask her to call me"

This is most likely what will happen, or she might be in and you get to talk to her directly, either way the parents aren't going to be like 'stay away creep' or whatever. Might be a bit awkward at first but you did say you really liked her.

hmm ill try tomorro its like 8:30 night here they might not apreciate it.... some people are weird like that.

Best time is mid afternoon, if you call in the morning you seem too eager, too late and you might disturb them which will piss them right off, best bet is around the end of a school day, even better if you can get an answering machine as you can just leave your number and she can call you.

i agree with that statment becouse then i wont have to edure the sounds of her pearents grining and eyebrow raiseing