QtheMuse said:
Language is a way to communicate an idea, if someone doesn't use proper grammar, english, or spelling yet they communicate their idea clearly enough for someone to understand it is it really necessary to nit pick the little things?
People use spelling and grammar to judge a persons intelligence yet language is a very flexible and fluid thing, using something as petty as spelling and grammar to judge a persons intelligence is just as prejudice as using someones color of skin, religion or sports team preference.
So if your a grammar or spelling nazi just get over it and find something else to be OCD about.
No. Simply because, while someone's color doesn't give me any information whatsoever about that person, and doesn't bother me in any way, someone's illiteracy impedes my ability to understand what on earth that dude is trying to say.
Moreover, you don't get to choose your color of skin, but you do what the choice whether or not to use your own language properly.
Just as you said, language is a way to communicate ideas. In order for it to be practical, we invented rules on how to use it.
If I say "banane" instead of "banana", I can still understand myself, because I am french. A Russian won't understand either, though.
Simply because language is a mean of communication, we need to use the same one : if everyone got to choose their own rules, it simply wouldn't bloody work, and would defeat the purpose of the whole thing.