Homosexuality in ME3

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Vault101 said:
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I hate how it's a fad nowadays to push homos into everything, books, movies, tv series and games. There's always the annoying obligatory gay character.

This turns me off ME3 even more than it being and RPG, it's just a principle thing that bothers me.
I dont think its a fad

also youre use of the word "homo" is ringing some alarm bells

ALSO sure I get get the "token/steryotypical" gay person..but really its just one small thing that makes up a part of the charachter or any person in real life (you know..when done right)
Alarm bells? Has the PC train gotten this far already? People HAVE to toe the pro-homosexual line now or they are an outcast in need of psychological help? I thought we were still a few years out from that lunacy.
eh...

IMO it seems like a knee jerk reaction "AAAAHHH STOP SHOVING THE GAY DOWN MY THROAT!!??" I mean cmon seriously?

that kind feels like me saying I dont want girl-on-girl shoved down my throat...or white brown haired male protgonists

also...I dont know the word "homo" is derogatory, I dont see any reason to use it other than making it look like the user has a prblem with gayness..why not just say gay people?

thats just me anyhow
So you don't approve of people using terms that you don't like and you don't think that people should have a sexual preference, that they should treat homosexuality and heterosexuality as equals. I think you'll find that people prefer what they are which naturally means that they have less love for the other option. It's a scary world where every preference has to be seen as equal. All that would happen is that people would lie to avoid the PC police.
 

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Crono1973 said:
Vault101 said:
Crono1973 said:
Vault101 said:
Delicious Anathema said:
I hate how it's a fad nowadays to push homos into everything, books, movies, tv series and games. There's always the annoying obligatory gay character.

This turns me off ME3 even more than it being and RPG, it's just a principle thing that bothers me.
I dont think its a fad

also youre use of the word "homo" is ringing some alarm bells

ALSO sure I get get the "token/steryotypical" gay person..but really its just one small thing that makes up a part of the charachter or any person in real life (you know..when done right)
Alarm bells? Has the PC train gotten this far already? People HAVE to toe the pro-homosexual line now or they are an outcast in need of psychological help? I thought we were still a few years out from that lunacy.
eh...

IMO it seems like a knee jerk reaction "AAAAHHH STOP SHOVING THE GAY DOWN MY THROAT!!??" I mean cmon seriously?

that kind feels like me saying I dont want girl-on-girl shoved down my throat...or white brown haired male protgonists


also...I dont know the word "homo" is derogatory, I dont see any reason to use it other than making it look like the user has a prblem with gayness..why not just say gay people?

thats just me anyhow
So you don't approve of people using terms that you don't like and you don't think that people should have a sexual preference, that they should treat homosexuality and heterosexuality as equals. I think you'll find that people prefer what they are which naturally means that they have less love for the other option. It's a scary world where every preference has to be seen as equal. All that would happen is that people would lie to avoid the PC police.
So you don't approve of people using terms that you don't like [/B]

well that was just me reading between the lines..pure speculation. And I admit I could be completley wrong, he could have simply used it as a shortener for "Homosexual" and not ment anything buy it, perhaps I over reacted, I just think "why" would somone use that word? like its a little eye brow raising if somone uses the N word to decribe black people

and you don't think that people should have a sexual preference [/B]

uhhh..what? how did you get that? dont put words into my mouth


that they should treat homosexuality and heterosexuality as equals [/B]

ummm...YES actually, depending of context of coarse but to be honest I cant see many situations where its an issue

I think you'll find that people prefer what they are which naturally means that they have less love for the other option [/B]

not entirly sure what you mean by that...I dont think gay people hate stright people (resonable ones anyway)


It's a scary world where every preference has to be seen as equal [/B]

now I would LOVE to know what your implying here...IMO no...its not, gay people are not a "threat" to anything

All that would happen is that people would lie to avoid the PC police. [/B]

"lie"

lie about what? is saying "theres nothing wrong with gay people" a "lie" is that what you mean? or do you mean people have the right to use whatever derogatory term they wish?

also another thing that bugs me

they "they are infecting everyhting with GAY" argument...I dont buy it

I dont buy it because maintream entertainment has been focused on white males for a LONG time...do somthing different? "ohh we cant have that!"

bullshit, that demographic has been pandered too enough, why cant we do somthing different and interesting?
 

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uhhh..what? how did you get that? dont put words into my mouth
Well, you want people to treat homosexuality and heterosexuality equally, hence no preference.

not entirly sure what you mean by that...I dont think gay people hate stright people (resonable ones anyway)
I mean that people have a sexual preference whether you or the PC police like it or not and since it's a preference they are going to prefer it over the other option. Pretty simple stuff.

now I would LOVE to know what your implying here...IMO no...its not, gay people are not a "threat" to anything
You must be thinking the worst. I am not implying anything, I said exactly what I meant. Let me clarify since you are confused. In a world where every preference must be seen as equal, then preference would have to be oppressed to avoid angering the PC Police. I don't think I said anything about gay people being a threat, you need to calm down and read what's there, not what isn't.

lie about what? is saying "theres nothing wrong with gay people" a "lie" is that what you mean? or do you mean people have the right to use whatever derogatory term they wish?
I mean that people shouldn't have to lie to avoid angering the PC Police. Although I didn't say it, now that you brought it up...yes....people do have the RIGHT to use derogatory terms. Not without consequences but the right exists.

they "they are infecting everyhting with GAY" argument...I dont buy it
Don't buy what? Some people don't want to see that stuff. I don't want to see any romance or sex in video games so I can understand.

I dont buy it because maintream entertainment has been focused on white males for a LONG time...do somthing different? "ohh we cant have that!"
Don't watch mainstream entertainment but last I remember, white male bashing was prominent.
 

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If a mod could delete this comment, my computer decided to double post. I know I'm interesting and my opinion should be worshiped, but come on.
 

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Zachary Amaranth said:
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Disclaimer:
I'm not gay, I'm not, what's the word these days, "progressive"? I'm just a fundi Christian who simply wants people to quit giving him weird looks when they find out that I don't damn them all to Hell.
Then you're probably not a fundi Christian.
Do not insult me or other Christians. Most of us try to go through life the best way we can, just like everyone else. I may differ from many when it comes to judgement in the Afterlife, namely, I don't pretend to know what the fuck I'm talking about. But to tell me that because I'm not spouting hatred, means I'm not part of "that group", I find offensive. In the same way that I don't judge Islam by Al-Qaeda, judge Ireland by the I.R.A, or the internet by its trolls, I would like it if people wouldn't judge my beliefs based upon its extremists.

I believe in God, I believe that the world is 6000 years old, and many other such "superstitions". You are most welcome to disagree with me, disagreements breed conflicts, which breed development. All I ask is that with those you disagree with, do not discount them or their opinions offhandedly, and you give them the respect they deserve, that EVERY person deserves.
 

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Crono1973 said:
1. no preference means being Bi sexual..treating them eaqually means that homosexuality is not as some some bizare/freakish defect, just a preference, like some guys prefer thin girls and vice versa

2. yeah..peopel have a preference...so? its still not good to use hate terms

3. so this is acutlaly some fear the Hypthetical threat of "PC police"..what exactally do you mean? we are going to live in a world where its not ok to say you prefer ladys over guys? thats rediculous and not what I ment

4. yeah, and I dont want to see another poorly made female charachter dressed in less than her underware but hey I put up with it

as for the white male bashing...I'm not seeing it, but you cant deny the amount of 30 somthign brown haird white male protagonists cant you? I dont have a problem with them, but hwy not try somthing new?
 

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I am not bothered by this. Though I have never played any Mass Effect game so I can't very well tell if homosexually and alien sex and what not really fits the context of the game or if it's just out of place.
 

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Vault101 said:
Crono1973 said:
1. no preference means being Bi sexual..treating them eaqually means that homosexuality is not as some some bizare/freakish defect, just a preference, like some guys prefer thin girls and vice versa

2. yeah..peopel have a preference...so? its still not good to use hate terms

3. so this is acutlaly some fear the Hypthetical threat of "PC police"..what exactally do you mean? we are going to live in a world where its not ok to say you prefer ladys over guys? thats rediculous and not what I ment

4. yeah, and I dont want to see another poorly made female charachter dressed in less than her underware but hey I put up with it

as for the white male bashing...I'm not seeing it, but you cant deny the amount of 30 somthign brown haird white male protagonists cant you? I dont have a problem with them, but hwy not try somthing new?
1) Most people aren't bi-sexual. Most people have a sexual preference.


2) It's funny you say this because you don't approve of someone saying that homosexuality is being shoved down our throats but you basically say the same thing about white males in mainstream tv.

3) Political Correctness and the PC police are very real. For example, there are plenty of prejudiced people out there, always will be but they wouldn't dare say the N word for fear of losing everything. This will eventually happen where homosexuals are concerned, I just didn't think we were there yet.

4) Doesn't sound like it, sounds like you are complaining about it which is no more or no less than what set off your alarm bells where the other poster was concerned.

5) If you aren't seeing white male bashing in main stream television I suggest you do a google search. I do think you have a problem with it too, otherwise you wouldn't have brought it up and you wouldn't be denying the existence of male bashing. I'd say that as much as some people don't like seeing homosexuality, you don't like seeing half naked women or male protagonists.

Pot meet kettle.
 

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Who cares about homosexuality, what really disturbs me is that anyone would want to do it with a frog with abs (Thane) or a weird bird thing (Garrus) or a blue-skinned cow thing (tali) or a humanoid space squid (Liara). That's what really disturbs me.

Btw CERBERUS for the win!
 

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Well I ain't fussed one way or another, so long as my team mates don't come randomly hitting on me really strongly in a manner that's out of place and character I ain't bothered if there's some homosexual content for those who wanna play their shep that way.

Sheperd being gay wouldn't be a big surprise for me anyways, my sheps been an asexual so far in that he hasn't shown interest in romances, the scene before me2's suicide mission where he was by himself in his cabin cemented that image for me.

Only one that ever got his interest was samara and she made it clear she wasn't up for it ;'(
 

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This subject sure gets a lot of attention. Why do people care so much about one programed image "dating" another image, because they resemble two of the same gender?
Well, the same reason they care about how many programmed images another programmed image can shoot before reloading. Or, say, how many different places a programmed image travels through before it defeats another programmed image.

You putting it in those terms makes me wonder why you are on a gaming site.
Hm, so you're saying that deciding what your character does romanticaly is the same as wanting to win a game fast?
 

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ohhh boy..here we go...

ok as you can figure this is inspried by that little debarcle going on the with Bioware writer..even though apaerently shes got nothing to do with ME3..but thats not the point

now Ill say I know VERY LITTLE about ME3 and i'd actually like to keep it that way [/B] (and yes it seems odd that Im doing an ME3 thread..but anyway), I do know (obviously) that shepard can come out of the closet

so heres what I think

I dont think its really an issue

1. because it was intended from ME1 but obviously they cut it out [/B]

2. you can fuck Aliens...[/B] seriously, take a look at garrus, he's a nice guy but he looks like a velocipator cross with a xenomorph..and femshep can totally get it on with that. Not only Garrus but femsehp can get it on with Liara, oh SURE she's not "technically" female but lets not play around here, thats just Bioware dancing around the issue (and what about kelly chambers? oh right never mind her..move along)

so my point with that is why not? lets make things "eaqual" lets not play around, gay relationships exist, lets not pretend they dont


3. ROLE PLAYING [/B]

and this one I cant stress enough, it seems easy to forget that underneith everything ,ME was originally a role playing game

and there is no "canon"

So that means that YOU decide what shepard is like...My femshep has no interest in Aliens, what so ever, just because the game gives me the option does NOT make it true, she's not going to screw Garrus and she never will or even consider screwing Garrus, or ashley or Liara

so from that as far as Im concerned my Femshep is straight

just like now maleshep and be as straight and gay as YOU want

and thats my opinion..whats yours? (god forbid)

Well, Bioware has shown that it's not shy about doing homosexual relationships when it fitss. A lot of it comes down to them creating the characters that they feel go with the story, if some of them wind up coming out gay because it fits them like with Dragon Age: Origins, then that's one thing, but they aren't going out of their way to cater to specific sexual orientations. I think this is a point a lot of people miss in this ongoing discussion about their games.

The basic arguement is that homosexuals are entitled to representation in the games, and I don't think that's true, nobody is entitled to their group's representation. Arabs, Taoists, and Hindus aren't entitled to a prescence because Ashley is Christian for example, and the same applies to homosexuals.

Once Bioware starts caving into demands it's going to turn the game into a politically correct showcase, as more and more groups demand representation just because other groups are there.

Overall, you might envision your Shepard as being gay, but that doesn't mean that there are nessicarly going to be other gay men around for him to romance on his ship. This isn't even all that unlikely given the numbers. Shepard going around looking to recruit a guy to have sex with on his ship for no other purpose also wouldn't fit with the vibe of the game.

Now this isn't to say we won't see a gay character for a gay male shepard to romance show up at some point if it fits how they wind up envisioning a character they create entirel yon their own without demand. Just that as I understand things, there aren't any such options in the game yet.

As far as the lesbian stuff goes, I'd remind people that there are *3* potential lesbian encounters. Liara we know about, then there is the consort in ME1 who you can pressure into having sex with you, and then there ia our perky little ship counslar in ME2. I think this came about more because in developing characters Bioware felt it fit with what they were working with, than any intentional plan to have lesbian options. They simply decided it fit and defended it.

With the way Bioware's writers work it's possible we'll see a game at some point where you have gay male options, but no lesbian options in one of their games. Only time will tell. Trying to force the issue however is more likely than not to reduce the chances since creativity is rarely forced, and when it is, pandering becomes fairly obvious.

As far as xenophillia goes (Garrus, to an extent the Asari), again because it's a deviant sexual behavior does not mean all behaviors are entitled to representation. It's sort of like saying that because we have this, we should have scat, or hardcore BDSM with shepard dressing up in a gimp suit and being ridden around his cabin or whatever. Not only can you only produce so much content (and romance is a sideline, not a big part of the game) but with thousands of sexual behaviors that are natural to the people who practice them and integral to their identity noone could effectively do them all, and once you make an exception for one, saying it has to be represented, you have to allow them all. To someone into scat that's just as much how they are wired, and natural for them, as someone who is heterosexual, gay, or whatever else. Sexuality being entirely chemical in nature and part of your makeup (ie you respond to phrenomes and chemical triggers, homosexuals respond to those of their own gender) as such it's normal to the participant and part of who they are. Arousal is arousal and it works the same way, and it's impossible to cover every possible way someone could be wired to get the nessicary chemical reactions. There is nothing mystical about sexuality, we understand how it works, and can even control it (by doing things like removing it entirely, by removing the sexual organs preventing chemical reception and transmission, which is how castration works).

Such are my thoughts, my overall attitudes about gay men aside.
 

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I'm not really sure what we're supposed to be discussing here. Are there people who legitimately have a problem with the idea of Shepard being gay or something? I would like to say though that I don't think the Asari being sexless was an attempt on Bioware's part to dodge around the subject of homosexual relationships, if anything it was a way for them to make an entire species that was bisexual.
 

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Volf said:
nope, I ignored the options in the past and I will do it now. The issue I have with the "ghey" option is that its something that I don't feel that the developers need to spend time on. Instead I rather they focus on making sure the game doesn't have any bugs
You really enjoy changing your story, don't you?

Darh Abdomino said:
Do not insult me or other Christians.
I didn't. I said if that was the case, you probably weren't a "fundi Christian." It wasn't even definitive, as per the word "probably."

I honestly don't care what you believe, for the record. You can believe in the Easter Bunny or a flat Earth if you want. You're the one who got hostile over simple commentary. It's like, you were looking for a reason to take offense, even if you had to make it up.
 

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Therumancer said:
Arabs, Taoists, and Hindus aren't entitled to a prescence because Ashley is Christian for example, and the same applies to homosexuals.
Because "Arab" is totally a religion guise.

Crono1973 said:
3) Political Correctness and the PC police are very real. For example, there are plenty of prejudiced people out there, always will be but they wouldn't dare say the N word for fear of losing everything. This will eventually happen where homosexuals are concerned, I just didn't think we were there yet.
Yeah, there are plenty of things people don't say. Examples: "I support Al Qaeda." "You know, Mao had pretty good social and economic policies." "We should burn all books that aren't the Bible." Why? Because most people in our society strongly oppose those viewpoints, and are completely justified in refusing to buy things from/provide political support to/associate with/etc. people who espouse them.
 

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Zachary Amaranth said:
Volf said:
nope, I ignored the options in the past and I will do it now. The issue I have with the "ghey" option is that its something that I don't feel that the developers need to spend time on. Instead I rather they focus on making sure the game doesn't have any bugs
You really enjoy changing your story, don't you?

Darh Abdomino said:
Do not insult me or other Christians.
I didn't. I said if that was the case, you probably weren't a "fundi Christian." It wasn't even definitive, as per the word "probably."

I honestly don't care what you believe, for the record. You can believe in the Easter Bunny or a flat Earth if you want. You're the one who got hostile over simple commentary. It's like, you were looking for a reason to take offense, even if you had to make it up.
what are you talking about?
 

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I'm surprised people actually have a problem I'm not gay but I don't mind having the options
 

Therumancer

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Kahunaburger said:
Therumancer said:
Arabs, Taoists, and Hindus aren't entitled to a prescence because Ashley is Christian for example, and the same applies to homosexuals.
Because "Arab" is totally a religion guise.

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Interesting, I wondered if anyone would catch that, and sort of make a point for me. :)

I haven't been posting as much as I have been for a number of reasons, but one conversation that I've been in has been over the nature of Islam and the theocratic culture through The Middle East that leads to a lot of the problems we've been dealing with. I've been criticized for referring to the culture as "Muslim" when it's largely based on a culture of a large geographic religion where Islam comes from and where most of it is practiced, however it doesn't allow for groups like say Black Muslims who aren't from that region and identify as Muslim while argueing they have an entirely seperate church. In passing it's been recommended that instead of Muslims or Islamics, the label "Arab" be used as referring to those from the Arabian cultures and region... yet unsurprisingly, it didn't take long before someone decided to take offense to that also. :)

Of course in the end I suppose it doesn't matter the left wingers who have these kind of issues intentionally set out to make it a no win scenario to be able to identify and easily refer to the problem group especially seeing as it's so large... which goes beyond the context of this entire discussion. I'm just explaining why I said it that way, now that a point has sort of been made (at least in my own mind) I'm just going to go back to referring to the religious culture in question as Muslim and letting other Muslims declare themselves unrelated offshoots on their own time which I felt was more accurate to begin with.

I don't expect many people to like this point, but I figured it deserved some explanation which is hardly politically correct on it's own since I know people don't like the use of the term Muslim to begin with.

Otherwise, the overall point here isn't that specifically, as much as that when you start saying one minority group is entitled to representation, you wind up saying that all of them are equally entitled. Then you can't do anything without making sure all of your politically correct bases are covered. In Bioware's case they will create minority characters when it fits their writing, but having chosen to create some in the past does not mean they HAVE to create them or that everyone deserves to be catered to, because really I think Bioware was doing their own thing in their games so far, not setting out to make some kind of statement about political representation. Hence why some of their games have homosexuals or minority characters, and others do not.

Honestly I'm kind of hoping they do a sequel to Jade Empire simply so I can start complaining that there is discrimination due to the lack of playable white male characters in the game.... sure it doesn't fit the setting, but it could be written in, and I'm entitled. Not seriously of course but it would be fun for some lulz as a counterpoint to all this entitlement garbage we see elsewhere. Every group thinks there is a reason they should be there and are more legitimately entitled to a place than others, which means it's endless and why pandering has to be avoided at all costs. Let the writers do what they are going to do and create the characers they want for their stories.