Having Children...yes or no?

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lewism247

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Yeah when I'm older, I have some growing up to do yet.

Problem is I don't like small kids, too bloody cheery all the time, that or bawling their eyes out.
 

Banana Phone Man

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I get on well with children up until they get to around about 13-14 years old an maturity starts to drpo and they become a pain in the ass. Meh, what else is new there.

I don't know about kids. I guess yes but not for some time yet. I would only have 2 max and most definately not twins. My brothers (twins) have already put me through enough hell for about a decade. I don't need it anymore.
 

Squeaky

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Me I wouldnt be able to surrport a child with my current income and I live at my mums lol. I'd like to have kid/kids at some point more to do with the girl I settle down with weather she wants them or not.
 

Amberella

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I'm definitely having kids someday. I want to accomplish things before I have them though. Also have to be settled down and financially stable with my boyfriend. He wants a bastard child though, so we're going to have one before we get married no doubt. :p
 

Kuchinawa212

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I dunno, I wouldn't mind having an heir. I am the last on my father's side of the family. So I gotta pass down the name right?
 

BlumiereBleck

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1. I need a wife or pregnant gf to even consider that!
2. I WILL LIKELY NEVER HAVE SEX :0
3. Yes because i have a plan were i fake a kidnapping for 5 years then come back once the child is old enough to were i do not have to change diapers
Nieroshai said:
e2density said:
Nope.

1. They are the most self loathing "Look at me" bastards on the planet
2. They are loud, annoying, and do stupid things.
3. I can't spank them (goddamn laws)
And worse, they could grow up to be child-haters.
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Tohru_Readman

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Hell no, I would make a crap parent anyway and most kids annoy the living shit out of me after 5 minutes in the same room.
 

Macgyvercas

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I would like a couple of kids someday.

Don't think that will be for a while though.
 

Thedayrecker

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I don't really want kids.... ever.

Then again I haven't met a girl I'd consider having kids with (well, maybe one girl).
 

Kryzantine

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Most kids annoy me when I'm around them, but I'm fairly sure I would ignore that facet of childish behavior with my own children. Not to mention that my partner would be doing most of the raising.

What the hell, I could have 11 children and as long as I can manage it financially, I'd even probably enjoy having them around. Gotta spread my family name and gotta train them to continue my work. My family grew up in a low-medium income environment and I dug myself out of that hole; I'd love to raise my own children in a better environment and give them even greater potential, and pass along my own love for knowledge and finance.
 

Jacob.pederson

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Vault101 said:
So whats your additude toward having kids, or just kids in general, like most people do you want to have kids in the future or would you rather not

For me I can't see myself having kids anytime soon or mabye even ever, but then again its impossible to tell what I'll want/be like in the futre , but right now the thourght of having kids is just......No way

Also do you see the attitudes some people have, that not having kids is somhow selfish? I actually think having kids is much more selfish than not having them (If you want to look at it that way I mean, nothing wrong with having kids) If you were truly unselfish about it then you would adopt , then again mabye this attitude isn;t as common
Reproduction is selfish in the sense that genes are selfish, wanting copies of themselves to survive downstream; however, the many many acts of raising children are the most exhausting labor you'll complete in your life . . . and I say that as a guy who once opened a upscale from scratch Italian restaurant . . . ANYWAYS, whether or not the initial act of procreation is selfish, won't change the selflessness you'll need to complete the job :)
 

The Axon Hillock

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When I have the financial means and care about the right woman enough, I think I want two. Maybe foster or adopt a third. I've always loved kids and can't wait to be in an appropriate situation to have a son or daughter.
 

Gralian

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I absolutely do not want kids of any kind, period. I hate babies, i hate children, i hate that whole puberty phase they go through. I have zero desire to procreate, i do not want that responsibility or money drain and i cannot see the supposed 'joy' in having another mouth to feed. A loud, irritating disgusting mouth that wails like a siren and makes a mess. No thanks.

However, i wouldn't consider a vasectomy ( the idea is just too abhorrent to me ) though it's not like it's a burning issue for me anyway - i'm not exactly sexually active and i'm only 20. Got a ways to go yet before i (if?) "settle down" with someone who will inevitably pressure me to make a lovechild in her belly.