How do you deal with assholes?

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Fiz_The_Toaster

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Mr.Numbers said:
Laser. Guided. Karma.
Oh God, ain't that the truth.

OT: I deal with it with quiet rage and pray silently to the Blood God for revenge, but that's only if they're really being an asshole directly towards me and my friends.

Now, if they're just being a good ol fashion asshole to everyone in and not directly towards me then I just ignore them. No need to give them more attention than they actually deserve. Also, I really don't think being an asshole towards the asshole would really help anything, and then all of a sudden I become that asshole that everyone wants to die, I don't want that.
 

DanielBrown

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Sometimes when I'm about to go off the subway some asshole is standing right in front of the doors, leaving me little room to get off. I always walk straight forward and stop just a few centimeters from their face then proceed to just stare at them angrily until they move.
Once I even pushed one to the side. Not sure why that causes me to get so aggressive, since I'm usually calm and avoid conflics the best I can.

It's not often I get messed with however. Being tall and intimidating has it's advantages!
 

Yopaz

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iBagel said:
FalloutJack said:
I am not very forgiving.

That's about all you need to know.
This is a low content post. Don't do that mods tend to give out warnings for them.

OT: I never really do anything. I get annoyed then I ignore them. If I start getting angry at assholes it wont help me in any way. By ignoring it I can go over to more important things right away. Also I hate confrontations and I'm shy...
 

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Depends. In the cashier scenario, I'd calmly inform them of the line. ie. Give them the benefit of the doubt first, that they just didn't notice. ie. Treat them with a bit of respect. If they don't oblige, I'd calmly force my way in front of them. If they get angry, it's fair to assume that I'd have the rest of the line behind me on my side. So, they'd be totally exposed as a massive dick, and it wouldn't matter.

In general, if someone wants to treat me like crap, I just try to remain objective and emotionless. If you're objectively in the right and you don't rub someone's face in it, they'll usually just back off. Most assholes are just weasels who try to get away with whatever they can, but only if there's no resistance.
 

Zen Toombs

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I just roll my eyes and deal with it. So long as they aren't being a jerk on purpose or repeatedly, I just let it slide.

But if it is on purpose, I vent all my frustration built up from dealing with people who were just making mistakes. It's more fun that way! :p
 

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spartan231490 said:
Some people are not worthy of respect. Respect must be earned, not simply given.
I beg to differ. With that mindset, I don't think I'll respect many people at all. Of course I'm not exactly perfect at doing it quite yet, no not at all but I still have that mindset.
 

neonsword13-ops

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If they're talking shit, I just take it like a man.

If they get all up in my business, I open up a can of "Whoop Ass!"

And by "Whoop Ass!" I meant run away like a coward. I bruise like a banana.
 

LongAndShort

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Depends on the level and context of the assholery in question. If they get abusive, I get abusive back. If they're just generally being dicks, I'm patient. For the most part I don't start things, and I have a very high tolerance threshold.
 

Valanthe

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For me it depends on the situation, for instance, someone butting in line at the grocery store, I'm just gonna laugh and say to him, "Gotta saves those milliseconds where you can eh?" I've had varying reactions to this, some laugh it off, some suddenly realise what they did and apologize, and the rare few get really upset with me for calling them out, those are the fun ones.

I've got far too many stresses in my life to worry about other peoples dickery when it's just a minor inconvenience, but if said dickery directly puts myself or another in harms way, then my fuse is -very- short. For example, when some blonde, barely-got-her-learner's ditz blows a red light because she's too busy talking on her cell phone while I'm crossing with my then pregnant roomate, I lost it, I actually kicked a dent in her rear door as she blew by, which made her pull into a nearby parking lot and then proceed to scream at -me,- which made me scream back, which then attracted an audience, and ten minutes later, the police. no one was injured, but I walked away victorious after -she- got a ticket for blowing the light, which in Canada, means she loses her learners license and has to go through the -whole- process over again.

And finally, there is an exception to my "Minor inconveniences" rule. And that's when I am witness to someone being abusive to a cashier. I think it's simply because I've worked as a cashier for too long, and feel protective of my brothers and sisters of the cash or credit, but if I see someone yelling at a cashier, I get really agitated, to the point I've stepped in to defend the cashier on a number of occassions, and thanks to the fact that I'm just a customer, I get to say all the nasty things I -know- the poor guy or girl behind the counter wants to. I even got a book ten percent off for forcibly marching a disgruntled man out the door, was nice to feel like the brave hero for once, rather than just reading about it.


And wow... this ost got a bit longer than I thought it would...
 

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Valanthe said:
For me it depends on the situation, for instance, someone butting in line at the grocery store, I'm just gonna laugh and say to him, "Gotta saves those milliseconds where you can eh?" I've had varying reactions to this, some laugh it off, some suddenly realise what they did and apologize, and the rare few get really upset with me for calling them out, those are the fun ones.

I've got far too many stresses in my life to worry about other peoples dickery when it's just a minor inconvenience, but if said dickery directly puts myself or another in harms way, then my fuse is -very- short. For example, when some blonde, barely-got-her-learner's ditz blows a red light because she's too busy talking on her cell phone while I'm crossing with my then pregnant roomate, I lost it, I actually kicked a dent in her rear door as she blew by, which made her pull into a nearby parking lot and then proceed to scream at -me,- which made me scream back, which then attracted an audience, and ten minutes later, the police. no one was injured, but I walked away victorious after -she- got a ticket for blowing the light, which in Canada, means she loses her learners license and has to go through the -whole- process over again.

And finally, there is an exception to my "Minor inconveniences" rule. And that's when I am witness to someone being abusive to a cashier. I think it's simply because I've worked as a cashier for too long, and feel protective of my brothers and sisters of the cash or credit, but if I see someone yelling at a cashier, I get really agitated, to the point I've stepped in to defend the cashier on a number of occassions, and thanks to the fact that I'm just a customer, I get to say all the nasty things I -know- the poor guy or girl behind the counter wants to. I even got a book ten percent off for forcibly marching a disgruntled man out the door, was nice to feel like the brave hero for once, rather than just reading about it.


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Just a total agreement with the cashier thing, it's so rarely that person's fault, the reason someone's yelling at them, yet dicks always decide the first person in a uniform they see is the one they're going to blame.

It's why I'm always very polite if I have to make a complaint, because it's nearly always the fault of 'policy' rather than the guy in front of me being a dick.

Also, the higher up the chain you take it, the more likely you are to waste a well paid person's time, instead of bringing down the day of some minimum wage guy who just wants to do his eight hours and go home.

I recently had a small problem with an online ASDA order, and in calling the helpline, I actually felt the relief in the woman's voice that I wasn't about to ***** at her for someone else's failing, and actually dragged out the call a little, just being nice and chatting, in the knowledge that every minute with me was a minute she wasn't being called names.

Kinda off topic really, but yeah, come on guys, remember it's rarely the little guy's fault, tho if they're being an asshole, feel free to let them know it :)