Girl Problems: Which to choose?

[SUPA FRANKY]

Who do you like more? Who is funner to be around? Do you even really like them at all? These are just some of the questions you must answer truthfully to your self before you can truly date them. I recommend trying to find fore factual proof of each girl liking you before you start dating them. They could just be shy.

 

[Snowalker]

Unless girl B has some outstanding advantage over girl A, I'd go with A since she's a sure thing.

My thoughts aswell. Damn, isn't this a lucky individual, having two girls that may possibly like him. I'd be damned if I could find one.

 

[Rofl-Mayo]

Well, it seems sort of obvious girl A likes you, and girl B possibly likes you. But what about you? How do you feel about them? I'd have to say choose the one that feel right for YOU. That is all I can say on the subject.

 

[StarStruckStrumpets]

If you have feelings for one of them, go out with them. If not, don't force a relationship because you know one of them likes you, otherwise you'll be messing with yourself, and her. You need to decide yourself which one you prefer, if any at all. If it were me, I wouldn't date either of them as that way, neither of them would feel bad. I'm too considerate of my own feelings to 'get some', that has always been my downfall.

 

[giantgemclips]

Eh...

There are two fundamental questions you have to ask:

1. Are you sure the second girl actually likes you? They both may act the same around you, but that's no solid indication. Every girl has a different baseline of behavior, and deviations from that are indications of emotional attachment. If the first girl is normally outgoing, but acts shy around you, normally doesn't laugh at jokes, but does at yours, and goes out of her way to be around you in a way that isn't normal for her, she likes you. The same metric applies to the second girl. But, if she's normally shy (no moreso around you), normally very laugh-happy, and says hi to all of her friends, it's less a sure thing.

The point, fundamentally, is not to jump to conclusions. If you go for the second girl, and she doesn't like you, you may lose your shot with the first girl. Chickens, hatching, all of that.

The second question is simply: who do you want to go out with? If you're dating either of them out of a sense of needing to have a girlfriend, you're doing no one any favors. No harm can come from pursuing neither of them until you actually know what you want.

This.

for my take on it /end thread.

 

[Infinatex]

... dude... BOTH.

nah, seriously, I say make them mud wrestle for you.

I would be inclined to go this path as well, but seeing how they are in the same school it's probably not going to work out so smoothly.

 

[Flight]

Ask out the girl you like, but make sure you get to know her first. It'd be dishonest to go after both without their knowledge.

 

[mortalsatsuma]

Go with which ever one you like more. Or if you don't like either of them in that way, don't go out with them.
If you like both of them, equally, then you might be a bit screwed. I can only come up with random ideas if that is the case, but i can't think of an overall good one. Unless they're willing to share you.
I'd try to make sure that girl B likes you though, and isn't just being nice, so you dont make youself look silly if you talk to her about it and you find out she doesnt like you that way.

Hi Josh, hows Monty?

 

[TazTheTerrible]

Universal guide to dating:

1) Determine which girl you like best (other than those who have turned you down)
2) Ask that girl out
3a) If she says "yes", enjoy your date
3b) If she says "no", go back to step "1"

Always remember: Be nice, polite, and never fear rejection

This.

And observe how important step 1 is! Never ever EVER go for a girl (or guy) for the sole reason of them "being available" or "being an easy bet". If you're actually looking for a relationship, it's important that you like this person a lot and get along with them really well.

Of course there's nothing wrong with dating to find out IF you like them. Just be sure to keep the two distinct, don't commit to a relationship you aren't sure about because it will crash and burn eventually.

 

[KdS_22]

Since you say you don't know Girl A beyond a passing friendship, I would simply develop a deeper friendship with her. Then you can find out first hand whether or not she likes you as well as figuring out what about her is attractive to you. At the same time, you can also deepen your friendship with Girl B, doing the same thing. Whatever you do don't rush into anything since you aren't really sure of anything at this point. Just take your time and soon enough you'll be able to decide which one is more attractive to you. Then go for it man.

My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.

And this. Ass always trumps boobs in my book! Though both would be better

 

[Aulleas123]

Take them each on a date then figure out which you like better in conversation. Don't downplay looks though, as chivalrous as we can be, this is a natural human thing so don't deny it.

Once you figure out which one you like better, be honest with the other. Yes it may hurt your chances down the road but eventually you'll find the one for you.

 

[Foxbat Flyer]

Depends on if you are getting in the relationship just so you are 'In a relationship'. i found that when i went to school, everyone gets in a relationship for the sake of being in one, and the school relationships bearly ever last. and if they do, it is a rarity (sp?)

 

[Rock 'n' Soul]

Don't worry about who may or may not like you. Just be a man and ask out the one you like best.

 

[Anonin]

What's with this obsession over asses? Big breast are nice, but so is a fine ass... but ultimately each girl has their own charm. Some girls are HOT, some shyfully cute and you just want to protect them. Others are beautiful, though beauty is objective.
Besides, ass or boobs, t'is the face that you are going to spend most time looking at. So cute wins.

 

[Ham_authority95]

I say get to know both of them and pick based on which has more in common with you.

If you take a bit of time to know them , you will really be able to see which is more worth your time.

that or do what this guy said...

My guess would be who ever has bigger boobs or better ass, based on your personal preference.
I'm more of an assman.

 

[TimbukTurnip]

Hi Josh, hows Monty?

Monty is fine, though apparently he hasn't been himself today :Þ

 

[Ekonk]

This is the classic example of a luxury problem.

GO WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE

DON'T LOVE ONE?

DON'T GO WITH ONE.

 

[Xiorell]

Neither one. If you can't clearly feel drawn towards one or the other, neither is right.

 

[faceless chick]

for one, if she's not into games, don't start talking about your awesome ownage fo that n00b elf in WOW or that headshot you got in l4d2, or else she'll be immediately turned off.

not because you're a loser, but because she can't understand a thing you're saying.
it's like talking in 4chan-ese to your dad.

secondly, go to smth you'd both enjoy, like a movie or a bar. don't call it a "date", she might be turned off. just go along like friends ans try to make (subtle) moves on her. believe me, girls get the "subtle" stuff very well. also be observant of HER subtle acting, she'll expect you to understand and act upon it. otherwise, she might get upset.

good luck.