First of all, I beg forgiveness for having watched every episode of this show.
Second, am I the only one that thinks that Sammi was the real abuser in her and Ron's relationship? Don't get me wrong, Ron totally has issues, and some of the stuff he did was unforgivable, but as I'm watching it, all I see with them is this manipulative, selfish, toxic...witch... drawing her and Ron into their own little miserable bubble. She's with him 24/7, and if he so much as glances at another girl, she gets all crazy over it, and tries to get back at him over nothing. The two of them end up isolated from the others, sitting in the corner of the clubs, doing nothing most of the time, until by the 2nd season, I think it is, they stop going all together. Ronnie says he doesn't care about hanging out with the others, but it's clear from the first couple episodes that he enjoyed being with them.
Sammi is also extraordinarily selfish. Probably the best example I can give is the episode where Ronnie gets arrested for punching a guy out (and if I recall correctly, Sammi was the one shooting her mouth at the guy), and the next day Sammi is in tears saying, "I had to sleep alone", and "Don't ever do that to me again."
Plus, I would say 90% of their stupid arguments are started by Sammi, and even though that might not sound like a big deal, constantly worrying if something you're gonna say or do is gonna cause problems, and fighting all the time over nothing wears you down after a while.
I dunno, I'm obviously thinking waaaay too much about stupid people on a stupid show, but it just bothers me to see all these people acting like she's a sweet angel who's being abused by her evil boyfriend. Honestly, just because he's a big dude, and she's a girl, doesn't mean he's the bad guy. Could he beat her to a pulp? Absolutely, but he never lays a violent hand on her. (Except that one time he gently nudged her to get her to stop arguing with another couple. She later claimed that he "traumatized" her)
Second, am I the only one that thinks that Sammi was the real abuser in her and Ron's relationship? Don't get me wrong, Ron totally has issues, and some of the stuff he did was unforgivable, but as I'm watching it, all I see with them is this manipulative, selfish, toxic...witch... drawing her and Ron into their own little miserable bubble. She's with him 24/7, and if he so much as glances at another girl, she gets all crazy over it, and tries to get back at him over nothing. The two of them end up isolated from the others, sitting in the corner of the clubs, doing nothing most of the time, until by the 2nd season, I think it is, they stop going all together. Ronnie says he doesn't care about hanging out with the others, but it's clear from the first couple episodes that he enjoyed being with them.
Sammi is also extraordinarily selfish. Probably the best example I can give is the episode where Ronnie gets arrested for punching a guy out (and if I recall correctly, Sammi was the one shooting her mouth at the guy), and the next day Sammi is in tears saying, "I had to sleep alone", and "Don't ever do that to me again."
Plus, I would say 90% of their stupid arguments are started by Sammi, and even though that might not sound like a big deal, constantly worrying if something you're gonna say or do is gonna cause problems, and fighting all the time over nothing wears you down after a while.
I dunno, I'm obviously thinking waaaay too much about stupid people on a stupid show, but it just bothers me to see all these people acting like she's a sweet angel who's being abused by her evil boyfriend. Honestly, just because he's a big dude, and she's a girl, doesn't mean he's the bad guy. Could he beat her to a pulp? Absolutely, but he never lays a violent hand on her. (Except that one time he gently nudged her to get her to stop arguing with another couple. She later claimed that he "traumatized" her)
