Help with coming out as Bisexual

[idodo35]

is he bi/gay too? That information is kinda important.

I neglected to mention that didn't I? I'm 90% sure he is homosexual, but I've never asked him about it directly, I have decided that the best coarse of action is defiantly to come out first. Sort of what this thread is about.

come out first but ask his friends if he is gay before u ask him out cause that could get embarassing...

 

[zulu.fox]

I am Bi. I never really had a "Coming Out" , I just only mention it if it comes out in conversation, or if someone asked (It was kinda obvious being in the committee of the uni's LGBT thing ) I dont get that whole "Coming out of the closet" spectate that some people make a fuss about! I know one guy who had a massive party about it. My Advice would be not to ask the bloke directly as it will probably make him feel weird (speaking from experiences. ) Either chat to him and get to know him and he could mention it to you casually, or find out through mutual friends etc. Its up to you to be honest

 

[TheOddOneOut]

So, I've known I was Bisexual for a few years now, and I've decided it's time for me to come out. Partially because there's a guy in my Multimedia class who I desperately want to ask out, but mostly because I'm just tired of hiding it. However I don't have the slightest idea as to how I'm going to do it.

Worth noting: there is a small gay rights group within my High school that I could join, and I know quite a few other LGBT students who I could probably count on for support, but I'm still having trouble deciding on my method of doing so.

This is pretty much the only community I feel like I can go to for advice, all help will be greatly appreciated.

Join your schools LGBT club and meet people there. DO NOT come out publicly (Facebook, shouting out your window, etc). If someone asks if your bi just casually say yes. Its best to come out quietly and casually among friends and word of mouth will help spread it around. thereis considerably less haters that way. The people in LGBT club can help you meet people.

Don't get too hopeful about the guy you like unless you know for sure that hes gay/bi as well.

also:
http://www.gayteenforum.org/index.php

 

[Gmans uncle]

Well, I did it!
It didn't happen exactly as I planned, I attended a vigil for national transgender day of remembrance, only roughly 5 people came other than me, all LGBT, and after all the heavy stuff was over we had a little open mic thing, and I came out to them there. They reacted great, they all said they where there for me, that I made a good choice by telling them, we group hugged, it was great.
I told my mum later that night, she said that she would accept me no matter who I was, and that it might be best to tell my dad over Thanksgiving.
Overall it went pretty good, glad I had you guys for support.

P.S. The guy I mentioned couldn't come that night (he was in Vegas) but I now know for a fact that he IS gay, so I'm probably going to ask him out soon after I join the group I mentioned.

 

[Batou667]

Well, I did it!

Awesome! It sounds like it all went down relatively painlessly. Kudos, and enjoy your new life!

 

[zulu.fox]

Congrats