How Big is too Big, Ladies?

[Duskwaith]

I have always thought that it came down to girth as much as it was down to length.

You wouldn't want to be poked by something 12 inches long and as thin as a hair.

Its just as much about how you use it, as opposed to how big it is

 

[Programmed_For_Damage]

Do you ever think about the size of a man's member? Yes. It helps when fantasizing oral especially.

Does it even matter? I think it does. I've only been with 2 men, but the size difference between them was very noticeable during sex.

Does it make any difference as far as looks are concerned? Indifferent.

Does it make a difference during the act of getting to know one-another carnally? Not really. As long as it's clean, & he knows how to use it, it's all good.

Do you prefer certain shapes, colors, etc? Nope. But a rainbow rod would be pretty awesome!

The last man I was with, who was my last boyfriend, had an above average tool. Close to 8 inches. My very first boyfriend was somewhere around the 6 area. I can very accurately remember how different it felt during sex. While both felt good in a purely sexual way, I have to admit that my last boyfriend could make me achieve orgasm much faster & more often. I can't say if size was a major factor there, yet I'm thinking it had something to do with it.

Heh, I heard it was about width not length. You can only go so far into a woman after all.

It really depends on the vagina, in my opinion. Width is fine too, but it has a similar restriction as length: you can only stretch the skin so far.

That much is true. I've got an above average tool (which isn't saying much considering the "average" is supposedly between 5-6 inches and with my first girlfriend who was 4 foot 11 I couldn't get the whole thing in with her, but with another girlfriend who was 6 foot 1 (I'm 6 foot 3) it was like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. Most of the women I've been with fall roughly in the middle of those two heights and they have fit just right!

In answer to another of the questions, I was very happy with my size and never had any trouble getting the ladies off until I started watching porn a lot. Now I can't help but view myself as inadequate.

 

[Sexual Harassment Panda]

Why do people ask this forum about things like these?

I really do not fucking get it. Just the other day we had a thread where half the user base revealed that someone wanting a child of their own was a completely alien concept to them. AND this forum is like 90% male. AND, according to various polls, like 60% of the people here are virgins. So even if they had a vagina they wouldn't know what's too big.

Because we're all tech-savvy enough to google effectively.

As a man with a purple, triangular dong, I can say that I'm fairly happy with it...even if it does look like I'm smuggling Toblerone in my draws.

 

[Programmed_For_Damage]

Do you ever think about the size of a man's member? Yes. It helps when fantasizing oral especially.

Does it even matter? I think it does. I've only been with 2 men, but the size difference between them was very noticeable during sex.

Does it make any difference as far as looks are concerned? Indifferent.

Does it make a difference during the act of getting to know one-another carnally? Not really. As long as it's clean, & he knows how to use it, it's all good.

Do you prefer certain shapes, colors, etc? Nope. But a rainbow rod would be pretty awesome!

The last man I was with, who was my last boyfriend, had an above average tool. Close to 8 inches. My very first boyfriend was somewhere around the 6 area. I can very accurately remember how different it felt during sex. While both felt good in a purely sexual way, I have to admit that my last boyfriend could make me achieve orgasm much faster & more often. I can't say if size was a major factor there, yet I'm thinking it had something to do with it.

Heh, I heard it was about width not length. You can only go so far into a woman after all.

It really depends on the vagina, in my opinion. Width is fine too, but it has a similar restriction as length: you can only stretch the skin so far.

That much is true. I've got an above average tool (which isn't saying much considering the "average" is supposedly between 5-6 inches and with my first girlfriend who was 4 foot 11 I couldn't get the whole thing in with her, but with another girlfriend who was 6 foot 1 (I'm 6 foot 3) it was like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. Most of the women I've been with fall roughly in the middle of those two heights and they have fit just right!

In answer to another of the questions, I was very happy with my size and never had any trouble getting the ladies off until I started watching porn a lot. Now I can't help but view myself as inadequate.

Yeah! Though now I have to ponder if height factors into things. I'm 5'8 and my last boyfriend felt like he was at the end of the tunnel, if you know what I mean. Maybe that's why it felt so good? XD

Yeah it's all relative I think. With my 4'11 girlfriend if she pushed down while I pushed up I'd drive into the back of her and we'd both be in a very significant amount of pain (her moreso, which made me feel bad for hurting her) and that would end our fun for a while. We just had to be caring and careful and it felt really good
I once heard a sex therapist say there's no such thing as "too big" or "too small" it's how the couple fit together. Different people feel better with different people.