How do I introduce myself to a girl I like?
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I don't know much about girls...
First off, make
And on that topic, introduce yourself to her like you'd introduce yourself to any other person you've wanted to be friends with. Become friends with the girl. Connect over common interests. In time, and I mean "in time" as in, you need to let this relationship prosper first, make your feelings known. The worst that can happen is her saying she doesn't want to reach that level of relations with you.
Unless his girlfriend's a gamer. Think about THAT.Isgandar said:
And on that topic, introduce yourself to her like you'd introduce yourself to any other person you've wanted to be friends with. Become friends with the girl. Connect over common interests. In time, and I mean "in time" as in, you need to let this relationship prosper first, make your feelings known. The worst that can happen is her saying she doesn't want to reach that level of relations with you.
Most has already been said, but I would like to add something. Watch your stance, body language. Most people tend to walk with their head forward make sure you hold your chin higher then you normally would, keep your shoulders in line with your spine instead of forward and the back of your head in line with your ass. All that gives you a much stronger and confident impression.
Everything else like sharing interests and preferred media has already been said and yes it works.
Everything else like sharing interests and preferred media has already been said and yes it works.
As far as I understand, most relationships don't start out immediately so it's best not to come across as wanting. Introduce yourself as you would to anyone, let them know what kind of person you are and get to know them. If there is any interest on both sides, then it will proceed. If you introduce yourself to her in a way that suggests you just want to date her, then she may feel like you're desperate or something. At least I think that's how it works.
Be open and yourself.Renegade-pizza said:
If "yourself" is awkward, play on that, but don't be antisocial or your 4 years of university will be no different than your highschool years.
There's no easy answer, you need to just look passed your insecurities.
If you really can't get over yourself, meet some friends, go to pub night and get drunk, something usually happens.
Well try to find a good medium first between you too. Like music, movie, activities, games, etc. If you can figure that out just start talking to her or sit near her. Your bound to get in a conversation with her at some point. And just go from there. Worked for me. (Plus she rid my bus (no pun intented) so it was easier.)
first. don't ask for advice from the internetRenegade-pizza said:
second. begin with "hello"
third. act normal, discuss weather, personal preferecnces with regards to hobbies ect
forth. get in a regular groove of seeing her so she is comfortable around you
fith. take her out casually with or without friends too, say the movies
sixth. ask for a more serious date e.g. dinner together at a resterant
seventh. see each other alone
eight. try to test the waters sexually
ninth. if shes willing fuck her (use a condom!)
tenth. live happily and discuss next stages, kids, marrige ect
if this seems long or difficult then may i officially welcome you too dating also success not guarenteed any-one whos says there is a fool-proof way of getting a girl, don't believe them they are bullshitting you just remember to be yourself, be confident and remember it will take awhile to find the right one im 22 and im still looking (9yrs and counting!)
if someone is doomed, is it better to tell them that and allow them fair warning, or refrain and allow thier confidence to build, setting them up for painful falls?
"Hey, my name is _______. How's your day going?"
Rule of everything. LISTEN. Let them talk, then engage in good conversation.
If sex is the first and only thing on your mind, you will most likely never have a successful and fulfilling relationship with the opposite sex.
Rule of everything. LISTEN. Let them talk, then engage in good conversation.
If sex is the first and only thing on your mind, you will most likely never have a successful and fulfilling relationship with the opposite sex.
Generally I find that if I'm around people I don't know I'll usually comment on something thats going on if there is anything or something that I can relate to, so if shes in one of your lessons (or whatever) at wherever it is you're going then just ask her something and then you can get chatting about other things and then one thing leads to another..
So far I haven't actually liked anyone that I didn't know before hand so I don't find it hard to just start chatting to randomers.. its only later on things get awkward..
So far I haven't actually liked anyone that I didn't know before hand so I don't find it hard to just start chatting to randomers.. its only later on things get awkward..
What you need to do is this:Renegade-pizza said:
You get a block of ice and walk over to the girl.
You smash that block of ice on the ground or, preferably, if she's sitting at a table, do it on the table.
Then say "now that I've broken the ice, do you wanna go out sometime?"
Depending on the girl this will either fail horribly or work completely. You'll either be punished for your rashness or rewarded for the sheer testicular fortitude required for this move.