Heartbreak
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I got dumped over MSN after a one year relationship. That was nice *sarcasm*.
I'm still feeling quite bitter and angry about it. Her friends didn't like me because I never followed the crowd with my interests. She was then influenced by her friends and dumped me because they didn't think I was right for her.
I got beat up for her as well but I don't really want to delve into that.
I'm still feeling quite bitter and angry about it. Her friends didn't like me because I never followed the crowd with my interests. She was then influenced by her friends and dumped me because they didn't think I was right for her.
I got beat up for her as well but I don't really want to delve into that.
If it was possible, don't you think those people without friends would have already done that? In other words, it's like saying "the way to stop being afraid is to face up to your fears". Sure it sounds good, and for alot of people it's probably not a problem, but if it was that easy for the people who were struggling with it, they wouldn't be struggling with it... you see my point ?Amnestic post=18.71436.729640 said:
My best mate came home to find his wife burning his vinyl collection in the back garden. How you manage to meet a girl and not find out shes a) a born again christian and b) stopped taking her meds to cure her mental problems because god would save her.
when he tried to stop her she slashed him across his arm slicing through the muscle for which he still needs physio. He bodily threw her out of his house ended up in anger management for nine months court appointed. His mrs published the story in a womens magazine which meant he lost his job and is still unemployed!
Oh and to top it off he got a two hundred pound fine for living in a smokeless zone, thats the bit I found hilarious.
Hope this helps a bit, things can be alot worse for other people and if you have as dark a sense of humour as me you may find patches of that funny. Although it wasnt at the time.
Oh and unlike everybody else I suggest no alcohol, answers are not found at the bottom of a pint
when he tried to stop her she slashed him across his arm slicing through the muscle for which he still needs physio. He bodily threw her out of his house ended up in anger management for nine months court appointed. His mrs published the story in a womens magazine which meant he lost his job and is still unemployed!
Oh and to top it off he got a two hundred pound fine for living in a smokeless zone, thats the bit I found hilarious.
Hope this helps a bit, things can be alot worse for other people and if you have as dark a sense of humour as me you may find patches of that funny. Although it wasnt at the time.
Oh and unlike everybody else I suggest no alcohol, answers are not found at the bottom of a pint
At the ancient age of 25, 
I've noticed happily that I'm sort of being able to start to avoid people with alot of baggage, and conversely know not to try and go after someone if i detect too much of my own. Getting together for love is a great idea, but i think what keeps people together in the very long run, I've heard time and again that although someone wonderful to love is great, a flawed person to share your routine with is what you really need. Still, though man getting dumped blows. The feeling that your very best just falls short is about as low as it gets. You probably know this now, my friend but romantic decisions on drugs or alcohol are bad, bad, idea. I had a romantic debacle myself because i realized i was still in total love with an x-gf while i was under the rather heavy influence of MDMA, a.k.a. XTC. Hang in there...
-KP
I've noticed happily that I'm sort of being able to start to avoid people with alot of baggage, and conversely know not to try and go after someone if i detect too much of my own. Getting together for love is a great idea, but i think what keeps people together in the very long run, I've heard time and again that although someone wonderful to love is great, a flawed person to share your routine with is what you really need. Still, though man getting dumped blows. The feeling that your very best just falls short is about as low as it gets. You probably know this now, my friend but romantic decisions on drugs or alcohol are bad, bad, idea. I had a romantic debacle myself because i realized i was still in total love with an x-gf while i was under the rather heavy influence of MDMA, a.k.a. XTC. Hang in there...-KP
Ah unlucky man unfortunately you just gotta forget about stuff like that and move on asap. I've spent far too long dwelling on women that felt things weren't right hoping that something might happen again and it just gets you nowhere but into a spiral of depression.
I know a friend of a friend that was once dumped mid-coitus, which although admittedly funny, was unbelievably harsh if that makes you feel any better.
I know a friend of a friend that was once dumped mid-coitus, which although admittedly funny, was unbelievably harsh if that makes you feel any better.
I fell madly in love with a girl in high school who was way out of my league. I got drunk at party, probably the last one that my class would have, and confessed to her the way I felt. She just gave me this weird look, turned around, and walked away. Needless to say, I was crushed.
My only advice is: Just try and remember that time will heal all your wounds. Sometime in the future, you will be over it.
My only advice is: Just try and remember that time will heal all your wounds. Sometime in the future, you will be over it.
My philosophy is "Why would I want to be with anyone who doesn't want to be with me"? Don't know if it helps, but in my opinion you dodged a big bullet. You could have been together for years, had kids together, before she decided to move on. I know a couple guys who came home to find themselves locked out of their own homes.jim_doki post=18.71436.723887 said:
Oddly enough I've never actually been dumped in half a century, although even an amiable divorce without children is difficult enough. So if I underestimate the difficulties involved, sorry, man. I do feel for you and wish you the best.
You know, these are the times I'm glad I've never gotten into all this "love" nonsense. Sounds totally not worth the trouble. Could be wrong, though.
On topic, that really sucks man. I can't offer any advice, though. Sorry.
On topic, that really sucks man. I can't offer any advice, though. Sorry.