How can I tell if this girl likes me or not?
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1) I did not need most of that information to understand the story. Seriously, the fact that you had maths together but didn't interact during year 8? Completely irrelevant.
2) If you're still not sure if she likes you after that incredible diatribe concerning every interaction you've had for the past three years... just ask *her*. Not us, her. She is most likely to know the answer. Or, if you don't want to have that admittedly tacky conversation, just ask her to start dating you, or be your girlfriend, or whatever the preferred phrasing is amongst English teenagers these days.
The worst thing that can happen is she says no, and you might feel embarrassed for a minute. But then the question is answered, and for better or worse, you can move on.
2) If you're still not sure if she likes you after that incredible diatribe concerning every interaction you've had for the past three years... just ask *her*. Not us, her. She is most likely to know the answer. Or, if you don't want to have that admittedly tacky conversation, just ask her to start dating you, or be your girlfriend, or whatever the preferred phrasing is amongst English teenagers these days.
The worst thing that can happen is she says no, and you might feel embarrassed for a minute. But then the question is answered, and for better or worse, you can move on.
Ask her.
*Turns. Leaves.
Okay. More seriously, ask her out or something. Until you do you will never know unless she asks you.
*Turns. Leaves.
Okay. More seriously, ask her out or something. Until you do you will never know unless she asks you.
For those of you who actually care, I met her again on Wednesday and discussed things with her in the school library after our test (she had another test a few hours later) and things seem to be going very well, but not as quickly as I would have hoped and I haven't received a clear confession yet. I'm going to her house later today.
I don't want or need any more replies to this thread. Some of you have been very helpful, some have been useless such as the guy who said I should threaten her at gunpoint.
I don't want or need any more replies to this thread. Some of you have been very helpful, some have been useless such as the guy who said I should threaten her at gunpoint.
I don't have anything in particular to confess to her... I don't know if you've read my original post, but I'll give you a summary of it: she has possibly liked me for about 2 and a half years and wanted to be my girlfriend and I only just realised and I think it would be a good idea to be her boyfriend.Krois said:
Lol thanks. When I went to her house earlier, we just talked and hugged a little bit so it didn't feel like I'd achieved very much, but we will see how things develop.Evil Smurf said:
Ok before you read the rest of the post lets establish one thing: I didnt read all previous posts, sorry if the following has been said and sorry if i've missed anything.
I'll give you the advice i give everyone:
When you are considering what to do and are overwhelmed by the possible ramifications, dismiss the consequences and have faith in your instincts.
Even if you make a mistake its better to fail on your own terms than to be subjugated to your paranoia.
Appologies for the rather dry phrasing, not sure how harsh the profanity rules are enforced.
I'll give you the advice i give everyone:
When you are considering what to do and are overwhelmed by the possible ramifications, dismiss the consequences and have faith in your instincts.
Even if you make a mistake its better to fail on your own terms than to be subjugated to your paranoia.
Appologies for the rather dry phrasing, not sure how harsh the profanity rules are enforced.
Ask her out.OolongThePig said:
If she says yes great, if she says no. You'll be crushed for a short but don't stop being her friend.
Also, try watching her feet. This is going to sound mad but just pretend I'm making sense.
If she has a very open stance with you, she's into you. People are good at masking all of their body language but they don't concentrate on how their feet and legs are, if she sits cross legged with you, then don't do anything, or if she stands with her feet together same thing, if their is distance though she's comfortable around you and probably intereted, also judging by your relationship description, I'd say you've already been given all the signs you need to not feel bad about mentioning the possibility.
Ask her to go somewhere with you, don't outright say it but try to let her know that you want a date not just to hang out as friends. Ask her questions but not too personal and go from there.