Fuck, first of all don't listen to anything else in this thread. I'll try to keep it simple for you. You can't worry about what it is you're gonna do and say and how to ask her out or whatever else you have in your head thats got you sick with how much of a failure you are as a man. You're probably not too good looking, not rich, and basically you're a little virgin nerd. This is all easier than you might think to correct- if you follow a few basic steps.
1.Fix your posture, assuming you're somewhat through puberty, stand up straight with the top of your neck in line with the rest of your spine. Don't sulk your shoulders forward. You should not find this difficult or straining its how you're supposed to stand. You'll notice immediately that your breathing has become deeper into your stomach and your voice flows deeply and booming like a man, as it should.
2.Your body and looks are semi-important so start running every day and get into boxing or weightlifting or anything you pansy.
3.clip your stupid fucking haircut OFF.
4.Get a job. Job = money, money = freedom from your parents house, when you can be out getting laid plus you'll be able to buy a car pretty soon.
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PROFITS
now, DONT THINK about any of this stuff so far. JUST DO THEM, as soon as you can. get it?!?!
how do you deal with girls? you simply get what you want from a girl the same way you deal with any other person, with direct verbal and body language based communication. i dunno how to spell this out clearer for you. approach and talk to her like you actually mean it.
what to say and do is a huge mind game that you should become enlightened to at some point in your social maturation. you make girls laugh, you dont give direct answers at first, you dont bore them with your stupid shit, you challenge them to be good enough for you, you test them with questions and ask them shit that you dont really care about because it makes them feel good to babble about bullshit. after a reasonable amount of deliberation and demanding from you you should withhold attention if you arent getting the right responses or put them down if they think they are out of your league. some general rules on converation with teenage girls is to tell them how sexy you think they are and that you want to use them- doing this right off the bat is extremely effective, as is talking with groups of them by yourself. girls at that age arent as big of whores since theyre so young, all they know is that they like attention and you can manipulate them extremely easily. they will respond to you, they have no choice as women. talk with her a while one day and all of a sudden tell her she should make out with you. you cant possibly fail and if you do dont feel bad and dont feel bad about the lies you told her or anything else from now on. just learn how you fucked up and ended up in her friend-zone and dont do it the next *****. in fact go call up her best friend.
