He kissed her

[Viedrick]

HA inever kissed a girl and i never had a girlfriend
TAKE THAT non virgins

I don't know if thng thats something to be proud of but im going with you. Thank god i dont have problems like this.

Yea, I wouldn't really brag about being a virgin, but I think there is too much stigma attached to it. It's really not that big a deal unless you get to mid-20s and you still havent gotten any. I've read a lot on this forum but I rarely post, but from what I've seen most people here seem to be young teens, so if you a virgin, take it from a mid-20 aged dude that take your time and don't sweat it. I didn't lose mine until I was 17.

 

[Alon Shechter]

What sort of kiss?

My question is where was the kiss?

Touche!

This is an important question

Well, the girlfriend of a friend of mine tried to grab my shmuck, if that counts.
Which is very weird since it was the first and only time we met.

 

[General_Potatoes]

HA inever kissed a girl and i never had a girlfriend
TAKE THAT non virgins

I don't know if thng thats something to be proud of but im going with you. Thank god i dont have problems like this.

Yea, I wouldn't really brag about being a virgin, but I think there is too much stigma attached to it. It's really not that big a deal unless you get to mid-20s and you still havent gotten any. I've read a lot on this forum but I rarely post, but from what I've seen most people here seem to be young teens, so if you a virgin, take it from a mid-20 aged dude that take your time and don't sweat it. I didn't lose mine until I was 17.

I don't think i'll lose mine that early.

 

[Viedrick]

I got a friend that's still a virgin and he's 22, but really pretty lame with the ladies, you got your whole life, your sex life is only one part of it. There really are WAAAAY more important things to worry about that I wish I had taken care of instead of chasing tail.

EDIT: Also, I'd like to add that most virgins are smart guys that are too shy to approach woman, my advice to win out on the guys that always got the chick but was a piece of crap, go to college, do really good (maybe work up the courage to bang a chick while your there but if you don't continue reading) and get a bad ass job that makes a high 5 or 6 figure sallary.

Then buy a Mitsubishi: Evolution, pimp it out, and you will have girls throwing their panties at you.

 

[Viedrick]

[/quote]I am 22, and still a virgin. I pretty much gave up all hope several years ago, and you cannot understand how much I despise and utterly loathe when people talk about sex and relationships. I wish, so hard, that I could be isolated and that I could hide away from people.

I hate people.[/quote]

Dude, your goin down the wrong path, its easy to lose your virginity. Just convince a friend of yours to go to a bar with you, (don't get there until around 10 or 11 so the girl will be nice and drunk by then), find the hottest girl there and ask her if she wants to leave with you, literally, you will get some dumb or mean looks, but alot of chicks dig boldness. Start hottest then work your way down. If you have to get the fat drunk chick puking everywhere, she is goin I promise. Like I said, its not the most important thing in your life, but its definantly in the top 5.

EDIT: Also, this involves you getting liqoured up, you get a +2 to charisma when you do.

EDIT 2: and also again, judging by the number of posts you have, you spend way too much time on the computer (I can't really judge anyone, cuz I spend like 3 hours a day gaming) and you should be spending your off time from work getting out and meeting people. Anyone at all, work on your social skills, (this goes for everyone really, its the key to life, school, jobs and women) hell start by hanging out at Gamestop or some mall shop and chit chatting with the chick that works there. Yea she might be a weird goth lookin chick (freaks in bed), but at least your getting experience. So what if you stutter and look dumb, practice makes perfect.

But this is all easy to say, doing it IS HARD, but I do have social anxiety disorder like hell, but I get over it one day at a time (find a fat chick that's no pressure to flirt with, if your a fat chick, SORRY... I like thick girls more than skinny ones anyhow), that's why this topic is interesting to me, and plus I've taken enough aderhol to make it impossible to sleep.

 

[tomtom94]

My ex-girl friend cheated on me while I was at basic training for the Army. I didn't know, I came home and we continued our relationship for about a year, I found out from a friend (he had evidence, he wouldn't lie about it) and I decided to get revenge, so I cheated on her for like 6 months and broke up with her lol

Way to be the better person there then. Seriously, revenge in relationships is just going to hurt people. How do you think the girl you were cheating with felt?

OT: I had a friend admit to me that one of the reasons he asked a particular girl out was cause he knew I wanted her as well.

But it was only a minor crush so...no REAL biggie.

 

[Viedrick]

My ex-girl friend cheated on me while I was at basic training for the Army. I didn't know, I came home and we continued our relationship for about a year, I found out from a friend (he had evidence, he wouldn't lie about it) and I decided to get revenge, so I cheated on her for like 6 months and broke up with her lol

Way to be the better person there then. Seriously, revenge in relationships is just going to hurt people. How do you think the girl you were cheating with felt?

OT: I had a friend admit to me that one of the reasons he asked a particular girl out was cause he knew I wanted her as well.

But it was only a minor crush so...no REAL biggie.

Look man, relationships ain't that serious to me. I had my heart broken long ago as a teenager and I found out that most girls (and guys) don't really want a long-term relationship anyhow. They may find a guy they want to marry, but eventually will cheat cuz everyone gets bored of the same partner after years on end. Its natural. I've cheated on every girl friend I've ever had (also, after the break up I usually hear from friends the girl at the time would be in the bar without me ever knowing soooo....), that's why when I found out she cheated, it wasn't no biggie too (although, I hadn't cheated on her yet at the time when I left for basic)

 

[AlexWinter]

I was out with my girlfriend when she told me she really liked me a whole lot, but she promised her twin sister she wouldn't kiss me, ever. I'm still with her.


Wtf?

 

[open trap]

What sort of kiss?

My question is where was the kiss?

Were the average kiss goes, on the lips

 

[Manicotti]

I have lost/am losing two relationships, primarily online, due to other guys stealing them because I am neither close enough or secure enough to be taken seriously, apparently. You would think I'd learn.

Two relationships over the internet at once? You shouldn't be too surprised about how that's turned out...

Of course not. There is a three-year span between the two. I just used both tenses for accuracy.

 

[PeePantz]

What sort of kiss?

My question is where was the kiss?

Were the average kiss goes, on the lips

Then you shouldn't get so beat up over it. It could have been much worse. You're also fourteen and right now, and your friend kissing your girlfriend seems like the absolute low. Trust me though, as you get older, you'll realize that although it was a dick move, it's not terrible. It's not worth losing a friend over something that, in the long run, is very trivial.

I am 22, and still a virgin. I pretty much gave up all hope several years ago, and you cannot understand how much I despise and utterly loathe when people talk about sex and relationships. I wish, so hard, that I could be isolated and that I could hide away from people.

I hate people.

You could have easily hid yourself from this thread. Once you popped in, you should have popped right out.
Also, I'm not huge on the abundant amount of sex talk but if it's a conciliation, those who talk most about it are usually as sexually experienced as you.

Don't hate people, hate the game. (I lost)

 

[laststandman]

I used to have this girl in London (I live in New York), and we were in a long distance relationship. We both sort of knew it was one, but neither of us said it. Eventually she did and then once she did, I began o get really pumped up for camp (which was the next place I would see her). Three weeks later, I head up to camp and what do you know? She decides "Oh nevermind, I decided you were too smart for me" TOO SMART

Emily, thank you very much for wasting a whole goddamn year of my romantic life. Thank you for making me blow 200 dollars on tickets to Hair (which I didn't even like that much). Thank you for first taking away our relationship and then telling me that in 2012 I couldn't stay at your house for the Olympics, meaning I would have to pay for a hotel which is going to be expensive as hell at that point. Never talk to me ever again.

Edit: OT: No, I have had no such experience. Sorry to use your relationship thread as a forum for my own micro-rant

I'm sorry for finding that amusing but that has got to be one of the best examples of a guy getting played by a chick and winding up with nothing to show for it and her reason for ditching you was beyond epic in terms of douchebaggery.

Be amused to your heart's content. In fact, if you are amused by it, that's a good thing. It means something came out of it.
But seriously, that was the dickest move anyone has ever pulled on me. The one good thing that came out of it was that I ended up being really good friends with this other girl I had known before. It's complicated how that part happened, but I'll leave it at we are great friends now. In my opinion it's a bit better that things didn't work out because Natalie and I are the greatest of friends now. Plus long-distance sucks.
Still I'm proper pissed about the way it happened.
Otherwise, does anyone live in London and would be willing to let me crash at their house in 2012? This little situation left me out of a place to stay.

Exhibit A: The cause of asexuality; also known as "giving up".

This will be on the test.

Also the cause of slight Misogyny

 

[Ham_authority95]

I have lost/am losing two relationships, primarily online, due to other guys stealing them because I am neither close enough or secure enough to be taken seriously, apparently. You would think I'd learn.

Two relationships over the internet at once? You shouldn't be too surprised about how that's turned out...

Of course not. There is a three-year span between the two. I just used both tenses for accuracy.

Okay...I didn't read that clearly enough.

 

[ALuckyChance]

Not really, but that's because I'm only a lonely goddamn thirteen year old.

Personally, though? I don't see why you'd not talk to the guy. People have feelings, theirs just happened to be a bit more tangled up in your own. Even if he was sure your ex-girlfriend would be cheating on you, so what? Life isn't like in the movies or tv-shows, where you put your friends above all else. Affection, even simple lust, can overcome anything if strong enough. What if he loves her? Would that still warrant your anger?

Ach, sorry. I get tangled up in tangents a bit too often sometimes. Still though, something to think about.

I know you've said that you're only 13, but still... I sincerely hope you figure out that this *isn't cool* before you and your mates get to 17-18... Girlfriends and sisters are red-flag until the guy in question OK's it. Even then you need to be careful as hell in case you overstep the mark. I have to say though, what did the OP's other mates say about it? Surely someone must have seen something... Oh well.

OP: She's an idiot, you sound better off without her to be honest. As for him... more power to you for leaving it at not talking to him. I've seen black eyes and missing teeth over much the same situation.

Oh, of course he was right for breaking up with her, but it might be better to understand the situation fully rather than writing up the whole thing as 'OMG trust broken, (defriend from MySpace).' Similarly, because a woman cheated on you does not necessarily mean she's a horrible scumbag; that opinion goes against reason and belies a deep misunderstanding of what love/lust IS. Same thing applies to the male.

 

[wordsmith]

Not really, but that's because I'm only a lonely goddamn thirteen year old.

Personally, though? I don't see why you'd not talk to the guy. People have feelings, theirs just happened to be a bit more tangled up in your own. Even if he was sure your ex-girlfriend would be cheating on you, so what? Life isn't like in the movies or tv-shows, where you put your friends above all else. Affection, even simple lust, can overcome anything if strong enough. What if he loves her? Would that still warrant your anger?

Ach, sorry. I get tangled up in tangents a bit too often sometimes. Still though, something to think about.

I know you've said that you're only 13, but still... I sincerely hope you figure out that this *isn't cool* before you and your mates get to 17-18... Girlfriends and sisters are red-flag until the guy in question OK's it. Even then you need to be careful as hell in case you overstep the mark. I have to say though, what did the OP's other mates say about it? Surely someone must have seen something... Oh well.

OP: She's an idiot, you sound better off without her to be honest. As for him... more power to you for leaving it at not talking to him. I've seen black eyes and missing teeth over much the same situation.

Oh, of course he was right for breaking up with her, but it might be better to understand the situation fully rather than writing up the whole thing as 'OMG trust broken, (defriend from MySpace).' Similarly, because a woman cheated on you does not necessarily mean she's a horrible scumbag; that opinion goes against reason and belies a deep misunderstanding of what love/lust IS. Same thing applies to the male.

You're right, she's not a horrible scumbag. She's a cheating cow. She's agreed to a mutually exclusive relationship with the OP, and she's then broken that agreement. Screw being reasonable, she's messed with this guy's emotions and deserves to be curbstomped for it.

As for the guy... Again you're technically right. A guy will do stupid things in the name of lust. The problem is that he's NOT "the male" in this situation. He's supposed to be a friend of the OP's. Assuming that he knew about the relationship, that's class A douchebaggery. It's not a case of trust broken, it's a case of not handing him the knife back and turning around to give him another shot at your spine.