I'm a longtime gamer who has spent a lot of time in different MMO's. Don't worry, this post is not going to turn into one of those "hidden bashing of another MMO"-threads, at least that's not my intent. 
My current love is the secret world, mostly because I love the lore, setting and (very important) the levling system. I love the levling system. It's like a game within a game and it makes me all warm inside just thinking about it (*cough* ..time to get back to the point...)
I also thought Guild Wars 1 was awesome, choosing two classes...combining skills...trying to optimize strange combinations and creating wonderful concoctions of strangeness.
My girlfriend is still getting into gaming, she was totally hooked on Skyrim for like 300+ hours and I've been feeding her some bioware games and so on. A couple of days ago she told me about this awesome game she'd heard about and how she wanted to get a gaming rig so she could play it and join a guild and so on and so on. This made me really happy, since I might finally get to actually play a game _with_ her, since she's been more into the single-player games before.
However, it turns out she was talking about Guild Wars 2.
Now, I bought GW2 on the release day. It looked awesome. And I tried playing it. But I just could not get into it. I've been reading reviews about it, people talking about it etc... and everyone seems to love it! I mean, I can see that this game is expertly done. The sound and graphics are awesome, the mechanics that discourages griefing is a blessing, the story seems to be at least "not bad", the crafting actually seems like something I'd like to play around with, it at least _seems_ balanced though I can't say I've played long enough to make that call yet. But I can't for my life get into it!
I _want_ to like this game, but what breaks it for me is - it feels so stupid to admit this - the levling system. From my standpoint, it seems like I can learn all weapon abilities on every weapon my class can use pretty fast, and then they never change? Or do they? I get the feeling that they don't, but I might be wrong? And the non-weapon abilities are so few, so it seems to me like they cannot really add enough to distinguish my warrior from every other single warrior in the game. I love playing around with skills, finding combinations, doing strange builds etc..but I just don't see that there's any space for that at all in this game.
As I said, I really _want_ to love this game. I've played enough games in my life to see that objectively this is a really good game that I am missing out on because for some reason I can't see the forest for all the trees.
_Please_ help me to see the forest. I'm honest to god not trying to start a "compare my MMO to your MMO"-thread here, I just feel that I need someone to help me find my way around this game and point me to where I should look to get the most out of it.
Please tell me your stories about the parts of the game you love. What gets you ticking? What part of this game makes you keep coming back? Are there character building options that I'm missing? Other customization options that could scratch my itch? Or should I just try to let go of that part and try to direct my obsessive need of complex character building systems to some other part of the game like crafting?
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My current love is the secret world, mostly because I love the lore, setting and (very important) the levling system. I love the levling system. It's like a game within a game and it makes me all warm inside just thinking about it (*cough* ..time to get back to the point...)
I also thought Guild Wars 1 was awesome, choosing two classes...combining skills...trying to optimize strange combinations and creating wonderful concoctions of strangeness.
My girlfriend is still getting into gaming, she was totally hooked on Skyrim for like 300+ hours and I've been feeding her some bioware games and so on. A couple of days ago she told me about this awesome game she'd heard about and how she wanted to get a gaming rig so she could play it and join a guild and so on and so on. This made me really happy, since I might finally get to actually play a game _with_ her, since she's been more into the single-player games before.
However, it turns out she was talking about Guild Wars 2.
Now, I bought GW2 on the release day. It looked awesome. And I tried playing it. But I just could not get into it. I've been reading reviews about it, people talking about it etc... and everyone seems to love it! I mean, I can see that this game is expertly done. The sound and graphics are awesome, the mechanics that discourages griefing is a blessing, the story seems to be at least "not bad", the crafting actually seems like something I'd like to play around with, it at least _seems_ balanced though I can't say I've played long enough to make that call yet. But I can't for my life get into it!
I _want_ to like this game, but what breaks it for me is - it feels so stupid to admit this - the levling system. From my standpoint, it seems like I can learn all weapon abilities on every weapon my class can use pretty fast, and then they never change? Or do they? I get the feeling that they don't, but I might be wrong? And the non-weapon abilities are so few, so it seems to me like they cannot really add enough to distinguish my warrior from every other single warrior in the game. I love playing around with skills, finding combinations, doing strange builds etc..but I just don't see that there's any space for that at all in this game.
As I said, I really _want_ to love this game. I've played enough games in my life to see that objectively this is a really good game that I am missing out on because for some reason I can't see the forest for all the trees.
_Please_ help me to see the forest. I'm honest to god not trying to start a "compare my MMO to your MMO"-thread here, I just feel that I need someone to help me find my way around this game and point me to where I should look to get the most out of it.
Please tell me your stories about the parts of the game you love. What gets you ticking? What part of this game makes you keep coming back? Are there character building options that I'm missing? Other customization options that could scratch my itch? Or should I just try to let go of that part and try to direct my obsessive need of complex character building systems to some other part of the game like crafting?
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Help me Escapist Forums, you are my only hope!
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