I was 15, I met a girl online, found out that she lived near me and we said we would meet up. I suggested sex since we had been flirting a bit and so when we met up I took her back to my boarding house and we had sex. I had Karate so we went back to my school and after that we foole around a bit in one of the computer rooms.
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I and six or seven of my friends were drunk and high and we all just paired off over the course of an evening
First time was with my girlfriend, we'd talked about it before hand and it was a kinda nervous experience for the both of us seeing as it was our first time..
Although a far more interesting tale is of when I hooked up with a girl at a music festival, we met randomly during My Chemical Romance's set and went back to her tent where we had a bit of a frenzy of vodka and weed. To this day I don't know her last name
Although a far more interesting tale is of when I hooked up with a girl at a music festival, we met randomly during My Chemical Romance's set and went back to her tent where we had a bit of a frenzy of vodka and weed. To this day I don't know her last name
^^ I just wanted to let you know, you made me "Awww!" reading this. ^^Amberella said:- I'm just that awesome.
How did you get close enough to permit the act?
- I just walked up to him and pressed my body close to his. Though he did also pull me close and we had a passionate kiss.
How long were you together before?
- We were together for a little over a year? Though, if it wasn't a long distance relationship it definitely would have happened sooner. The connection between us is a strong one.That and I doubt I would have had the strength to say no to him.
EDIT: We just celebrated our 3 year anniversary of being together February 17th!
Congrats on three years!
Oh, and I enjoyed your overly-literal answers to the OP's questions. ^^ Seriously, this entire post made my day. ^^
With my penis.
Oh right, you meant how did I get to have sex.
Well...
Were you boyfriend/girlfriend?
Yep. For a while actually, although it would have been sooner. There were a few mishaps with condoms... had one that broke immediately, one that was too small, one that felt horrible. We both hated the damned things, so in the end we both got checks for diseases and she went on the pill. It just ended up being simpler.
Howd you meet?
School. She loved metal too so that gave us a starting point and then we got closer.
Howd you get close enough to permit the act?
Emotionally close? Don't know. If you want hints, I can't help you. We had a lot in common and I could make her laugh easily (by being crude or cynical mostly) so that helped.
How long were you together before?
A few months. Like I said, there were mishaps...
Oh right, you meant how did I get to have sex.
Well...
Were you boyfriend/girlfriend?
Yep. For a while actually, although it would have been sooner. There were a few mishaps with condoms... had one that broke immediately, one that was too small, one that felt horrible. We both hated the damned things, so in the end we both got checks for diseases and she went on the pill. It just ended up being simpler.
Howd you meet?
School. She loved metal too so that gave us a starting point and then we got closer.
Howd you get close enough to permit the act?
Emotionally close? Don't know. If you want hints, I can't help you. We had a lot in common and I could make her laugh easily (by being crude or cynical mostly) so that helped.
How long were you together before?
A few months. Like I said, there were mishaps...
Easy for an outsider to say. For awhile, it was all I could think about and it dominated my life. It was not pleasant and just saying "stop thinking about it" doesn't help.jthm said:
Hmm, I almost don't want to share my story because I'm afraid someone will try and replicate it, getting as hurt as I did, or worse. Oh well. I begin this with the caveat of "don't ever do this," but I did it. I'm 25 and was when this happened. For years I didn't believe I was attractive at all. I didn't understand that women found any men physically attractive, let alone that I could be, too. Using this forum, someone put up a thread that said "Am I attractive" and people put up their photos. I did, too, and a couple of females responded that I was cute. This was shocking. This led to me building a profile on a dating website, a practical enough idea. But I also started doing something else.
I went on a porn equivalent of chat roulette (regular chat roulette was heavily censored at that time). I found that through hours and hours of looking at penises, I could very rarely find a woman on there. And sometimes I could get them to talk to me. This led to many, many webcam sex sessions with numerous women. I almost set up an affair with one who lived relatively close, but she changed her mind. Eventually I met another who lived about 6 hours away. This just seemed too far.
But I added her on skype and we talked online for months. I fell in love with her, and she told me that she loved me too. I tried to set things up, but I was terrified. Finally, after striking out on my second date with a woman from the dating site (after months of trying), I felt I had no other choice. I loaded up the GPS, packed my bags, and told her I was going to see her. The drive wasn't as nearly as difficult as I thought it would be. The hotel wasn't that expensive. She showed up and we spent the best two nights of my life together. I don't think I've ever been happier. Not only that, but I was good in bed, which is shocking after 25 years of celibacy. Our "intimacy" would last for hours at a time. She told me it was amazing and she had never experienced anything like it.
After I got back home, I was just as in love as I ever was. I was going to try and get a job and move out there. For once, I had direction and purpose in life. But she had changed. She didn't talk to me like she used to. Her tone was different. She didn't love me anymore. I understood and I wasn't upset about it. My love is not conditional. I wanted to be friends. I wanted to know what she was doing with her life. I'm pretty sure she had found another guy she wanted to be with, and I wanted to know how it went because I want her to be happy. And just last weekend, she deleted me from her facebook. I'm not sure if I'll ever get to talk to her again. Spent yesterday crying.
I don't think truer words have been spoken on the subject than this:zelda2fanboy said:
"Sex is like oxygen - it's only important when you aren't getting any."
I'm not a virgin, but I've been on a dry-spell for over a year now and its driving me nuts. I miss the companionship of a girlfriend and I miss the sex for sure.
I lost my virginity back when I was 17, and being 29 now I've had my share of girlfriends a couple of FWBs and so on. I'll say I can count the number of women I've been with on two hands and leave it at that.
Really I've found the times I've had the most success with women was when I wasn't specifically looking for it, or trying. Its strange - I've never actually successfully "Asked a girl out" - every time I've ended up with a girlfriend or getting laid somehow its always started as being friends and then one thing eventually leading to another and we'd be making out, and then we'd be naked.
Looking back on my life I've probably missed out on many opportunities for girlfriends and hook-ups where when I think about thins in retrospect the girl was clearly into me but I was being too dense at the time to notice (I'm good at that).
Really I think the best advice I can give you is to just approach women without expectations, be yourself, and see where things go.
Hah! I know, right?Liquidacid23 said:a YEAR? ... dude there are these things called hookers... they have been around since mankind decided clubbing women wasn't OK... fix you right up!cynicalsaint1 said:
But no ... not quite that desperate yet, I'd like to be sure that I'm completely out of other options before I give myself over to risking catching tons of STDs and ruining any future prospects I might have.
15 years old. Back area in the school drama department. Girl jumped me and we did it, first time I had sex and first time I released in places a guy shouldn't at that age. No worries no babies. Then a week later I slept with my girlfriend. It was a confusing time for me.
I met someone at a bar and went with them to their hotel. Later it turns out that I was helping him cheat on his wife. Not exactly any pride in having that as your first time
Haha, awesome! Glad to hear I made someones day!Bara_no_Hime said:^^ I just wanted to let you know, you made me "Awww!" reading this. ^^Amberella said:- I'm just that awesome.
How did you get close enough to permit the act?
- I just walked up to him and pressed my body close to his. Though he did also pull me close and we had a passionate kiss.
How long were you together before?
- We were together for a little over a year? Though, if it wasn't a long distance relationship it definitely would have happened sooner. The connection between us is a strong one.
EDIT: We just celebrated our 3 year anniversary of being together February 17th!
Congrats on three years!
Oh, and I enjoyed your overly-literal answers to the OP's questions. ^^ Seriously, this entire post made my day. ^^
I just couldn't help myself, though! lol. And thanks! We had a Disney movie marathon over the weekend for it. :3Also, I love your avatar!! I love Sailor Moon! :3
Honestly, I was like 6 or 7 when I first had sex with a girl of the same age. I doubt anyone wants to hear about that though. It seemed like a lot of kids were playing around like that when we were unsupervised, which is why I don't let mine out of my sight.
First time "non-creepy" I still don't remember how old I was. I think 15, I just remember that I was on vacation in ocean city and the girl I was with was a friend of my cousins. She started rubbing my back when I was watching TV, than...yeah. One time thing, not hot or ugly, just average.
First time "non-creepy" I still don't remember how old I was. I think 15, I just remember that I was on vacation in ocean city and the girl I was with was a friend of my cousins. She started rubbing my back when I was watching TV, than...yeah. One time thing, not hot or ugly, just average.
Uh dude... where to start?zelda2fanboy said:
I wasn't an outsider for a very long time. I was 22 before I got laid for the first time, and truthfully, I despaired at my prospects of ever having sex, let alone with an attractive girl who I cared about. I'm 26 now, had sex with three girls since. It gets easier to recognize signs and make moves.
Now, I know this hurts now, but it won't always. It will sting like a ***** until you make it stop. The best way to do that is "fake it, till you make it". You pretend to be happy. Get out of your house, call some friends, do things with other people as often as you can. You will start to feel better. Turn the fucking internet off. Seriously, this network we have is great for news, communication, learning. It is terrible for getting you out of the house and out of your own head, which is what you most desperately need right now.
In a few weeks, try asking a few girls out. You don't have to love them, you don't have to be even that attracted to them. The first one or two to say yes will help rebuild your confidence in yourself. Don't talk about your ex. or facebook. In fact, leave that whole story buried forever. Trust me on this, if you do what I tell you, it will do you a world of good. If you stay in and dwell on this, it'll only hurt longer and worse.