I find it's best to talk to someone who is going to give advice and not just listen. I can't stand it when I'm spilling my guts to someone and they just stare at me, I might as well be talking to my cat in that case -_-. As for what sets me off, I really hate being lied to. I make it a point to tell the truth to people, when it matters. Sure, we all tell white lies, but "I played football in high school" is different then "it's your baby."