Help me see into the mind of a guy.

[Meander112]

I don't have the time to read through all the suggestions, so I'll go with my own.

What would probably work best is to go up to the boy after class and talk to him about the class you're in. If you're confused about something, ask him about that. If you are a math-wiz and don't have any problems, ask him how he's doing in the class. You have that common ground to start a conversation with him. Just talk and see what happens. Don't try to bend his ear for a long time, just chat with him for a bit that first time.

Then, if you liked what you heard, talk to him more after the next class. If you still like him after a few after-class chats, suggest that you get together for a study session or the like. If that goes well, ask the boy out!

If nothing else, doing such things will prepare you for chatting with potential romantic interests in the future, and that's something that only gets easier with practice. Trust me, I know whereof I speak.

 

[Sacman]

Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

wait... I thought it only applied to boys...<.<

OT: last time I got caught staring at a girl I liked I got beat up in the parking lot by her brother...

 

[Turbo_Destructor]

he find you attractive, but maybe isn't confident/rude enough to openly stare at you. Plenty of guys do this, including me

 

[ShadowsofHope]

My advice would be on par with Trivun, here.

..And darn it, none of them ever did it to me during my high school years! >_<

 

[Rofl-kamikaze]

make sure the clocks not behind you XD

Lol,isn't that an Alien Vs. Predator 2: Requiem reference?

OT: He is attracted to you in some way, be it physically or any other way... Good luck!

 

[Frozen Donkey Wheel2]

Well, it means one of two things:

1. He likes you.
2. He's horny and you're the hottest girl in the class. It's sad, but true.

 

[Ithera]

Well, a little late to add anything constructive. I believe you have been given the answer.

 

[nuba km]

he at least things you look good but you need to give more info because if he is someone like me he is just looking round the room a lot and this could all be coincidence or maybe he is looking at someone else and doesn't want you thinking he is looking at you so ya really give more info.

 

[Ara69]

Maybe he is imagining you being eaten by tiny evil butterflies! Or was that just me?..

 

[Brightzide]

Throw him a curve ball and go talk to him, make him panic...watch him squirm. Girls find it hilarious usually and you should be no exception. And if he turns out to be alright and he does actually like you...well...see where it goes from there.

 

[Kragg]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

did you accidentally start a staring contest !? this happens to me all the time

say im just spacing out, looking at random things, accidentally make eye contact with someone, now it's on !
wait, did i look first? did this person look at me first? better check a couple more times to make sure ....
ok, after staring for a good 90 hours im pretty sure the other person started this .... no wait ... hmm

really though, most people think he's interested, maybe he is, maybe he isnt, just go talk to the guy, making new friends in college is always a good thing right.

exept if you turn up in some guys freezer cut in a million pieces, then i take all this back

 

[thahat]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

yes, yes it can XD
its falls under flirting XD, you can always go upto him after class or anything and go like, hi!, like the view ^^? saw you looking and i thought id say hi...
afterwards, improvise XD

 

[Exia91]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

Oh yes. Staring is the way to mke first contact. guys do it just as often as girls do. Now the thing is, he's probably shy, hence he looks away when you look back. If you are interested, look backand give him a quick but 'real' smile. He looks for conformation that you like him as well. If you are not interested, ignore him and he'll stop.

my 2 cents

PS: I'm a guy and got into a relationship after the girl smiled at me, i just didnt want to 'jump the gun' cuz I was scared of being turned down. So I sorta know why he does that, I did EXACTLY the same. Have fun

 

[Uncreation]

Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

wait... I thought it only applied to boys...<.<

Oh, come on! It applies to all people. So, yeah OP, by what you've tod us so far, i think he likes you. But yes, he might not have the confidence to talk to you. If you like him, and are confidant enough to talk to him, do it.

 

[Biosophilogical]

I'm probably a bad reference for this kind of stuff, but normally when I keep looking at someone, or do something socially suggestive, it's because I look at them once (or do something once), realise I shouldn't do it because it might be taken the wrong way, and end up doing it because I can't stop thinking about how I probably shouldn't do it.

So, in normal person speak, that's like "He looks at you, realises he is and that you noticed, and can't stop looking at you because he wants to know if you are looking at him/he tells himself not to look at you because you seeing him do it made it awkward, but because he is constantly thinking about it, it is like being told not to think something: you find yourself thinking about it"

 

[Nomanslander]

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

Girls do that too? I thought it was just a guy thing, a nerdy guy thing who is destined to die alone..=P

Anyways, I thought girls start acting snooty when they like a guy, like they don't want to admit to it even to themselves, and you have to keep egging them (not too much)until they come around.

But then again my impression of women is they're all stuck up and man-eaters, and I'm on the borderline of becoming a bitter misogynist, so what do I know.....XP

 

[Nouw]

Sounds like he likes you but doesn't have the balls. Maybe make the first move?

 

[Jackalb]

The guy's a psycho bring mace next time.

 

[DigitalSushi]

Alright, I need your guys' opinion on something.

There's this guy in my college math class who's always staring at me. We sit on opposite sides of the room, and I'm constantly catching him looking over at me. I'm one row behind him, on the opposite end. Unfortunately, I've never really had the chance to talk to him or anything like that.
Note, if it helps: Yes, he looks away when I look back. Dunno if that's a good or bad thing.

My sister is convinced he's got a thing for me. I'm not sure, and I don't want to try anything and sort of "jump the gun," so to speak.

So, I'm asking you guys because I don't really know how the male mind works with that sort of thing. Can staring really equal interest? I thought maybe it was only girls that did that, but I could be wrong...
Help me, please? :/

He likes you and he's shy.

Has [user]Bonsaik[/user] chatted with you yet?, he's our resident relationship expert and all round top bloke, I'm sure he wont mind you messaging him.