I hang out with only girls, and I've noticed a few things, and one of those would be this: women LOVE to generalize things. If one guy is an asshole to her, EVERY guy is an asshole in her eyes.
GUYS ARE ASSHOLES!!!
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It really annoys me when girls say this. If one of my friends ever says it I usually make a list of all the guys she's friends with to shut her up. Though I must say that usually when I hear someone say this they've been hurt and say it in anger and don't really mean it.
Okay, girl here, and yes guys, I have sympathy for you. It is sexist and stupid for girls to say that, but I would like to say that girls that say that aren't just dating assholes.
My ex and I got along great, we loved talking, and we had lots in common. I know you probably won't believe because everyone thinks that girls are clingy, but I gave him his space. I never minded when he spent time with friends over me and even encouraged him to do so. He was a really nice guy and very sweet, even romantic.
And then he just stopped talking to me. He never said anything was wrong, never said he wanted to break up, that he had met someone else, that I had done anything to make him think twice about me...he just stopped talking to me. Never called, never emailed, nothing.
So I was extremely hurt. I thought that I had met a nice guy that I could possibly get serious with (our relationship was only a month or two old)...so my super sweet boyfriend...turned out to be an asshole.
And that was only one of my sweet boyfriends.
My ex and I got along great, we loved talking, and we had lots in common. I know you probably won't believe because everyone thinks that girls are clingy, but I gave him his space. I never minded when he spent time with friends over me and even encouraged him to do so. He was a really nice guy and very sweet, even romantic.
And then he just stopped talking to me. He never said anything was wrong, never said he wanted to break up, that he had met someone else, that I had done anything to make him think twice about me...he just stopped talking to me. Never called, never emailed, nothing.
So I was extremely hurt. I thought that I had met a nice guy that I could possibly get serious with (our relationship was only a month or two old)...so my super sweet boyfriend...turned out to be an asshole.
And that was only one of my sweet boyfriends.
Not all of them are false. IRONY!FollowUp said:
that is ironic, right?
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I remember a girl did this on facebook and I just commented saying "If a guy did this about all girls I would call him out right on the spot"
Who was that girl again...
All I remember she had like 20 likes. I guess it is fun acting like you are better then other groups as a group of your own. We are better the 4chan guys!
Ok this has nothing to do with anything in this topic but I have to get this off my chest. You have the single greatest profile picture I have ever seen anywhere ever. Everytime I see it I have to stop what I'm doing and watch it a few times.Nouw said:
That is funny because that is a generalization.. are you a girl? Wait don't answer that Chris Hansen could be hereInnerRebellion said:
I honestly cannot stand feminism. It reeks of hypocritical bitches who keep screaming equality when all they really want is to be treated better than men. That is NOT how this works. I may be biased however, living my life Pro-Life, and anyone who says otherwise I just cannot be friends with.
Eurgh, you can't take it to mean that literally all guys are arseholes,if anything I see the reason why a girl would say and that is because a typical guy behaviour has annoyed her, if anything, if a girl says this to you she is in some ways giving out a compliment or a mercy as she is saying it is not you who is the arsehole, but the part of you that is a guy. Bleeeh
Girls like that are just narrow minded cynics, so yes its annoying, all stereotyping is, although its been a really really long time since I heard any one say that so in that sense it isn't bothering me. Although my professor once said all short guys are assholes and that bothered me.
Oh, I got a good story, my ex dumped me for another guy then he dumped her and then he got cancer (karma for one, jerk) and she expects me to feel sympathetic for him.
(Actually upon reading this, I really am an asshole, oh well, lifes a *****)
(Actually upon reading this, I really am an asshole, oh well, lifes a *****)
I've made that statement a time or two, myself. But girls are just as bad. Most people realize this, and such statements are merely venting of frustration. The ones that don't...Well, they have a rude awakening incoming.
Despite being an asshole myself, I can testify that there are good guys out there, however the reason chicks say "All guys are the same!" and stuff like that is because they can't accept that it is not the fact that all guys are assholes that is bumming them out, but the fact that they are only attracted to assholes in the first place.
It's true, and I'm sure there are a lot of pleasant people who are Pro-Choice, but I can't do it. It starts with me and my bro being adopted, I was extremely close to being aborted. Extremely close. In itself, not enough. I knew a woman who had an abortion, (She was Pro-Choice, and indeed did this I think for the ability to exercise her "Choice") and she committed suicide from depression. She was a close friend, like a mentor. Her suicide did not help my self esteem. Young me just didn't understand, but at my age now I understand what did this to her. I hear stories of people who could abort fetus' that are in their third trimester. The culmination of a mentor's suicide, and the disgusting acts those who are Pro-Choice are willing to commit in total push me away completely and utterly from anyone who is Pro-Choice.bahumat42 said:due however muchy of a great ideal "equality" is (and it is great) it will never happen because the person who is sexually desired will always have some form of pull over the other individual. So saying you can't be friends with any of these people is just going to cut you off from a lot of people to socialise with.PrimoThePro said:
It's like the saying behind every great man there is a woman. They secretly run this joint
Upon reading this story (which makes me HELLA salty 'bout that, I might add) I think this is a source of women are bitches/men are assholes. It's some of men/women NOT doing the things they should be doing in relationships. In this case, it sounds like it was broken off after this fella found another girl and he opted to just lose contact because he wasn't respectful enough to say something.Screamarie said:
And I'm plenty sure, at least in mine and friend's experiences, this happens often. One is used more like a placeholder until something nicer comes along. In general, that is stupid and sex doesn't matter in that sort of treatment, no matter the biased reasons one might have.
I'm too sick to be writing long, horribly thought out, paragraphs lmao.