Silvanus said:
This isn't true; outside of prologue/ epilogue characters, there are four POV deaths: Eddard, Quentyn, Catelyn, and Ser Arys Oakheart. Arys is a one-off, but that leaves three. Jon Connington's death is also all but certain. It also seems odd to exclude non-POV but otherwise very major and/or sympathetic characters, many of whom die.
I'd literally forgotten that those were POV characters, and in Quentyn's case that was genuinely bad of me because sure, we spent a bit of time with him. However, I'd literally remembered Arys Chapter as an Arianne chapter, perhaps because the purpose of that chapter is primarily to introduce her (a character who is actually important). As for Caitlyn, no. That
specifically does not get to count. You do not get to keep the emotional impact of having killed a character off if you then go and do that.
Silvanus said:
This seems to me a slightly odd line of reasoning. You seem to be arguing that the books frame Tyrion as a hero, but also portray him doing (and saying) pretty dreadful things. That is part of the framing; everything he is shown to do is part of the portrayal.
Sure, but the framing isn't just what the character does in the narrative, it's the way they are presented to the audience. Books are designed to be read, they are not simply histories of fictional events but have to appeal to their audiences emotions and needs. Sure, some people will have a strong reaction to a character's in universe behaviour simply because they are familiar with or have experienced similar behaviour in their own lives, but that isn't a function of framing at all. Framing is the tools by which the author leads the audience along an emotional or thematic journey through the story, as well as the literal things they have their characters do.
And that's the problem here.
Silvanus said:
When a character is shown to act heroically at times and to act terribly at others, that doesn't mean the character is straightforwardly a hero that just gets excused by the author; that's a character with light and dark to them. And, frankly, that's realistic. The alternative is to write a cast of heroes and villains who act solely within their archetypes, which I would find rather staid.
Sure, as I mentioned there are a lot of characters in ASOIAF who do this, who are sometimes bad and sometimes good, or who have comprehensible or even good intentions but are flawed or misguided. The point is that these characters can be presented to us in a wide variety of ways. We can be encouraged to gloss over their misdeeds and to understand that for all their flaws they are sympathetic or redeemable, or they can be presented to us as merely complex villains (as opposed to less complex villains like Ramsey Bolton or Euron Greyjoy). In a multi-protagonist narrative like ASOIAF, a lot of this will have to do with which
perspectives we are allowed to see on a given character.
And here's the thing, the way Tyrion thinks is quite realistic and nuanced. The fact that he is persecuted and emotionally wounded, and the psychological toll this takes on him, is believable. In real life, though, abusive people
are often emotionally wounded and have sense of real or imagined persecution. In real life, abuse, cruelty or bullying is often motivated more by insecurity and unhappiness than by deliberate sadism, because abusive people also need to protect themselves from realising that they are abusive.
But that's all in-universe. As an audience, we only see Tyrion through his own self-narrative in which he is perpetually excused of responsibility for his own horrible actions, but we
never see him from the perspective of someone who is hurt by him, or even who recognises him for what he is. When other characters think of him, they are either bigoted (and, importantly, are supposed to come across to the audience as bigoted) or they find him impressive/interesting/surprising. No character ever stops and goes "nah, this person really is a shitbag". We can infer that this might be what some characters are thinking, but only through Tyrion's own perspective, in which he is eternally absolved of any wrongdoing.
When characters in universe hate or fear Melissandre for being a cruel zealot, they are right. When people in universe hate and fear Littlefinger for being a power-hungry wildcard who will betray anyone to anyone, they are right. When people in universe hate and fear Tyrion because he's an ugly dwarf, they're simply wrong. The audience knows all of these things are right or wrong, even if the characters don't, because they have been lead by cues in the narrative. Tyrions narrative has few to no moral cues to signify that his horrific behaviour is supposed to be horrific.