SNIPERFOX ft. Harry P.Ness said:
Try Rammenstien- it's heavy metal, but incorporates Gothic themes. (S&M, dark voices, heavy riffs)
I mean you no offense, but please do not suggest "Gothic" music if you aren't familiar with what you are talking about at all.
I mean really, S&M? That is a sexual fetish, it has nothing to do with the subculture. To mistake the two for each other is just insulting to both parties involved.
As for the OP, you've already been given a great list of bands to choose from ranging from 80's bands to newer ones. However, since they have not been mentioned yet you should perhaps give 45 Grave, Cinema Strange, and Fields of the Nephilim a listen as well.
I understand you like Metal a lot from your posts, perhaps you should look more deeply into Black Metal instead of the softer Gothic music.