gonna be grounded for no reason

[dayjack01]

my mum is gonn ground me just for saying bye how fuck uped is that i didnt say anything else and she says i did and now my dad belives her so now im gonna be grounded for no fucking reason whoopde do fucking ***** such a liar anyone got advice how to get out of this?

 

[Simalacrum]

First of all, please improve your grammar... its kind of hard to understand what you're trying to say when you don't use proper grammar.

Secondly, do you use language like that in real life as well as here? Do you call your mother a "fucking *****"? That might be the reason you got grounded; rather than being grounded for saying "bye", chances are more likely that you're being grounded for using such language as a response. It could also be an accumulation of previous incidences, with this grounding being a result of something that has been building up over time.

So, basically, don't try and 'get out' of this. Don't think of it that way. Sit down with your parents and have a conversation about this situation. be reasonable, and avoid using harsh language or getting angry, cause anger has very rarely solved any problems. Ask them, politely, why they're grounding you, and ask them to give you the details of why they feel you needed to be grounded.

 

[dayjack01]

you clearly havent met my parents or dont know their type they are unlerentliss in their punishement and no i dont swear in real life otherwise they would of killed me right now

 

[Hyperrhombus]

but have you asked them why you`re being grounded?

It sounds like there may be a misunderstanding between you and your parents; would they normally ground you for saying "bye"? Perhaps it would be a good idea to settle with them the reason why you`re being grounded...

 

[Evidencebased]

you clearly havent met my parents or dont know their type they are unlerentliss in their punishement and no i dont swear in real life otherwise they would of killed me right now

If they're relentless (unrelenting?), then I would give up on "getting out" of being grounded, and instead try to be punished with as much dignity and maturity as possible. If you act very calm and adult this time, there's a much better chance they'll listen to you next time. Your parents probably don't want to discuss it with you because they're expecting a fight; if you can show them you're capable of being polite and reasonable then they are more likely to let you talk and consider your opinion.

 

[Erana]

you clearly havent met my parents or dont know their type they are unlerentliss in their punishement and no i dont swear in real life otherwise they would of killed me right now

If you're frustrated because we don't understand your situation, then explain it in a respectful, concise manner.

More to the point, a parent grounding their child is not "relentless punishment." People who are abused by their parents simply would not react to it in this manner. Considering being grounded as an act of cruelty demonstrates that you are not thinking of this situation in the grand scheme of things.

If you want to "get out of this," then show maturity. If there's an event very important to you that being grounded is going to interfere with, then calmly explain what and why, as well as how you could make up for getting this exemption from grounding for that night.
Even if you don't feel like this is just, just go with it and trust their judgement. If you put some trust into them, then they'll have incentive to trust you back.
That being said, it takes time to build trust, but it will be totally worth it.

 

[Hyperrhombus]

you clearly havent met my parents or dont know their type they are unlerentliss in their punishement and no i dont swear in real life otherwise they would of killed me right now

If you're frustrated because we don't understand your situation, then explain it in a respectful, concise manner.

More to the point, a parent grounding their child is not "relentless punishment." People who are abused by their parents simply would not react to it in this manner. Considering being grounded as an act of cruelty demonstrates that you are not thinking of this situation in the grand scheme of things.

If you want to "get out of this," then show maturity. If there's an event very important to you that being grounded is going to interfere with, then calmly explain what and why, as well as how you could make up for getting this exemption from grounding for that night.
Even if you don't feel like this is just, just go with it and trust their judgement. If you put some trust into them, then they'll have incentive to trust you back.
That being said, it takes time to build trust, but it will be totally worth it.

This.

 

[Nosense]

I agree with your parents and the community, perhaps some time to contemplate on life, the world, and your place in it would do you some good. I think you are missing the point of why the forum is not walking hand in hand with you on this, and your reaction to being grounded needs tempering.

I'll leave you with this to think about:

Cooler heads always prevail; withhold gratification.

 

[MaxwellEdison]

you clearly havent met my parents or dont know their type they are unlerentliss in their punishement and no i dont swear in real life otherwise they would of killed me right now

Did you come to the internet expecting people who knew your parents?
I feel like you're leaving out a lot of detail.