teisjm said:
Xerosch said:
But I think it's worse when a band comes out the underground that you've followed for years and suddenly everyone looooves their songs Y-Y
I've never understood this, even though i've seen/heard that point of view before
No disrespect, just guessing here, but is it cause it makes you less special/individual/repelish or something? Or is it just resent for the majority, and and unwillingness to be in the same boat as them?
I'm not tryng to be rude, i just don't understand
No problem, let me try to explain this from my point of view (though it may become a bit theoretical now):
This is not a general rule, but true for my favourite songs. When I listen to a song I choose it consciously. There are special moments, memories or feelings that a song evokes and so I do not want to listen to the melody on every possible occasion.
When a particular song gets into heavy rotation on TV or the radio, something that has a special meaning is taken from me and gets omnipresent. The song looses it's appeal and becomes 'meh'.
I don't think it's about being special (your 'personal songs' find you instead of the other way around), I just can't shake the feeling that the music is not treated with the respect it deserves. Try to imagine a song you listen to in private is played in a cheap commercial, bad movie trailer, cheesy TV drama or in a disco with drunken bastards around you.
As I don't listen to radio and rarely watch any kind of music channel I don't experience this often, though.